Another Penis concern

[Thaedes]

Well I'm an 18 year old guy, and in a previous thread I mentioned I get hard rather quickly. Very quickly. Thankfully I found its nothing to worry about. But another issue has been bugging me of late, I really don't cum much. There isn't much fluid, and there is rarely any precum unless I'm really excited over a long period of time. It has me worried, I always feel as though I am less of a guy because of potential penis problems - even though I know it shouldn't matter with a loving partner. Maybe not less of a guy, but less of an attractive guy. I always feel this tremendous pressure that whoever I meet will expect big cock and lots of cum and so on and so forth - which is so often seen in porno's. Yes I know porno's are no guide, but not everyone is aware of that, and pretty much everyone I know has seen some porno by this age.


It just really hurts when you hear women talking about only dating black guys because of the generalization that they all have huge cocks, its just like there is this penis mentality in people and society. Bigger is better. I really don't get it, and in guys I don't get it either - guys who think women should have huge breasts. I don't care if a woman has big breasts or not, its superficial. But I suppose I can't expect people to think like me.

I needed this to let out some steem, but the question is still needing any insightful answers offered.

Thanks before hand.

 

[MR.GGG]

GAWD! You're 18 and THAT's what worries you in life?

Where do you get the idea that all guys' cum output is measure in quarts/litres and could put out a moderate car fire? Porno flicks, right? There's a REASON why they suggest mature audiences for that crap, ya know. These people are freaks. For a cum shot some "superstud" may save it up for a day or two. Some men DO produce large amounts of seminal fluid so their output is somewhat more than the average 18 year old who beats off three times a day! And......?

Have you MEASURED the amount you cum and compared it to a National average? Do you have a school monitor for such things? Have g/f's COMPLAINED they hardly swallowed ANYTHING - I DOUBT it.

Not everybody is hung like a frikkin Rhino, not all women have breasts like
a gravid dairy cow and MOST guys only produce a few CC's of ejaculate.

Grow UP and start worrying about the REAL shit in life. There's plenty if you haven't noticed.

 

[Thaedes]

Thanks Mr.GGG.... for being short-sighted. I may be 18, but I'm not dumb. You insinuate that I believe all guys come large amounts of cum, when in fact I said nothing of the sort. Only that I myself do not. You clearly say that you believe I get all my information on vast amounts of cum from porno movies when clearly in my initial post I state I do not.

Do not presume yourself to be so vastly knowledgable that you can patronize me with some quip for a reply. And don't even approach the issue of "growing up" with me when you know nothing of me beyond an instance or brief insight provided in a post. I don't need to justify myself, nor list my credentials to be taken seriously here. I treat you with respect and expect the same, it is a matter of civility that every adult should share.

Regardless of world issues, or anything else for that matter, this thread is about a current concern and issue of my own. I am not so pretentious as to even consider my concern, or "worry" as you would have it, outshadow all other larger issues in life. Believe me, it is far from my largest worry. I have rent and hydro and the phone bill and soon-to-be-starting OAC's to deal with that are far more worrisome then the size of my penis or how much ejaculate I have to spread about. But then again, this is a board dedicated to questions and answers of a sexual nature, and not one dedicated to helping me out with my bills. So before you lose your head, or temper, take serious note of the question at hand and the particular discussion board it was posted on.

Now, if anyone who would be so kind as to explain to me without the patronization borne of an unjustified age stereotype about the average penis, the average amount of come (hell an educated guess if you got one). Just please, be mindful not to be rude. I wouldn't do it on your thread.

 

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[Thaedes]

A stronger orgasm? How do you mean?

For me an orgasm has always tended to be there, but then again I never thought to judge the intensity of it (I'll have to give it a little practice to see). Do stronger orgasms tend to last a longer duration of time?

Thanks.

 

[peachykeen]

Thaedes you really don't need to worry. You are young, and i'm not saying that to be patronizing, just pointing out that your life experience is bound to be limited a bit by time, however sexually active or not you may be. As you and your body grow older together and go through different relationships, adventures etc. you will learn more and more about yourself, what you like, what your partner(s) like, etc etc. There are all diferent levels of orgasms. For example, if both my husband and I have had a really tough day, we might both be kinda tired but want to have sex for comfort. The orgasms from this kind of less-energetic sex may not be of the screaming variety, but they're nice and realease a bit of the day's pressures and let us fall asleep with a smile. Other time we may both be feeling very turned on, fuck magnificently, and have massive sobbing sweaty orgasms that threaten the peace of the entire neighborhood. And still other times we may be feeling very tender and lovey-dovey and have orgasms that are not just of the body but a coming-together of the mind and soul as well, and these might not be the loudest but they sure are the best. But I would not have been able to tell any difference from one orgasm to the next when I was your age - I doubt I was even experiencing them differently then. It was all still too new. 15 years on, however, it is a whole other story.

As for penis size, you know, a big one looks really great and tasty and all, but inside, a big one can hurt. And skill is always more important than size in the long run anyway.

Quantity of semen is a non issue for me. Wouldn't care if it was a lot or a little, so long as my partner was happy.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

dude...

Thaedes you are fine. You don't cum much...great. It's nothing to worry about. I personally cum a lot of some days and just the average bit on other days.

It can be affected by a lot of things. It's nothing to worry about.

PowrDragn

 

[asenath]

On an up note… it’s easier to swallow a ½ tsp (heh).

 

[Hotred911]

On an up note… it’s easier to swallow a ½ tsp (heh).

