Anonymous Secrets Thread

[Aquagal]

I wonder why she went to all that trouble when she could ask the dude for his pic??

It is a little creepy that people cyberstalk...what?? I was just nonchalantly following H2OGal around for reading content...really.

Don't most dudes think when you ask for a pic, they assume you wanna see their dick?

Maybe that should be a thread question.

Guys! Where's your mind go when a woman asks for your picture? Do you think "Oh ya, this is my moment to share my raging 10 incher?!"

 

[BradBigBrain]

Don't most dudes think when you ask for a pic, they assume you wanna see their dick?

Maybe that should be a thread question.

Guys! Where's your mind go when a woman asks for your picture? Do you think "Oh ya, this is my moment to share my raging 10 incher?!"

I'd have to send 5 pictures to make a raging 10 incher.

 

[NotHisLady]

Female - no age

Today I used google to search the yahoo ID of a man I've been talking to quite frequently on lit. I know his first name. The yahoo ID linked to other sites that showed his full name. I searched Facebook and found him. I am confident it is him, because his comments on FB contain the same little "signature" as his PM's do.

I only searched because I was curious as to what he looked like. I don't think it would have truly mattered to me, as it is his words and personality that captivate me. I will admit that he is as sexy as I imagined him.

I don't intend to do anything malicious with this information. I am not that kind of person. But if your anonymity here on Lit is important to you, you may want to do a search on yourself and make sure none of your contact information you post here links to your true identity.

This is really only a problem if you asked for a picture and he told you he wasn't comfortable sharing that or more info. If that's the case then you need to look at whether maybe your attachment is getting a bit stronger than his.

That you felt compelled to say "I don't intend to do anything malicious" reads (whether you intended it to or not) like a red flag. A not too subtle reminder that you COULD if you wanted to. That is dangerously close to a number of dangerous feelings that can lead to some really damaging behavior.

A public FB page implies that a person doesn't care who sees what's there so I wouldn't be too worried about having dug up secrets--it may even be an alt account created just for his Lit persona (ever consider that?)

Another thing to remember is that FB pictures don't come with a gilt-edged guarantee that they actually ARE the person who belongs to the page so that oh-so-sexy guy in the photo? You aren't really any closer to knowing if that's your guy or not.

Tread carefully and maybe even consider 'fessing up if you two are getting really close because this sort of secret between people can fester. Something light--"Hey you could friend me on FB if you wanted!" to get the conversation started, offer to share your page. If you want more than you're willing to give then you need to take a hard look at what you're doing and why.

 

[LoveHerNow]

Don't most dudes think when you ask for a pic, they assume you wanna see their dick?

Maybe that should be a thread question.

Guys! Where's your mind go when a woman asks for your picture? Do you think "Oh ya, this is my moment to share my raging 10 incher?!"

LOL I don't think so. I'm usually expecting that she wants a teaser type, muscles/body pic.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

I'd have to send 5 pictures to make a raging 10 incher.

Thanks for that honey, I just had to try and excuse a snort

 

[BradBigBrain]

Thanks for that honey, I just had to try and excuse a snort

Thanks. I'll be here all week.

 

[perkyT]

Don't most dudes think when you ask for a pic, they assume you wanna see their dick?

Maybe that should be a thread question.

Guys! Where's your mind go when a woman asks for your picture? Do you think "Oh ya, this is my moment to share my raging 10 incher?!"

Doooo itttt!!

I'd have to send 5 pictures to make a raging 10 incher.

Patiently waiting for my five pics...

Thanks for that honey, I just had to try and excuse a snort

Gigglesnorted for ya!

 

[BradBigBrain]

Patiently waiting for my five pics...

Trade ya!

 

[NotHisLady]

I didn't get that she thought it was a big deal, perhaps making others aware that was a way they could be traced? Especially after we heard from the woman seeking out with only revenge as her intent.

