Any good humiliation ideas?

gidabe

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Hi everyone. This is my first post. Ive been reading stories here for quite some time but finally joined the forum.

For the longest time I have had been turned on by the cuckold lifestyle. I know my wife and I would never go completely over to this lifestyle, but does anyone have any good ideas for ways my wife could humiliate me. It wouldl be just the two of us, in home for now, maybe more later.

Any ideas or stories would be appreciated.
 
gidabe said:
... but does anyone have any good ideas for ways my wife could humiliate me.
Try posting for ideas on the GB. There are enough angry, semi-literate people, willing to lash out at others who are different, that any masochist into humililation should have wet dreams for days about posting there... ;)

Since effective humiliation play requires a working knowledge of the turn ons, turn offs, and shame triggers in a person's psyche, I'm not able to give specific humiliation scene advice to strangers.

Taking stripping in front of strangers as an example. It does no good to "humiliate" an exhibitionist by making them strip in front of others. They get turned on by exposing themselves to others, there wouldn't be any "humiliation" to it, even if they protest mightily... A BBW on the other hand, who craves humiliation but has self-image/self-esteem issues, might find an order to strip before others to be incredibly humiliating, and thus a turn on...

After which praise for following orders and compliments/praise for her body can help with the self-esteem/self-image issues. Validation by praise is usually a good thing as aftercare for a humiliation scene. That much I can say with some degree of confidence.

Hope this helps, and good luck with your wife as you two explore this facet of your lives!
 
Evil_Geoff said:
Try posting for ideas on the GB. There are enough angry, semi-literate people, willing to lash out at others who are different, that any masochist into humililation should have wet dreams for days about posting there... ;)

OMG! I nearly spewed water all over my monitor!!! :eek:



More seriously, though, gidabe... You need to start with what turns you on! ;) Different people have different likes and dislikes of course! The cuckolding lifestyle/fetish is actually a very complex one and different people/couples have different interests in it.

Reading (both stories on here, and various books or sites online) is a great way to get started and to find out what you're into. :)
 
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