another thread on munches....

[Krinaia]

Okay, Okay, I know there are probably a million threads on munches in the library and plan on reading through all them... and in fact, might even resurrect one or two of them as I find them... in the meantime....


I've learned of a munch in Louisville (where I shall soon be living) and the next munch will be Janurary 3rd. The next after that, Feb. 7. Seems to me, if I can get my act together faster than that and make up my mind and work up my courage - I should check it out.

but first - anyone here have much involvement or experience in their local munches? Anyone have any embarassing encounters (say a co-worker or your grandmother)? Is there anyone here that has actually had encounters with this particular munch group?

Any advice you more expierenced guys/gals might be willing to pass on?

 

[Krinaia]

Okay....

so I did some searching/reading...

for those interested... here are links to my searching...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=204982&highlight=munch

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=195620&highlight=munch

(by the way, thanks sweetdommes for the information on this thread - very helpful)

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76387&highlight=munch

and then there is another by lilredwolph that i have uhm boosted? bumped... rather

i hope this is helpful to anyone else considering this right now...

might be a good new years resolution: I resolve to attend one munch and if it is a bearable experience, two.

 

[lark sparrow]

Which one? Ready to set the date?

 

[Krinaia]

Not ready yet. But I'm thinking. Does it sound weird if I say that right now I feel in flobby shape? My nails are a mess, my hair is bad need of cutting, my skin could use some therapy ... perhaps I should address making myself feel at my utmost before going? Which would mean Feb. 7 munch but I could just go and start making friends you know... and so then I'd go to the Jan 3rd one.


And I'm still not really sure about this munch or about munches in general. I found someone who went to it the last meeting. But he hasn't responded ye tto tell me more about it.

 

[lark sparrow]

Not ready yet. But I'm thinking. Does it sound weird if I say that right now I feel in flobby shape? My nails are a mess, my hair is bad need of cutting, my skin could use some therapy ... perhaps I should address making myself feel at my utmost before going? Which would mean Feb. 7 munch but I could just go and start making friends you know... and so then I'd go to the Jan 3rd one.


And I'm still not really sure about this munch or about munches in general. I found someone who went to it the last meeting. But he hasn't responded ye tto tell me more about it.

Feeling good about yourself is wonderful, but try not to put it off too long on that account. When you go to a munch you will realize that the large majority of people into BDSM are not super models in tight-fitting leather! No rush... just thought I would ask.

 

[Kataklysm]

Thanks for these links.

 

[Krinaia]

Feeling good about yourself is wonderful, but try not to put it off too long on that account. When you go to a munch you will realize that the large majority of people into BDSM are not super models in tight-fitting leather! No rush... just thought I would ask.

Good point. And I could clean up some, get the haircut and do a few facials before Jan. 3rd. Thing is, I'm moving into my new place there the day before... but I'd hate to go a whole month with only my coworker/housemate as companionship.

 

[Krinaia]

Thanks for these links.

I'll try to provide more if I come across them.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Other threads about munches can be found in this Library category:

Event and Locations

~anelize

 

[ghosst_K&H]

but first - anyone here have much involvement or experience in their local munches?

the best thing i ever did was join the local munch group, thats where i met Mistress Karen and Mistress Holly. Unfortunately, that munch group turned into a meat market, and the femsub who runs it uses it to try to get laid, rather than a get together of like minded people out for a nilla night of fun.

i was woefully underdressed for my first munch, i was told it was casual, and wore jeans and a tshirt but had a great experience, and met a lot of wonderful new people.

my advice would be for you to attend, dont be shy everyone there will have the same interests as you.

be yourself, from the posts i've read, you're a very intelligent person, dont be afraid to strike up conversations, and introduce yourself.

relax and have fun, thats what munches are for.

 

[Justina123]

Personally, I've had only good experiences at the two munches nearby (I live in a rural area and have two munches in cities in opposite directions). Since they are usually held in public places, they are pretty nonthreatening ways of meeting people. I'm a bit shy in a crowd, but have found that already knowing that people at the munch share at least one common interest makes conversation a little easier.

And, of course, it still never fails to amaze me that, contrary to some popular misconceptions, and my own misconceptions at the beginning, nearly everyone I have met at a munch is someone who I would "never guess" was kinky...professionals, secretaries, teachers, businessmen, etc. etc. And everyone is generally on the same common sense wavelength so far as not askng things like, "Where do you work? Where do you live?"

Just my personal experiences.

-justina

 

[MastrJ]

What happens at a munch? I've heard about some groups doing demonstrations of toys. I've kind of held off looking for any in my area since I don't really know what to expect upon arriving. I tend to be pretty shy myself in new groups.

 

[Kataklysm]

What happens at a munch? I've heard about some groups doing demonstrations of toys. I've kind of held off looking for any in my area since I don't really know what to expect upon arriving. I tend to be pretty shy myself in new groups.

Seems like the ones around here are fairly quiet (I just missed the last one here but I am going to the next one). Just a casual get together at a resturant.

 

[Krinaia]

Other threads about munches can be found in this Library category:

Event and Locations

~anelize

thanks... i missed it

 

[lassarina]

What happens at a munch? I've heard about some groups doing demonstrations of toys. I've kind of held off looking for any in my area since I don't really know what to expect upon arriving. I tend to be pretty shy myself in new groups.

Munches are usually held in a public place. Its more of a meet-and-greet thing. Its gives them time to check out new members and time for new members to check them out also. We have socials after the munches that are open to new members after they attend several munches. my first munch i said very little since i suffer from shyness also and the Dominant that i enjoy playing with most now thought that i didn't like him! Fetish dress is reserved for the socials after the munches. We look like any other group when we're in public places. Demos of toys and scening are encouraged at the socials. Try one-you might be surprised. i was!

 

[kizzcee007]

Im in UK.....Northants area any munches there?

 

[SierraMoon]

Im in UK.....Northants area any munches there?

Not familiar with the UK, but here is a link to some munches in and around the UK.... i found it by Googling

Hope it helps!!!

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/ubd/munches/

 

[catalina_francisco]

Not familiar with the UK, but here is a link to some munches in and around the UK.... i found it by Googling

Hope it helps!!!

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/ubd/munches/

If this doesn't answer your questions, PM me and maybe I can help further.

Catalina