I don't know. *shrugs

IMO it's a big deal if she did ask for a pic and was turned down. That question isn't answered in the post but it's something that would be a game changer for sure.

It's also a big deal because a simple google search probably wouldn't have netted as much info as she seems to have gotten (we are assuming that's all she got but I for one doubt it.)
From just a screen name (even if he uses the same one everywhere) and a first name to start with it would take a deep web search, possibly a couple of them, hardly a spur of the moment, oh hey let's take a look impulsive act.

 

[LoveHerNow]

IMO it's a big deal if she did ask for a pic and was turned down. That question isn't answered in the post but it's something that would be a game changer for sure.

It's also a big deal because a simple google search probably wouldn't have netted as much info as she seems to have gotten (we are assuming that's all she got but I for one doubt it.)
From just a screen name (even if he uses the same one everywhere) and a first name to start with it would take a deep web search, possibly a couple of them, hardly a spur of the moment, oh hey let's take a look impulsive act.

Yeah, that was my impression, too. It seems that this was probably a significant search....she might need to evaluate her motives - no matter how innocent it seemed to her at first.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I'd have to send 5 pictures to make a raging 10 incher.

I seem to recall that you got all 10 inches into one pic for me..

just sayin'

 

[perkyT]

I seem to recall that you got all 10 inches into one pic for me..

just sayin'

A MightyAphrodite sighting!!

*swoon*

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

A MightyAphrodite sighting!!

*swoon*

lol.. better tackle me in another thread, Perk.. the powers that be get a little bitchy I hear when we just talk in this thread... lol

 

[BradBigBrain]

I seem to recall that you got all 10 inches into one pic for me..

just sayin'

Ooops.

 

[perkyT]

lol.. better tackle me in another thread, Perk.. the powers that be get a little bitchy I hear when we just talk in this thread... lol

Pffft! Whatevah!! I get chattery anywhere I want.

*starts coloring outside the lines*

Ooops.

Wait a minute?! WHAT?!

 

[Aquagal]

IMO it's a big deal if she did ask for a pic and was turned down. That question isn't answered in the post but it's something that would be a game changer for sure.

It's also a big deal because a simple google search probably wouldn't have netted as much info as she seems to have gotten (we are assuming that's all she got but I for one doubt it.)
From just a screen name (even if he uses the same one everywhere) and a first name to start with it would take a deep web search, possibly a couple of them, hardly a spur of the moment, oh hey let's take a look impulsive act.

Yes, I see what you're saying. That intent wouldn't be innocent if she already asked for a pic. Not only should peeps keep their profile tight but has anyone realized on FB when you've accepted a friendship and see someone else from Lit on there? That opens up a whole nother world of how tight your privacy settings are.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Ooops.

It's ok, Babe... I now have it permanently etched into my brain... and it is with that image that I now must judge all other cock pics that find their way to me...

I'm telling you, you have just ruined it for me... you should be VERY ashamed of yourself..
Really.. I am simply mortified..


But in case you need to send another one..
well..

 

[BradBigBrain]

Wait a minute?! WHAT?!

You're not on the mailing list? Shit. I'll have to fix that.

 

[BradBigBrain]

It's ok, Babe... I now have it permanently etched into my brain... and it is with that image that I now must judge all other cock pics that find their way to me...

I'm telling you, you have just ruined it for me... you should be VERY ashamed of yourself..
Really.. I am simply mortified..


But in case you need to send another one..
well..

Rut roh.

I'm afraid that all this talk has hijacked the thread.

 

[NotHisLady]

Yes, I see what you're saying. That intent wouldn't be innocent if she already asked for a pic. Not only should peeps keep their profile tight but has anyone realized on FB when you've accepted a friendship and see someone else from Lit on there? That opens up a whole nother world of how tight your privacy settings are.

