Any Ladies Like Limpies?

[KinseyClone]

OK, obligatory disclaimer: I'm posting this question on behalf of a couple clients, not myself. (That's my story--I'm sticking to it--and it's true)

We all know that some women are attracted to ugly guys, overweight guys, or nerdy little guys, but do any ladies have a fondness for men with erectile difficulties? Two of my patients recently told me they've heard that some ladies regard "limpies" as a challenge and/or have a desire to help those so afflicted. Is this true, or is it merely wishful thinking on my clients' part? Any thoughts?

 

[Blueiis]

Wouldn't that sort of be like women who try to "turn" gay guys? I have to admit that "limpies" do nothing for me, but I could see the allure of a challenge, I suppose. Depends on what the guy is like. If being limp is his only problem, I could see working on that.

 

[KinseyClone]

Wouldn't that sort of be like women who try to "turn" gay guys? I have to admit that "limpies" do nothing for me, but I could see the allure of a challenge, I suppose. Depends on what the guy is like. If being limp is his only problem, I could see working on that.

That was my guess as well.

Any more thoughts out there?

 

[Eilan]

Back when my husband and I did some MFM's, we discovered that one of our partners had this problem. The first time we hooked up, he attributed it to performance anxiety because it was his first MFM. We were more than understanding because we were also relatively inexperienced with threesomes, we liked this guy, and we were working on an out-of-the-bedroom friendship, anyway.

However, the more we got to know him, the more we started to notice that his problems probably had less to do with performance anxiety than they did with lifestyle choices, namely a combination of a high-stress government job, high blood pressure medication, WAY too much alcohol, and an unwillingness to take his doctor's advice. He would eventually have an orgasm, though, so I guess he was lucky in that regard.

I think it was also a bit of a blow to his ego that he was in his late 30's and my then-47-year-old husband was outcumming him.

We're no longer in contact with him, and our experience would make me reluctant to pursue this with another partner. I'd definitely ask first.