Anonymous Secrets Thread

[Elated]

Male

While I love the Lit community of delightfully kinky people, I despair of finding a connection with woman who would enjoy indulging my particular grab bag of kinky stuff. I made a good connection recently but she's going through something so we're not playing and I don't know if we ever will. She was indulgent with me some but I always worried that it was an imposition with her and not something that she enjoyed blowing my mind over.

Many people come here to play (in addition to other things) but I'm not sure how to politely find a woman interested in casual play who might enjoy my kinks...

Just put an Ad in the personals politely outlining your fetishes. I've read outrageous requests there and some women go for it.
Good Luck.

 

[BeachMomma]

F 59

After two months of very sensual talking and cyber sexting, I find that the guy was lieing about his first name the whole time. First I get one name. Then a middle name if I prefer that over the first name. After two months he decides he is totally enamoured of me and wants me desperately to call him by his real name!
When I think of him now I don't think of name 1, 2 or 3. I think Liar.
Now he gets to remember me by my real first name. I have to filter through three names if I think of him.
What else has he been lieing about?
I cut him off.
He will compare me to every woman he meets from now until he dies.
This will be the Liar's punishment. Lossing the best thing he's ever had.
If I talk to someone I want a real first name or real nick name.
Don't give me any other personal information.
I only want a REAL first name!

ARE you the best thing he ever had?
WILL he compare every other woman to you forever?

Or

Is he just a bloke playing with his dick, getting off with you, making it up as he went along, telling you what you want to hear to make his dick hard and your cunt wet.

Hes not a liar, hes a man on the internet.

You luvvie are apparently 59, put your big girl pants on, pull them out of the crack of your arse and stop getting them in a wedge.

Sorry but I have to agree with Lady Fi on this one. You both apparently fulfilled some sort of need that each other had at the time - be it physical, mental, or emotional, the type of need is irrelevant. Whether you knew his real name or not, whether he lied or not, he still fulfilled that need in you. Appreciate it for what it was - a brief fling that served its purpose but is now over.

 

[Elated]

ARE you the best thing he ever had?
WILL he compare every other woman to you forever?

Or

Is he just a bloke playing with his dick, getting off with you, making it up as he went along, telling you what you want to hear to make his dick hard and your cunt wet.

Hes not a liar, hes a man on the internet.

You luvvie are apparently 59, put your big girl pants on, pull them out of the crack of your arse and stop getting them in a wedge.

Well, only the two of them will know for certain.
I didn't read any request for an opinion or advice in the confession.
Congratulations on your fictional self interpretations.
Hopefully others will not be as critical of you.
I'll spend time in the happier threads.
Some cat gifs will cheer me up.

 

[Cymru6969]

ARE you the best thing he ever had?
WILL he compare every other woman to you forever?

Or

Is he just a bloke playing with his dick, getting off with you, making it up as he went along, telling you what you want to hear to make his dick hard and your cunt wet.

Hes not a liar, hes a man on the internet.

You luvvie are apparently 59, put your big girl pants on, pull them out of the crack of your arse and stop getting them in a wedge.

Sorry but I have to agree with Lady Fi on this one. You both apparently fulfilled some sort of need that each other had at the time - be it physical, mental, or emotional, the type of need is irrelevant. Whether you knew his real name or not, whether he lied or not, he still fulfilled that need in you. Appreciate it for what it was - a brief fling that served its purpose but is now over.

Agreed and agreed.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

Well, only the two of them will know for certain.
I didn't read any request for an opinion or advice in the confession.
Congratulations on your fictional self interpretations.
Hopefully others will not be as critical of you.
I'll spend time in the happier threads.
Some cat gifs will cheer me up.

*sigh*

Read some of the content of the thread before you get critical.

Away you go, enjoy your kitties.

 

[Indienne]

36 M. I use to come here because I was morbidly obese and full of self-doubt and just wanted to be loved. 4 years later I have dropped 157lbs the hard way and now have washboard abs thanks to chicken breasts, various races, and God only knows how many planks. You, gentle reader, might be saying “good for you anonymous man”…….. But here is the crux of my secret. While I am straight as an arrow, the way I treat women is pure malice. Yes, I now have a shot with a lot of hot women. But, any woman who will sleep with me now, I treat like a vain whore.

I have a question, and I'm not trying to be mean or nasty here, but how many 157-pound overweight women have you slept with? I would really like an answer, but I think I already know what that answer is going to be.

If losing all that weight and getting healthier has not made you happier, then your problems were definitely not weight related. You get back what you give. If you keep treating women with 'pure malice', as you said, then the only women who would want to be with you are the ones who have a really low self-esteem and are full of insecurities and therefore don't mind being treated like dirt. You will never be able to find a woman who truly loves you.