I was reading all the posts from people who didn't see how this could be an issue so I felt like I needed to say something.
That sort of obsessive behavior is most likely not common and is even pretty harmless most of the time.
The biggest majority of people have good sense enough not to use the same screen name across every site they are on or even the same email address when they sign up for different sites. The idea of an alt FB account just for online friends that's separate from the one for RL friends and family isn't all that bad an idea either. (Even if it's for no other reason than not having to explain to great-aunt Mabel who my friend in Ireland is and why they have something to say about my new shoes. )
This could very easily be a big deal and the lady in question needs to look hard at what she's doing and why before it gets out of hand.

 

[BeachMomma]

You're not on the mailing list? Shit. I'll have to fix that.

There's a mailing list? And I'm not on it? WTF?

You are so in trouble now!

 

[QuantumJumping]

36 M. I use to come here because I was morbidly obese and full of self-doubt and just wanted to be loved. 4 years later I have dropped 157lbs the hard way and now have washboard abs thanks to chicken breasts, various races, and God only knows how many planks. You, gentle reader, might be saying “good for you anonymous man”…….. But here is the crux of my secret. While I am straight as an arrow, the way I treat women is pure malice. Yes, I now have a shot with a lot of hot women. But, any woman who will sleep with me now, I treat like a vain whore.

Sweetie, now that you are normal weight, you are more confident. I'm certain this is the trait they are attracted to. Even attractive guys with no confidence don't get much action. In ten months I lost 75 lb. However even before losing, I got offers! One from an Olympic swimmer! He even stalked me and came to my house! Thankfully he had to travel for competitions! Why me at size 18W? Confident. Sexy attitude. Demurely flirty. Well dressed, groomed, expensive perfume. Expressive eyes. Socially acceptable touching. Appreciative comments.
Focused attention on Him as though there's no one else in the world I'd rather be talking to.
So taper out of this phase dear one and search for Your Woman.
Blessings.

 

[QuantumJumping]

Existential

57 year old male

That just does not know what I am doing here on lit. I have a wife at home that I have lost touch with, and now an online lover that seems to want me desperately.

I feel at odds with work and home life, is there anything more to life? I find little fun or satisfaction from either home, work or virtual world.

Putting it out there helps and I am grateful for the opportunity to share this with the thread

This is called an Existential Crisis.
An Existential Psychologist is trained for this.
Good Luck!

 

[Kudram123]

F 59

After two months of very sensual talking and cyber sexting, I find that the guy was lieing about his first name the whole time. First I get one name. Then a middle name if I prefer that over the first name. After two months he decides he is totally enamoured of me and wants me desperately to call him by his real name!
When I think of him now I don't think of name 1, 2 or 3. I think Liar.
Now he gets to remember me by my real first name. I have to filter through three names if I think of him.
What else has he been lieing about?
I cut him off.
He will compare me to every woman he meets from now until he dies.
This will be the Liar's punishment. Lossing the best thing he's ever had.
If I talk to someone I want a real first name or real nick name.
Don't give me any other personal information.
I only want a REAL first name!

 

[Lady_Fiona]

F 59

After two months of very sensual talking and cyber sexting, I find that the guy was lieing about his first name the whole time. First I get one name. Then a middle name if I prefer that over the first name. After two months he decides he is totally enamoured of me and wants me desperately to call him by his real name!
When I think of him now I don't think of name 1, 2 or 3. I think Liar.
Now he gets to remember me by my real first name. I have to filter through three names if I think of him.
What else has he been lieing about?
I cut him off.
He will compare me to every woman he meets from now until he dies.
This will be the Liar's punishment. Lossing the best thing he's ever had.
If I talk to someone I want a real first name or real nick name.
Don't give me any other personal information.
I only want a REAL first name!

ARE you the best thing he ever had?
WILL he compare every other woman to you forever?

Or

Is he just a bloke playing with his dick, getting off with you, making it up as he went along, telling you what you want to hear to make his dick hard and your cunt wet.

Hes not a liar, hes a man on the internet.

You luvvie are apparently 59, put your big girl pants on, pull them out of the crack of your arse and stop getting them in a wedge.