Another fantasy sharing thread.

[PutonaShow]

So, I'm curious to hear stories from all of you who wish to share.

I just had ice cream with my best friend, and we somehow figured out that we fantasize about the same guy.
He's a banker that works in our local grocery store. He's married, but he's just SO good-looking.
Also, we've both caught him staring at us, which just turns us on even more.

Do any of you have a person like this?

You see them on a regular basis. You don't want to fall in love with them.
You don't even necessarily want to be their friend.
You kind of just want to touch them a little.
Experiment, see how their skin feels. Kiss them. Touch them a little more.

I get that feeling like crazy especially when I'm out of town,
because all I can think is "I'm never going to see this person again.
This is my only opportunity."
Also, I've shared intense sexual chemistry with people I've never even spoken to.
The eye contact and body language just tells me that we'd have amazingly passionate Love-making.
It drives me wild!

I can't be the only one who experiences this!

Discuss:
-Unattainable/Taken people who you see and fantasize about on a regular basis.
-Do any of you go wild/let loose when you go out of town?
-Sexual chemistry you've shared with someone, but haven't acted on (missed opportunities! Damn it!) =P

I'm looking forward to hearing any stories that you decide to post!

 

[CowBoy18^]

There is a girl at work, whom I always look at out of the corner of my eyes. I think she's taken, but not entirely sure. All I know is, I love just watching how she moves and the pouty look that is on her face.

As far as a regret, there is one big one. A friend of mine whom wanted to be more than friends after I turned single last year, but I was still too broken up over it to be open to that idea. Long story short, she is dating a great guy now who proposed to her last month, despite her turning him down, I still feel as though my opportunity was lost to have something that would've been great.

 

[Shyrra]

This happens to me SO often. I'll make eye contact, or we'll flirt harmlessly while we're waiting in line for something, or in some situation where we're only meeting that once... It drives me crazy. I always wish that I had been forward enough to make a "move" or anything. I always wish I had been honest, and said "I really feel this strong chemistry" or something.

As for the "unnobtainable" ones... those ALWAYS seem tempting, to me. The more "taken" they are, the more I want them. Subconsciously, anyways. When I look back on a few "infatuations" I've had, it seems like it was directly related to how "taken" they were, heh.

The first one is more prevelant, but I've experienced both. I hate hate HATE those "missed opportunities" Always make me wonder "what if" and such.

Just my thoughts.

 

[PutonaShow]

I hate those missed opportunities, too.
I suppose I'll actually share one of mine.

In a town that I used to live in,
there was this guy who worked in the grocery store down the street.
The store always made the workers carry buyers' grocery bags out to their cars,
and he always magically happened to be the worker carrying mine.
We'd always eye each other up and down,
and it was obvious that there was this strong chemistry between us.

Well, a couple of weeks before I moved,
I finally got the courage to talk to him. I basically said,
"I always catch you looking at me, and I know that you see me looking at you, too. I thought I'd let you know that I'm moving out of the area in two weeks."
He gave me this sexy smirk, and when I got back to my apartment,
I saw that he had slipped his number into my grocery bag.

Unfortunately, I had been seeing a guy (who was kind of a jerk),
and I didn't want to be unfaithful.
Hell, I had already felt guilty over flirting with the worker.

I ended up breaking up with him almost immediately after I moved,
and I still wonder what would have happened if I had called up that guy. *Sigh*

 

[raphy]

Oscar Wilde said: "A man regrets nothing so much in his life as the opportunities he did not take"

Obviously, the sentiment can be applied just as well to women - It's the meaning that's important, and not the gender.

I remember that I was fairly young when I first heard that phrase and it struck a chord in me, resonated fairly strongly. From then on, I resolved to take opportunities that came my way.

It doesn't always work, and I'm not always brave enough, and occasionally, I have to be reminded to do so, by the memories of lost opportunities that are in my past. But for the times when I have plucked up my courage and just said "What the hell".. By and large, I have not regretted a single one of them. (There are exceptions that prove the rule, of course)

Most of the women I fantasize over know that I do. It's a pleasant surprise to find out that it's reciprocated, sometimes. The reasons for not acting on those fantasies, of course, are many and varied - One or the other of us is in a relationship. There's too much distance and not enough money to close that distance. One or the other of us is in the "wrong" place, emotionally, in our life to do anything like that, etc etc.

