Annie's Sissy Help Line

[SweetAnnie40]

That would be a turn on yes

So yes to both the either/or?

 

[biguylovesit]

So yes to both the either/or?

Yes to both either/or and all I just want to be the best submissive sissy i can be.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Yes to both either/or and all I just want to be the best submissive sissy i can be.

Understood, you good girl. (kiss on your forehead)

I actually was asking guns4444,

 

[guns4444]

So yes to both the either/or?

More so the obeying part of it

 

[emmcee_M_Aussie]

Good questions Annie. Maybe asked of Guns, but we all would love to answer I am sure. For me it is YES and YES! I love the feel of the lingerie - it is all pretty sensual after all! - but wearing it under the direction of a woman in control heightens the experience. I was lucky when starting out to have a lady who enjoyed taking control and she bought me my first bra & panty set. Being told to go into the bedroom and put it on and then come and parade for her was exhilarating to say the least.

 

[LucyCanyon]

Loving the thread but keep forgetting to return to the FAQs.

Apropos the question about submission or sensation or both, for me it is almost entirely the latter. The sensual and slightly taboo nature of wearing feminine clothing is divine, but I don't desire to be dominated or 'turned into a sissy'. I do desire women and especially one who understands this desire to dress without it being a desire to be sub or humiliated. That's not saying those desires are in any way wrong or not acceptable, they are as equal and as understandable as my own odd take on life. I would like to have a woman occasionally choose today's outfit, I get so turned on when an old female school friend sends me something of hers to wear and wants to cam chat to see it on, and I am experimenting with makeups and wigs and transforming as I now want to be able to walk out... but at 6foot in stocking feet I am likely always to be obvious!

 

[Jenna2641]

Loving the thread but keep forgetting to return to the FAQs.

Apropos the question about submission or sensation or both, for me it is almost entirely the latter. The sensual and slightly taboo nature of wearing feminine clothing is divine, but I don't desire to be dominated or 'turned into a sissy'. I do desire women and especially one who understands this desire to dress without it being a desire to be sub or humiliated. That's not saying those desires are in any way wrong or not acceptable, they are as equal and as understandable as my own odd take on life. I would like to have a woman occasionally choose today's outfit, I get so turned on when an old female school friend sends me something of hers to wear and wants to cam chat to see it on, and I am experimenting with makeups and wigs and transforming as I now want to be able to walk out... but at 6foot in stocking feet I am likely always to be obvious!

I really wish they had a like button for posts like this. Each person is different, with their own place on the spectrum of play. You do you. Love your honesty. Hugs & es!

 

[LucyCanyon]

I really wish they had a like button for posts like this. Each person is different, with their own place on the spectrum of play. You do you. Love your honesty. Hugs & es!

Thanks Jenna, Hope you are having fun in your own special way too! Lxxx

 

[Jenna2641]

Thanks Jenna, Hope you are having fun in your own special way too! Lxxx

Thanks, Lucy!

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Thanks for sharing, girls.

 

[irishblade]

So my wife jokingly shaved my entire upper half (except my goatee and brows). I love the way I feel but not sure how to get her to let me keep it this way. She’s not very kinky. Or open minded. So not sure how to handle it.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

So my wife jokingly shaved my entire upper half (except my goatee and brows). I love the way I feel but not sure how to get her to let me keep it this way. She’s not very kinky. Or open minded. So not sure how to handle it.

That is an elaborate joke! Just tell her you like it.

 

[Iris_66]

So my wife jokingly shaved my entire upper half (except my goatee and brows). I love the way I feel but not sure how to get her to let me keep it this way. She’s not very kinky. Or open minded. So not sure how to handle it.

Hard to argue with Annie's approach, but if you can't broach the subject with her, you could just keep shaving

... and even add in any new areas you want to shave from time to time

Must admit I love being fully shaved now. It's a pain needing to actually shave every day, but it is so worth it for how it feels

 

[betabrad]

Looking for suggestions please

I'm look for suggestions on discreet things that i can do to help me feel more like a sissy.