If you don't mind unsolicited advice, then I would suggest that you let go of all this anger and bitterness. That is your only chance at being happy and finding someone who makes you happy. Good luck. I hope you get what you're looking for.

 

[NotHisLady]

F 59

After two months of very sensual talking and cyber sexting, I find that the guy was lieing about his first name the whole time. First I get one name. Then a middle name if I prefer that over the first name. After two months he decides he is totally enamoured of me and wants me desperately to call him by his real name!
When I think of him now I don't think of name 1, 2 or 3. I think Liar.
Now he gets to remember me by my real first name. I have to filter through three names if I think of him.
What else has he been lieing about?
I cut him off.
He will compare me to every woman he meets from now until he dies.
This will be the Liar's punishment. Lossing the best thing he's ever had.
If I talk to someone I want a real first name or real nick name.
Don't give me any other personal information.
I only want a REAL first name!

You should go back and read the post from the lady who used just a first name and screen name to cyberstalk her online guy.
Granted not sharing accurate info makes building trust difficult but if the only relationship you expect to have with a person is superficial then it's really a little bit smart to be careful.
This is the sort of thing where, if expectations change then how far into your life you allow the other person changes.
If the stuff with his name was all of it I'd say let it go. It's clumsy but it isn't any broken promises or breached trust.
You've got your filters set way to high for the environment you're in. This isn't a church social.

As for what else he was lying about? Did he actually say you were the best he'd ever had?

At your age you're a grown woman.
If you have expectations it's your job to make sure the other person knows what they are.
You won't automatically get what you give (here or in real life.)
None of the people here are perfect so remember this before you slam the door the moment someone disappoints you.
You haven't won if you get to be the one who is right all alone.

 

[yossi]

36 M. I use to come here because I was morbidly obese and full of self-doubt and just wanted to be loved. 4 years later I have dropped 157lbs the hard way and now have washboard abs thanks to chicken breasts, various races, and God only knows how many planks. You, gentle reader, might be saying “good for you anonymous man”…….. But here is the crux of my secret. While I am straight as an arrow, the way I treat women is pure malice. Yes, I now have a shot with a lot of hot women. But, any woman who will sleep with me now, I treat like a vain whore.

It's rather a mind fuck isn't it? I'm just going to say, please don't let that bitterness consume you. It'll get pretty lonely.

 

[Kudram123]

Female - Age 31

I am totally and completely in love with another Litster, and he is in love with me. He told me today that he is going to leave his miserable marriage, and he's going to tell her this weekend. I'm holding my breath a little bit, but I'm so happy right now that I had to tell somebody!

This was my post a little while ago. He did leave her, like he said he was going to, he told her that weekend, his marriage has been horrible for a long long time, and it would have been done soon with or without our relationship. The feelings that he has for me showed him that there is more to life than what he was living with, it was time to make a change for his own happiness. We talk every day, and I will be here with him for all the rough spots ahead. He did not get to this place alone, and I won't leave him to face the fallout by himself, no matter how tough it gets.

I appreciate the advice. But this is the Secrets thread, not the Dear Abby thread. I wasn't looking for advice, and I especially wasn't looking for the negativity. I was happy, and I just wanted to share my happiness. Sometimes it is OK to just let people be happy. Sometimes when people post here they just want to share something. They aren't looking for suggestions or advice and they are not always looking for someone to tell them how stupid they are being. You are not in my situation, and the only thing you know about it was that tiny bit that I shared. It would be helpful to remember that before you write three paragraphs giving unsolicited advice on something you don't know anything about. And popping someone else's balloon is just mean-spirited, even if you think you're doing it for their own good.

I won't allow myself to believe that my statements are actually going to be listened to here, though, because people who constantly give other people unsolicited advice rarely listen to it from anyone else since they already think they know everything.

I do thank you for the well wishes. I am not dumb, and neither is he, and neither of us are wearing blinders but real love happens sometimes, even on the Internet, and I am going to enjoy it, and the skeptics be damned.

 

[newbiebabe]

Female - Age 31

I am totally and completely in love with another Litster, and he is in love with me. He told me today that he is going to leave his miserable marriage, and he's going to tell her this weekend. I'm holding my breath a little bit, but I'm so happy right now that I had to tell somebody!

This was my post a little while ago. He did leave her, like he said he was going to, he told her that weekend, his marriage has been horrible for a long long time, and it would have been done soon with or without our relationship. The feelings that he has for me showed him that there is more to life than what he was living with, it was time to make a change for his own happiness. We talk every day, and I will be here with him for all the rough spots ahead. He did not get to this place alone, and I won't leave him to face the fallout by himself, no matter how tough it gets.

