Any Experimentation Regrets?

[macfan2123]

Hi everyone. I'm a bi curious guy. I've only been with women and I love women. I am not emotionally attracted to guys and don't even find 99% of them attractive. But I still fantasize about hooking up with one. I've read the first experiences on here, from guys and girls, and they seem positive. I'm wondering if anyone has ever had any bad experiences experimenting with the same sex? Specifically, I'm worried what people will think, like future girlfriends. So many girls are turned off by guy-guy sex I don't want to freak out future girlfriends. I shouldn't let society shape my path but it's weighing on my mind.

 

[human_male]

If you're worried what future girlfriends might think then don't tell them. It's non of their damn business what you did before you got with them.

I'm in the same boat as you but I'm fairly sure I wouldn't want anything to happen in real life, and if it did I'd probably feel funny about it afterward. I feel funny after cybering with guys on the chat room. It's just something that comes over me when I'm turned on and goes away completely when I'm not. If you do decide to do something just be safe and remember you're not doing anything to be ashamed about. Well, unless you're cheating on your girlfriend but that's your beaf.

 

[macfan2123]

No cheating, not involved with anyone at the moment.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[Samuelx]

Hi everyone. I'm a bi curious guy. I've only been with women and I love women. I am not emotionally attracted to guys and don't even find 99% of them attractive. But I still fantasize about hooking up with one. I've read the first experiences on here, from guys and girls, and they seem positive. I'm wondering if anyone has ever had any bad experiences experimenting with the same sex? Specifically, I'm worried what people will think, like future girlfriends. So many girls are turned off by guy-guy sex I don't want to freak out future girlfriends. I shouldn't let society shape my path but it's weighing on my mind.

One of my ex-girlfriends was turned on by man-to-man action. Yeah, she was alright. Unfortunately, she was also nuts...no, not dangerous, it's just that she saw things that weren't there, ( ghosts, demons, vampires, ect) and all that jazz. A good-looking gal with a hot butt, she was. Very much into anal, which I consider a plus when dealing with anyone, male or female. Now, I'm with a guy and all is well. Don't let society mess you up.

 

[Mikelikesfun]

This is a great start especially for those that are serious about taking things to the next level. I have alot of thoughts just like the ones mentioned and would love to posibly find soemone to take things farther. If anyoe might be interested let me know. I will keep checking the thread.

 

[Stegral]

I was fine with my then B/F's "casual encounter" with a guy he had known for a while. I actually wanted to watch it sometime & he was all for it.
problem is he never told me it was unprotected...
I didn't find out until after we split up.
I am still terrified of what he may have given me & am now being tested every 3 months.
it has fucked up my life for the next 8 years or so due to the dormancy stage of AIDS

PLEASE do it safely.... it is YOUR responsibility as much as his...

Nice AV Bi_Asain_Guy

 

[limplizzard]

none

The first time I sucked a cock I thought that I was going to be gay, I'm not but I still enjoy giving a good blowjob. Of coarse I enjoy eating a pussy too.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[rjp44]

fantasies

I had a lot of fantasies about sex with men while I was married, but never acted on them. I had masturbated with friends in jr. high and h.s. but had had no sexual contact in year. After I divorced in my mid 40's, I decided to explore those fantasies, and I'm so glad I did. I've found that m2m sex is great and I only wish I had not waited so long.

I also wish I had the nerve of asian guy to talk about my sexual preferences and experiences with a lady, but one comment not long after I was dating again went over very badly and I've never told anyone again. Probably my loss.

 

[Samuelx]

Hi everyone. I'm a bi curious guy. I've only been with women and I love women. I am not emotionally attracted to guys and don't even find 99% of them attractive. But I still fantasize about hooking up with one. I've read the first experiences on here, from guys and girls, and they seem positive. I'm wondering if anyone has ever had any bad experiences experimenting with the same sex? Specifically, I'm worried what people will think, like future girlfriends. So many girls are turned off by guy-guy sex I don't want to freak out future girlfriends. I shouldn't let society shape my path but it's weighing on my mind.

Sexually, I do feel attracted to both men and women but to say that I LOVE them would be a grave mistake. I have yet to meet a human being, male or female, worthy of love. Almost every man and woman I've ever met has been wicked, duplicitous, manipulative and deceptive. Humanity is wicked. Its extinction will be better for the cosmos.

 

[sunandshadow]

*tries to figure out why it would be so scary to ask a girlfried if she thought gay guys are hot* Maybe this is obvious, but if you find out whether a girl thinks gay male sex is hot in some context unrelated to yourself, I would think it would then be a lot easier to ask her if she would think watching a bi movie would be cool, or imagining a mmf threesome, or actually doing one... If you think of whatever 'forbidden desire' you have as a big monolithic thing of course it seems scary to reveal, but in real life everything is made of shades of gray and you can safely find out pretty much anyone's opinions about any subject by easing into it, talking about a mild impersonal version first, and then if you continue to get positive responses working your way around to your intense personal question.

 

[Harrowborg]

Unless its perfect, that first kiss is always full of doubts and regrets. I remember when I kissed a guy for the first time, it wasn't all fire works and explosions and remember feeling for the rest of the day OMG, what have I done? am I gay? the usual thoughts that run through your mind. Did I regret it? I regret the panic that it brought me and probably would have prefered in hindsight not to have done it simply so as not to go through that confusion.

but then having a cock up the ass was fantastic so

 

[Jailhouse]

Experimentation regrets?

Oh, yeah. Lots of them.

But that might just be my own private Idaho.

 

[redsox75]

No Real Regrets...

I have had a few male – male experiences and I have not really regretted the deed. Although I have regretted the person so to speak. My first time I found this guy off Yahoo chat and drove almost two hours to meet him. It was my first time and we were both very shy about it so I sucked it up (no pun intended) and literally pulled his pants off and shoved his dick in my mouth. I was so turned on I wound up crawling across the floor on my hands and knees so I could get back at his dick. On the drive home I can say that I felt bad about what I did but I was like “Holy shit I can’t believe I just did that”. Another time I hooked up with a guy and he did not want to do anything to me all he wanted was for me to give him a blow job (which I was perfectly OK with, seeing as I prefer to do the sucking anyway). But he really, I don’t want to say abused me but was pretty rough. He was holding the back of my head and really shoving his dick into my mouth forcing me to deep throat him (he was very large too). He even slapped me across the face once, not hard, when I came up for breath. He wound up cumming all over my face. He made me blow him three times before he left and when he was finally done he told me that I was one hell of a cocker sucker. After that experience I felt totally used and like a complete slut, but I was also very turned on by the way he used me. But that did turn me off from guys for awhile, although I did jerk off a lot to the experience, embellishing it at bit. So overall no I do not regret what I have done with guys.
Although I have not done anything with a guy in a very long time, that is mainly because I am very picky when it comes to guys, I do still think about. I am like you and I do not find guys attractive at all, but I love the idea and the act of sucking dick. I think it is the taboo factor of it. I have never told any female partner about what I have done with guys unless I know for a solid fact that they are very interested in it. It is very easy to pick up on the signs though. All you have to do now is ask if they have seen Broke Back Mountain and ask them what they thought. Although this was a lot tougher before the movie came out you could still ask things like if they have or thought about threeways and what kind. Really just be as vague as possible and gage their reaction and interest. I hope this helps you and I would say go for it, if you don’t like it don’t do it again, but you will never know until you try.