 

[betabrad]

Looking for a skirt

I looked on amazon for a skirt but i'm not sure what might work best for me. I admit ( as you can see in my profile) that I'm a chunky girl - i have about a 48in waist ( 5'9 , 255). I was wondering if there was a type of skirt , like a 1 size fits all wrap around skirt that i could get or if you have any suggestions on type and size of skirt that might work for me.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I'm look for suggestions on discreet things that i can do to help me feel more like a sissy.

Well, Brad, you're in luck. I'm working on a new thread devoted to "sissy tasks". My hubby and i put a big list together of everything he'd done and everything he wished he could/would do that made him feel sissy. That was a couple years ago so I'm expanding it a bit creatively and then I'll post it. I'll announce the new thread here when it is up.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I looked on amazon for a skirt but i'm not sure what might work best for me. I admit ( as you can see in my profile) that I'm a chunky girl - i have about a 48in waist ( 5'9 , 255). I was wondering if there was a type of skirt , like a 1 size fits all wrap around skirt that i could get or if you have any suggestions on type and size of skirt that might work for me.

Hmm, for your body type generally I would suggest creating long vertical lines and not wearing a skirt which would create a distinct line around the feature you want to minimize. Of course you have your spanx and other shaping underwear you could wear to improve your situation (just like a real woman) or go all the way with a corset. If you go ahead with a skirt, I would suggest you get what turns you on the most rather than what might look best on you if you aren't going to be seen by anyone. If you are still focused on your appearance, go long, floor length and flowy. Short skirts and skirts with too much defined form won't be flattering. A flowing dress or skirt would hide the lower part of your tummy. If you wear size appropriate but large breast forms, they would gather the attention above your waist.

 

[emmcee_M_Aussie]

The new thread idea sounds wonderful Annie. Looking forward to that. PM on its way.

 

[stargame]

Well, Brad, you're in luck. I'm working on a new thread devoted to "sissy tasks". My hubby and i put a big list together of everything he'd done and everything he wished he could/would do that made him feel sissy. That was a couple years ago so I'm expanding it a bit creatively and then I'll post it. I'll announce the new thread here when it is up.

Fantastic

 

[irishblade]

That is an elaborate joke! Just tell her you like it.

Thanks. I know it’s probably that easy. But to formulate those words publicly will take some hard-earned effort on my part lol

 

[Jenna2641]

Well, Brad, you're in luck. I'm working on a new thread devoted to "sissy tasks". My hubby and i put a big list together of everything he'd done and everything he wished he could/would do that made him feel sissy. That was a couple years ago so I'm expanding it a bit creatively and then I'll post it. I'll announce the new thread here when it is up.

That sounds like it will be a great thread! I am looking forward to it. Hopefully I'll have the nerve to try some.

 

[cuck72]

Lurking on the thread for awhile. Although I cant say I'm a "sissy," I have alot of sub fantasies that fit in, unfortunately my real life, professional life, wife, family won't support it. I guess that's why I am here, but these fantasies and urges are strong. Maybe one day I might find a safe, discreet and willing play partner.

The same here, my submissive secrets makes for such dirty perverted faggot cock sucking thoughts. My wife knows I think of other men fucking her, but not about my jacking off wanting to be a sissy for a alpha male.

 

[irishblade]

That is an elaborate joke! Just tell her you like it.

All she said when I told her I like it was that she will continue to groom me then. Not sure she grasps the sexual aspect of it for me but at least she’ll keep me smooth!!

 

[SweetAnnie40]

All she said when I told her I like it was that she will continue to groom me then. Not sure she grasps the sexual aspect of it for me but at least she’ll keep me smooth!!

I'd count that as a victory! Most sissies would love to get even that level of understanding and be able to life sexy smooth.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

The same here, my submissive secrets makes for such dirty perverted faggot cock sucking thoughts. My wife knows I think of other men fucking her, but not about my jacking off wanting to be a sissy for a alpha male.

If you don't mind me asking, how does she know you think of other men when you fuck her? That wasn't a... problem for her? If she's fine with that, she's probably fine with other things.