There's lots of reasons not to act on a fantasy - I find the key is .. to identify which of those are "real" reasons, and which are self-created. Often we generate many reasons ourselves why we shouldn't do something. Only some of those are valid.

 

[b4cast]

I think if everyone is honest with themselves, they all have some secret lust target or infatuation quest. In fact, I will take Shyrra's very good point a step further.

When I look back on a few "infatuations" I've had, it seems like it was directly related to how "taken" they were, heh.

I have found that many infatuations I have had are a direct result of how "taken" I have been. I am married now, and happily so. Whether married or in a serious relationship, I have always been wholly fascinated and drawn to other women. I have never cheated on anyone, but as a guy, and a sexually minded one at that (most are), it is impossible not to notice women. There is a sexual energy, a carnal gravitiational pull, that I believe all men have. It is natural.

And, when the opportunity comes to talk to or even harmlessly flirt with a woman, there is always that devilish side that wants to take it all the way. Then, the moral sensibilities kick in (or guilt), and the conversation or moment slips away.

There is a woman I see in the elevator every day. We chit chat, flirt harmlessly. She is very attractive. There is a sexual tension that I know I feel, and if she does not also feel it, she is real good at faking it. When we are on the elevator alone, it is almost palpable. I have always wondered - what if? what would she be like? - not from a relationship stand point, but full blown sexual encounter. Alas, it will never be, but it makes me feel alive. That "I still got it" euphoria that I think is every guy's blinding mantra.

 

[randy123]

I think if everyone is honest with themselves, they all have some secret lust target or infatuation quest...

...And, when the opportunity comes to talk to or even harmlessly flirt with a woman, there is always that devilish side that wants to take it all the way. Then, the moral sensibilities kick in (or guilt), and the conversation or moment slips away.

Exactly. Couldn't agree more.

 

[AnitaMann]

Ohhh, yes! I have definitely crushed on the un-attainable man from time to time.
I have a wicked crush on a Professor at my College. God - he is so HOT! He's smart, and funny, and so gorgeous...
I always seem to get in line behind him at the coffee shop between classes. But - I have been down a similar road before, and just ended up getting hurt, so I will continue my infatuation from afar.

(At the very least, from behind him - because he has an INCREDIBLE ass!)

 

[raphy]

I have never cheated on anyone, but as a guy, and a sexually minded one at that (most are), it is impossible not to notice women. There is a sexual energy, a carnal gravitiational pull, that I believe all men have. It is natural.

And, when the opportunity comes to talk to or even harmlessly flirt with a woman, there is always that devilish side that wants to take it all the way. Then, the moral sensibilities kick in (or guilt), and the conversation or moment slips away.

I think there's some sound theories to explain this, biologically. Whether you believe them or think they're just an excuse for men to be horndogs, of course... Well... YMMV, as they say.

But the general consensus is that men want lots of women because the farther they spread their seed, the better it is for a man, and the race as a whole due to genetic diversity.

Women want one man (generally), because they're looking for a provider and carer for their child/children and that doesn't happen if a guy knocks you up and then you never see him again.

Both .. drives .. have benefits for the population as a whole. But both drives also do not come without their drawbacks, from an evolutionary point of view.

This, I think, is why we are constantly in a fight with ourselves over it. Because they're both goals that make sense, but they're diametrically opposite.

 

[IluvBust]

So, I'm curious to hear stories from all of you who wish to share.

I just had ice cream with my best friend, and we somehow figured out that we fantasize about the same guy.
He's a banker that works in our local grocery store. He's married, but he's just SO good-looking.
Also, we've both caught him staring at us, which just turns us on even more.

Do any of you have a person like this?

You see them on a regular basis. You don't want to fall in love with them.
You don't even necessarily want to be their friend.
You kind of just want to touch them a little.
Experiment, see how their skin feels. Kiss them. Touch them a little more.