I appreciate the advice. But this is the Secrets thread, not the Dear Abby thread. I wasn't looking for advice, and I especially wasn't looking for the negativity. I was happy, and I just wanted to share my happiness. Sometimes it is OK to just let people be happy. Sometimes when people post here they just want to share something. They aren't looking for suggestions or advice and they are not always looking for someone to tell them how stupid they are being. You are not in my situation, and the only thing you know about it was that tiny bit that I shared. It would be helpful to remember that before you write three paragraphs giving unsolicited advice on something you don't know anything about. And popping someone else's balloon is just mean-spirited, even if you think you're doing it for their own good.

I won't allow myself to believe that my statements are actually going to be listened to here, though, because people who constantly give other people unsolicited advice rarely listen to it from anyone else since they already think they know everything.

I do thank you for the well wishes. I am not dumb, and neither is he, and neither of us are wearing blinders but real love happens sometimes, even on the Internet, and I am going to enjoy it, and the skeptics be damned.

I think it's important to remember that any advice given, even though unsolicited, is more than likely given with the best intentions. But you make a very valid point about the purpose of the thread also.

I wish you and he well and hope things work out for you... it is not an easy road ahead for either of you.... but again I wish you both nothing but happiness.

 

[sunshinegirl05]

Female - Age 31

I am totally and completely in love with another Litster, and he is in love with me. He told me today that he is going to leave his miserable marriage, and he's going to tell her this weekend. I'm holding my breath a little bit, but I'm so happy right now that I had to tell somebody!

This was my post a little while ago. He did leave her, like he said he was going to, he told her that weekend, his marriage has been horrible for a long long time, and it would have been done soon with or without our relationship. The feelings that he has for me showed him that there is more to life than what he was living with, it was time to make a change for his own happiness. We talk every day, and I will be here with him for all the rough spots ahead. He did not get to this place alone, and I won't leave him to face the fallout by himself, no matter how tough it gets.

I appreciate the advice. But this is the Secrets thread, not the Dear Abby thread. I wasn't looking for advice, and I especially wasn't looking for the negativity. I was happy, and I just wanted to share my happiness. Sometimes it is OK to just let people be happy. Sometimes when people post here they just want to share something. They aren't looking for suggestions or advice and they are not always looking for someone to tell them how stupid they are being. You are not in my situation, and the only thing you know about it was that tiny bit that I shared. It would be helpful to remember that before you write three paragraphs giving unsolicited advice on something you don't know anything about. And popping someone else's balloon is just mean-spirited, even if you think you're doing it for their own good.

I won't allow myself to believe that my statements are actually going to be listened to here, though, because people who constantly give other people unsolicited advice rarely listen to it from anyone else since they already think they know everything.

I do thank you for the well wishes. I am not dumb, and neither is he, and neither of us are wearing blinders but real love happens sometimes, even on the Internet, and I am going to enjoy it, and the skeptics be damned.

Good luck to the both of you! I hope that you 2 find much happiness.

I tend to agree with you on the "Dear Abby" turn this thread has taken. I love reading the secrets, yes, I even have comments and opinions, too.

A lot of the advice is good......but I feel like it kind of deters from the thread...and maybe even people sending in secrets. Even though it's anonymous...who wants to still feel like they are being judged.

 

[aaron23062]

Female - Age 31

I am totally and completely in love with another Litster, ... and I am going to enjoy it, and the skeptics be damned.

Rock on, girl! Rock on!

 

[LiveFromKorea]

Good luck to the both of you! I hope that you 2 find much happiness.

I tend to agree with you on the "Dear Abby" turn this thread has taken. I love reading the secrets, yes, I even have comments and opinions, too.

A lot of the advice is good......but I feel like it kind of deters from the thread...and maybe even people sending in secrets. Even though it's anonymous...who wants to still feel like they are being judged.

I have to disagree on it taking from the thread. I think the advice/opinion posts are easy enough to skip if you don't want to read and fun to read if you do want to read them.

If it's your secret and you're not looking for advice/opinions then simply don't read them. Also keep in mind that when you post your business in a public place, anonymous or not, people are going to form opinions based on the information given. As I said though, it's easy enough to skip over if you want to.

 

[Kudram123]

No gender. No age.

Recently, I had the good fortune to hook up with another litster. It was awesome.

 

[Kudram123]

Male 34

I fucked my bosses PA on his desk. I bent her over his desk, lifted her knee length skirt up over her cute bum, pulled her knickers down to her ankles and rammed my hard cock up her already wet pussy. When I pulled my cock out her pussy all my cum dripped onto the carpet.

To this day overtime I go into his office for a meeting I see the stain on the carpet and think about this time I bent his PA over his desk

 

[Kudram123]

Male 38

I am fucking my sons girlfriends mother. My teenage son doesn't know about if but her teenage daughter does.