I have to agree, I'd rather swallow 1/2 a tsp. than 1/4 cup. JMO though.

 

[Dessert]

If a woman is so superficial to turn you away because you don't have an 8 or 9 incher, would you really want to date her anyway? I don't think you'd be missing out on much.

 

[jen72]

I agree more that 7 inches can be painful.
Any man that brags to me a big cock, I just say ouch, I have a small vagina.
It shuts them up too. Having a big cock does not mean better in bed, men with big cocks tend to take in for guranted that they are good. The result is that neglect the important things and just fuck a woman and not much else.
Size is not important, it really is not you should relax and stop worrying, you will enjoy an relationship better if do relax about yourself.

 

[robert j]

as long as you have no discomfort when you cum there
should be no problem with the amout of cum you produse
and size is not every thing would you only date women with large breasts no as long as you are willing to listen and learn what
they like you will be a good lover

 

[Ms_Lilith]

As far as anything medical goes, perhaps you've got a narrow urethra. Maybe talk to a doctor.

Now that that's out of the way..... honestly, most women couldn't give a shit how much you cum. I'd rather swallow less than more. My honey's got a rather large dick, but he doesn't usually cum much at all. So even those hung like a horse might produce small amounts of ejaculate. I dated a guy who was rather small, and he came buckets. It varies for each person. And it really doesn't matter to me how much cum there is, as long as I've pleased my partner.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

PS- there have actually been a few times where my honey has orgasmed, but not cum. (this is a tantric method of prolonging sex).... he didn't MEAN to do it those times, it was just how things ended up... and I loved it, and he thought it was pretty cool...

don't worry.

 

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[Ms_Lilith]

LOL, I was with a guy once and that happened. He called it a ghost cum

LMAO

 

[dreamer]

But I suppose I can't expect people to think like me.

I needed this to let out some steem, but the question is still needing any insightful answers offered.

After reading twice looking for the exact question...I suppose this is actually the crux of the situation.

Listen, I'm no expert but you asked. Don't lower YOUR expectations. EVER. You seem worried about what other people will think of you...try expecting others to recognize what IS important. Why would you want to be with some girl who needs a porn fuck anyhow?

Find someone who can and does understand what is really important. Respect, consideration, and communication. Find someone like that and I assure you the sex will be FAR better than someone who just want's a guy to be a living dildo.

For 18 you sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders. Use it, and averages will NOT matter.

 

[Thaedes]

I seriously thank all of you who have posted, it pretty much confirmed my own suspicions - but without any of my references I felt rather helpless on the issue. It's good to know that not everyone thinks that the huge penis is the be-all end-all merrit that every guy should posses.

In any case, I am significantly relieved. And Vixenshe, I just might have a talk with my doctor about that to see if it is a possibility.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I seriously thank all of you who have posted, it pretty much confirmed my own suspicions - but without any of my references I felt rather helpless on the issue. It's good to know that not everyone thinks that the huge penis is the be-all end-all merrit that every guy should posses.

In any case, I am significantly relieved. And Vixenshe, I just might have a talk with my doctor about that to see if it is a possibility.

I'm glad you're gonna go chat with your doc.

Way to be!

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Awwwww

Thanks Mr.GGG.... for being short-sighted. I may be 18, but I'm not dumb. You insinuate that I believe all guys come large amounts of cum, when in fact I said nothing of the sort. Only that I myself do not. You clearly say that you believe I get all my information on vast amounts of cum from porno movies when clearly in my initial post I state I do not.

Do not presume yourself to be so vastly knowledgable that you can patronize me with some quip for a reply. And don't even approach the issue of "growing up" with me when you know nothing of me beyond an instance or brief insight provided in a post. I don't need to justify myself, nor list my credentials to be taken seriously here. I treat you with respect and expect the same, it is a matter of civility that every adult should share.

Regardless of world issues, or anything else for that matter, this thread is about a current concern and issue of my own. I am not so pretentious as to even consider my concern, or "worry" as you would have it, outshadow all other larger issues in life. Believe me, it is far from my largest worry. I have rent and hydro and the phone bill and soon-to-be-starting OAC's to deal with that are far more worrisome then the size of my penis or how much ejaculate I have to spread about. But then again, this is a board dedicated to questions and answers of a sexual nature, and not one dedicated to helping me out with my bills. So before you lose your head, or temper, take serious note of the question at hand and the particular discussion board it was posted on.

Now, if anyone who would be so kind as to explain to me without the patronization borne of an unjustified age stereotype about the average penis, the average amount of come (hell an educated guess if you got one). Just please, be mindful not to be rude. I wouldn't do it on your thread.

Awww sweetie, don't be so worried. We're all human, and we all have our insecurities. And at 18 the small issues tend to get blown out of proportion. You are a very normal guy. The difference is that you aren't afraid to ask questions; most guys are afraid. Disregard what Mr.GGG had to say, he obviously doesn't remember being 18. The amount of cum is so unimportant, as is the size of your penis. The only body part that should be measured and judged is your I'm sorry that you are so insecure, I'd be happy to talk with you in more detail in pm.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

go a few days with out cumming you might have more that way. everyone is different.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

go a few days with out cumming you might have more that way. everyone is different.

As a woman, I must ask the following question: Who cares??? I have never been the least bit concerned about how much cum there is when I get a guy off. It is so totally unimportant, and I'm sure most women feel the same way I do.

 

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[ApplesMcgee]

I wish...

I just wish I could get my woman to swallow. She's still working on it though. I guess we'll have our moment

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