I get that feeling like crazy especially when I'm out of town,
because all I can think is "I'm never going to see this person again.
This is my only opportunity."
Also, I've shared intense sexual chemistry with people I've never even spoken to.
The eye contact and body language just tells me that we'd have amazingly passionate Love-making.
It drives me wild!

I can't be the only one who experiences this!

Discuss:
-Unattainable/Taken people who you see and fantasize about on a regular basis.
-Do any of you go wild/let loose when you go out of town?
-Sexual chemistry you've shared with someone, but haven't acted on (missed opportunities! Damn it!) =P

I'm looking forward to hearing any stories that you decide to post!

i hope i get thought about! loving this thread

 

[BarbieBitch]

There's no one in particular I want to fuck right now in my life, but there was not too long ago. There was a bartender in my restaurant that I wanted to do lots of things to. I used to think all the time about him lifting me up onto the cooler where the beer taps are and taking me in the middle of the resaturant. Mmmm... I miss him.

As for your other questions, I've never done anything crazy out of town... having pics on this board is probably the widlest thing I've done. And I felt a sexual chemistry with a girl I used to work with (I'm officially straight, but I'd say I'm bi-curious) and if we hadn't moved away I really wanted to end up having a threesome with her.

 

[VaGentleOne]

I know this feeling very well. there was a woman that I worked with last year that wasnt exactly a real beauty in the sense but she seemed to possess a quality about her. There was the occasional flirts and just good friends.

We kept up for a while but I started having these dreams about her. My wife was in the background of my mind and I told her about all the dreams. We even talked about sharing her since after a party one night this lady was very forthcoming about some emails she had read from a dear friend of mine. Of course all the emails were very sexual in nature but as life would have it I chickened out bringing her home and sealing the deal.

 

[PutonaShow]

I Love reading all of your stories. =]

On the flip side of this thread,
I really dislike having to avoid eye contact.
Like, when someone is trying to make the sexual eye contact (described and welcomed above), but you really feel no attraction to them.
So you try not to make eye contact, but you can feel them looking at you.
And sometimes, it gets really uncomfortable. Eek.

Anyone else experience this? D;

 

[CowBoy18^]

Not me, but my ex. She would get the sleazest looks from old toothless farts that always creeped her out.

 

[jedclampet69]

hmmm...lam actually having thoughts of a lady who works in the local supermarket...hmm wicked ones also......lm hoping it becomes more than just thoughts very soon

 

[okayterrific]

So, I'm curious to hear stories from all of you who wish to share.

I just had ice cream with my best friend, and we somehow figured out that we fantasize about the same guy.
He's a banker that works in our local grocery store. He's married, but he's just SO good-looking.
Also, we've both caught him staring at us, which just turns us on even more.

Do any of you have a person like this?

You see them on a regular basis. You don't want to fall in love with them.
You don't even necessarily want to be their friend.
You kind of just want to touch them a little.
Experiment, see how their skin feels. Kiss them. Touch them a little more.

I get that feeling like crazy especially when I'm out of town,
because all I can think is "I'm never going to see this person again.
This is my only opportunity."
Also, I've shared intense sexual chemistry with people I've never even spoken to.
The eye contact and body language just tells me that we'd have amazingly passionate Love-making.
It drives me wild!

I can't be the only one who experiences this!

Discuss:
-Unattainable/Taken people who you see and fantasize about on a regular basis.
-Do any of you go wild/let loose when you go out of town?
-Sexual chemistry you've shared with someone, but haven't acted on (missed opportunities! Damn it!) =P

I'm looking forward to hearing any stories that you decide to post!

this goes in the unattainable/taken people category. there's a girl that started working at our firm about 6 months ago, and she's the hottest little thing. she's very pretty and petite except she has a big, round ass. she's also sweet as hell too which just adds to the attraction. unfortunately she has a boyfriend, but there have been more than a few times when i've thought about pulling her into a side office and having quick, dirty sex with her. i saw her today and she was wearing a skirt with knee high boots (i love that look), and i really wanted to fuck her brains out.

 

[cullowheekid]

bump....