any hints

[travis00]

I work with this girl we are both in are early 30's when i started this job i was married and had problems i met her and liked her right away but would never cheat on my wife now my wife and i are calling it quits and she now has a boyfriend should i try and see what could happen or should i leave it alone and move on she has told me there could be something but she is not sure cause i wouldnt leave my wife when we first met and now im in her boat waiting for her! just a case of bad luck or do i try and win her over please help!

 

[thirty]

You dislike punctuations?

Do you think your colleague has feelings to you?

 

[Chicklet]

I'd say go ahead and ask her out, boyfriend or no, as long as her rejection won't hurt your relationship at work.

 

[Cathleen]

I work with this girl we are both in are early 30's when i started this job i was married and had problems i met her and liked her right away but would never cheat on my wife now my wife and i are calling it quits and she now has a boyfriend should i try and see what could happen or should i leave it alone and move on she has told me there could be something but she is not sure cause i wouldnt leave my wife when we first met and now im in her boat waiting for her! just a case of bad luck or do i try and win her over please help!

Sorry, but I'm trying to figure out who said what - punctuation man, punctuation - I promise it's not a passing fad.

Let's see if this helps me.



I work with this girl we are both in are early 30's. When I started this job I was married and had problems. I met her and liked her right away but would never cheat on my wife. Now my wife and I are calling it quits and she now has a boyfriend. She who has the boyfriend? Should I try and see what could happen or should I leave it alone and move on? She office woman? has told me there could be something but she is not sure cause I wouldn't leave my wife when we first met and now I'm in her boat waiting for her! Just a case of bad luck or do I try and win her over? Please help!


First things first - office romances aren't all that wise. What kind of work environment do you have?

If your workplace isn't an obstacle they ask her out. She'll say yes or no depending on her commitments.

 

[Cathleen]

dup..

 

[PersianKittie]

It all depends on her relationship with her boyfriend. If it is a seriously committed relationship, do you think she would want to walk away from it to test the waters with you?

No one here is psychic. You should be asking her.

 

[DracheDD]

My advice would be to leave it alone, but I admit I'm a little jaded on the whole workplace romance crap after I almost got burned. So take my opinion with a grain of salt on this one.

I think PersianKittie said it best.
You should be asking her what she thinks.

 

[mjl2010]

Fixing the fixer...

First things first - office romances aren't all that wise. What kind of work environment do you have?

If your workplace isn't an obstacle they then ask her out. She'll say yes or no depending on her commitments.

No coffee this morning.

MJL

 

[Cathleen]

Fixing the fixer...



No coffee this morning.

MJL

If only I drank coffee, perhaps those things wouldn't occur.