another anal question

[Clandestine Karma]

Ive read a lot of the posts regarding first time anal for females, and all have been extremely informative. (I read about 4 pages back.) I am interested in trying it for the first time and was curious as how to prepare myself for it. The guy I plan on doing it with is experienced and has assured me that he will be gentle with me.
I have 2 questions,tho. For fear of sounding vulgar..does it always feel like youre taking a big shit? And, when you do it for the first time, will it be messy with a BM?

 

[highguage]

You just have to remeber to relax. that is the important part.

 

[watergirl]

87 views and no advice? People, people, that's just wrong.

I don't think it feels like taking a big shit - I love it when you get to the point where you're stretched open enough that he can just glide in and out, and it's so heavenly and smooth and relaxing and undescribable... But I also love it when it hurts and he's forcing me to take a lot more than I think I can. So, no, I don't think it always feels like taking a shit, not at all. But that's just me.

BM - I'm not sure what you're asking... Take a shower first if you're worried. Stick your fingers in your cunt, and feel around - if you need to go take a shit, well, you ought to know, but if you feel hard lumps of poo back there - get thyself to the toilet, girl!

Afterwards??? Umm... for a while afterwards, or the next day, you may pass gas more loudly or more often than you usually do... or you may not. But I don't know what to say about the messy BM question... *shakes head* I think you'll be fine, don't worry. Your ass will tighten back up, no worries.

Enjoy!

 

[Meat Whistler]

87 views and no advice? People, people, that's just wrong.

I don't think it feels like taking a big shit - I love it when you get to the point where you're stretched open enough that he can just glide in and out, and it's so heavenly and smooth and relaxing and undescribable... But I also love it when it hurts and he's forcing me to take a lot more than I think I can. So, no, I don't think it always feels like taking a shit, not at all. But that's just me.

BM - I'm not sure what you're asking... Take a shower first if you're worried. Stick your fingers in your cunt, and feel around - if you need to go take a shit, well, you ought to know, but if you feel hard lumps of poo back there - get thyself to the toilet, girl!

Afterwards??? Umm... for a while afterwards, or the next day, you may pass gas more loudly or more often than you usually do... or you may not. But I don't know what to say about the messy BM question... *shakes head* I think you'll be fine, don't worry. Your ass will tighten back up, no worries.

Enjoy!

I have to agree and laugh at the same time. If you feel hard lumps of poo back there...? Sicko.

 

[watergirl]

Glad to amuse, Goddess - I love the av, by the way!

 

[mynock]

me and my gf tried anal for the first time last night. We were both nervous that it would hurt for her, but i just lubed up big time, fingered her a bit first, then went REALLY slow. She said that it surprisingly felt really good.

 

[Clandestine Karma]

if you feel hard lumps of poo back there - get thyself to the toilet, girl!

That made me laugh out loud..
Thanks for the advice

 

[DuckLover]

It shouldn't be nearly as messy as a BM. Fecal material remains high in the colon except for just before pooping. I'd urge you to BM a couple hours before you're planning to try anal. Then take a good shower and you'll be able to check yourself out if you want.

Anal sex can sometimes be a little bit messy, but not much, and for many people that's part of the appeal. (If you're really concerened about it and want to be squeaky clean, you can give yourself an enema beforehand. Run a search for threads on enemas for more tips.)

I've enjoyed anal every time I've had it. I hope you have similar experiences!

 

[Tat2mom]

I got good and drunk for the first time. It helped me be totally relaxed. Remember the #1 lube rule "If it seems like too much it's probably enough"

 

[ReadyOne]

"does it always feel like..."

When you first start to take something into your ass, it does feel like you want to take a big crap.

When feces moves down to the bottom of the rectum and pushes against the exit, your body has a natural urge to push it on out. When a dick or dildo gets inside, it's sitting at the same place and your body has the same feeling and urge to expel.

Just go with the flow. You don't have to try and "hold it in". You can't anyway because the person fucking your ass (doing the motion) is the one who decides when to move in and out.

So tell yourself that feeling filled and wanting to expel is part of the experience. Savor it. Let it happen. It isn't feces and you're not going to make a mess. Surrender to them and let them fill your awareness.

Many people enjoy the feeling of expelling something big, of feeling relieved as they empty. That same feeling will happen over and over again as the pumping keeps going. Feeling full; Feeling the need to evacuate; Feeling the big thing leave; Feeling relief as you empty; Feeling the stretching and pushing as you're filled up again.

After a while you can really relax and just enjoy the sliding in and out. Then the other feelings from your A-spot and G-spot being stimulated can come through and build and build into a totally different kind of orgasm.

 

[His_good_girl]

Well Epinephrine -
I totally understand your concerns! DH and I just began experimenting wtih anal sex a week or two ago (and now I am hooked!!!) The one suggestion I would give is to *relax*! It was difficult for me when he first entered (the feeling was a bit extreme) but then I forced myself to relax and really enjoyed it (and he did too!). And as the others said lube, lube, lube!

Have fun!
Jenny

whispering to Epinephrine - I gave myself an enema because I knew what was going to happen later and shared some of your concerns - worked out fine.

 

[sweet T]

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=164221 I hope I did that right... anyway.. not to toot my own horn or nothing... butt.... I started an anal Thread... I is listed in the anal section and I believe it is call ...Butt plugs... are they worth it....

It is listed in the BDSM CAFE , In the library.. thread .. there are other threads there.. they may answer alot of your questions....

 

[N8Dreams]

many threads are dealing with that topic.
Run a search on Lit. You'll find lots of answers

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

I love anal, and it's never felt like I was taking a shit. If you're nervous, have him start with his fingers, then a small vibe, and work up to bigger vibes, until you feel comfortable with something in your ass. Lots of lube with all, and consciously keep saying to yourself "relax, relax". Don't be afraid to tell him to stop and let you adjust to that depth before he goes in any deeper.

As for your second question......if he cums in your ass, the cum "dribbles" out afterwards, which can be annoying, and a little messy. The next time you take a dump, it will be the "easiest" one you've ever had....lol!

 

[DevilishTexan]

I have to agree and laugh at the same time. If you feel hard lumps of poo back there...? Sicko.

Goddess you always have such a colorful way with words LMAO!!!

 

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[DevilishTexan]

hmm well, my advice is using an enema to keep clean before
especially if you are engaging in rimming activites
In a small bag of privates in my powder room I keep a enema stashed in a plastic bag. There are disposable ones too.You can buy them for a dollar or two that includes a solution....dump it and use warm water. That will clean you completely ....wash with antibacterial soap after.
Then let the fun begin

Mmmmmm exactly what I was thinkin'

 

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[N8Dreams]

I love anal, and it's never felt like I was taking a shit. If you're nervous, have him start with his fingers, then a small vibe, and work up to bigger vibes, until you feel comfortable with something in your ass. Lots of lube with all, and consciously keep saying to yourself "relax, relax". Don't be afraid to tell him to stop and let you adjust to that depth before he goes in any deeper.

As for your second question......if he cums in your ass, the cum "dribbles" out afterwards, which can be annoying, and a little messy. The next time you take a dump, it will be the "easiest" one you've ever had....lol!

very nice advice

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

Thank you, N8Dreams.