I make sure I fuck her hard and loud so that her daughter can hear us. I make her moan and groan. The bed rattles against her wall.

 

[Kudram123]

ale 28

My girlfriend and I met a guy off Craigslist in a hotel room. He had a huge cock, I got on my knees and sucked him off. That was my first taste of cock.

Next time we met up he fucked my girlfriend in front of me then came in my mouth.

This made my girlfriend want to be fucked my a black man so we found one on Craigslist. This guys was lean, muscularly and fit with a huge black cock!! We both sucked on his manhood like it was a lolly pop going out of fashion! He then grabbed my girlfriend and literally ripped her knickers off and rammed his huge cock up her pussy hard before we could even utter the words condom!! He fucked her hard and fast in all manner of positions, tossing her like a rag doll on the bed, on the table, over the chair, on the floor, against the wall. After what seemed like hours (probably 20 mins) he bent her over a chair and emptied his cum load up her pussy. I then lay directly under her pussy and licked out all his cum.

I swear she didn't walk properly for nearly 2 days after that!

 

[TheLM]

That would be erotic...

If not for hpv, herpes, and HIV.

Craigslist hookups without protection is a bad idea

 

[Sexturn]

Just finished catching up on this thread. Wow but we shouldn't let it die now.

 

[Sexturn]

It just needs some help

 

[Lady_Fiona]

That would be erotic...

If not for hpv, herpes, and HIV.

Craigslist hookups without protection is a bad idea

Unfortunately that was my first thought...

Yay for having a great time, now be sensible and get down the clinic.

 

[Kudram123]

M 31

When I was younger me and a buddy were driving around with nothing to do we ended up parked and chatting waiting for some other friends. Being full of hormones at the time of course the subject turned to sex long story short is the talking got us both horny and one way or another our cocks came out and we were aging with ourselves. To this day I don't remember how but his cock ended up in my mouth. I couldn't believe it after maybe two minutes he came in my mouth. I was to surprised to swallow so I spit it out the window and before I even turned all the way back he had his hand around my cock and in no time I came. To this day we have never talked about it but I am terrified that my wife will somehow find out about it.

 

[Mike4fun]

M 31

When I was younger me and a buddy were driving around with nothing to do we ended up parked and chatting waiting for some other friends. Being full of hormones at the time of course the subject turned to sex long story short is the talking got us both horny and one way or another our cocks came out and we were aging with ourselves. To this day I don't remember how but his cock ended up in my mouth. I couldn't believe it after maybe two minutes he came in my mouth. I was to surprised to swallow so I spit it out the window and before I even turned all the way back he had his hand around my cock and in no time I came. To this day we have never talked about it but I am terrified that my wife will somehow find out about it.

That's hot.

 

[Sexturn]

How do you think she would react? It might be good.

 

[Kudram123]

M45- Had a LitAffair with a woman here a couple years ago. It was a very tumultuos affair. Whole lot of ups and downs, sexiness, romance, love perhaps, joy, and fear, rage, and regret. It all ended rather badly. I had done and said things I never would have believed of myself previously. She is still here, as warm as I or anyone knows, but a few of us know her differently.

Anyway, so while trying to save my marriage afterwards, we did lots of counseling, arguing, making up. It was craziness. One time, the marriage counselor set up a one on one with each of us at her home office. She was a tall slim older lady, perhaps 47 or so. Very nice looking. I got my one on one with her and had a bit of a surprise.

I entered her home office just as her husband and a couple clients left. Him to run errands, them, because they were done. She was wearing a very short floral print skirt, showing very nice legs and a low cut blouse with plenty of cleavage. I, being male, noticed right away. I explained to her how I nearly fell asleep in her waiting area. She told me it was a very comfortable place and how she even knew of at least one couple she was counseling having had sex there. I had not seated myself yet and started getting hard right there in front of her, while looking down her blouse as she told me this. She noticed and told me so, right then.

I looked her in her sparkling eyes and slowly unbuckled my pants and pulled out my very hard cock, like a dream, but it wasn't. She looked up at me as she touched and carressed it, pulling me towards her. From then, we licked and sucked and fucked each other for the next 30? minutes. The whole time she was so vocal, saying things like how my wife doesn't appreciate a hard cock like mine, how she probably hates blowjobs, how she probably just lays there and lets me do all the work. None of that was true, but....Meanwhile the counselor was very enthusiastic and energetic. She fucked and sucked like she was on a mission. Haha, maybe she was! At last I came-- stood up, after fucking her doggy, pushed my cock in her mouth and spewed it all in her mouth while she rubbed herself. Cleaned up, sat down, and she told me I could no longer be her client.

Wife and I went to another counselor, and I never saw her again.