Anal...

[bare_pussy]

Ok, this may be a weird post (though on here, there certainly are more weird!) but I'll post anyway!

I just had anal for the first time tonight, and while I'm sure it would have been nice to just go to sleep, we went out for a walk and for my guy to get some dinner. I got really crampy, like I need to...you know...but that wasnt it. He did cum in me, so I don't know if it was that, or just the overall motion...

anyone have the same reaction? It doesn't hurt to walk or anything like that, just crampy..if it does happen, does it happen all the time? I'd like to think that after anal, I'll still want to have sex a few hours later....but not if I feel like I need to...you know
advice?

 

[wtf????]

Ok, this may be a weird post (though on here, there certainly are more weird!) but I'll post anyway!

I just had anal for the first time tonight, and while I'm sure it would have been nice to just go to sleep, we went out for a walk and for my guy to get some dinner. I got really crampy, like I need to...you know...but that wasnt it. He did cum in me, so I don't know if it was that, or just the overall motion...

anyone have the same reaction? It doesn't hurt to walk or anything like that, just crampy..if it does happen, does it happen all the time? I'd like to think that after anal, I'll still want to have sex a few hours later....but not if I feel like I need to...you know
advice?

just go.......you know. You should do that before anyway.

 

[bare_pussy]

just go.......you know. You should do that before anyway.

I did before (I mean, as close to the time as possible...can't plan those things unless you eat a box of all bran!)

but, will I be crampy until I go? (I went, but I mean in general)

 

[wtf????]

I did before (I mean, as close to the time as possible...can't plan those things unless you eat a box of all bran!)

but, will I be crampy until I go? (I went, but I mean in general)

how long as it been? I duuno, My wife has only givin me anal twice, and both times we used an enema. She was sore, but not crampy.

 

[bare_pussy]

i wasn't sore - i have a pretty high pain threshold...

though, it didnt make me cum either

 

[wtf????]

i wasn't sore - i have a pretty high pain threshold...

though, it didnt make me cum either

nor my wife, she needed a vibe

I think with you it's a mental thing, because it was your first time. As long as we keep this thread going ,someone will be able to tell you if it's normal or not.

 

[bare_pussy]

well i know the not cumming was bc it was first time. i really only did it because i know he wants to...which is fine. just concerned if it'll cramp!

hope he liked it!

 

[wtf????]

well i know the not cumming was bc it was first time. i really only did it because i know he wants to...which is fine. just concerned if it'll cramp!

hope he liked it!

I'm sure he did, and I bet he will ask again.

Don't stress over it, you need to go laydown and relax.

 

[bare_pussy]

I'm-a-layin

 

[wtf????]

I'm-a-layin

good, your half way there. Now, just wait, and soon you'll be asleep.

I can chat with you, that seems to put people to sleep. lol

 

[GeorgeWBush]

I get that way when i get a flex scope done i think it is just a reflex that happens when you change the way things happen down there instead of it coming out it is like putting back in i don't know but it goes away the more you do it your body just has to get used to it.

 

[bare_pussy]

...just looking to see if any other women (or gay guys) get that feeling

 

[TempWife]

Yes, initially there was that feeling of "crampy" , um gotta go to the bathroom feeling but it passes. If he cums inside you then of course thats going to come out eventually as well. In my experience that crampy feeling will lessen as your body gets used to the intrusion(for lack of a better word)

 

[popcorn2721]

I know Ive been crampy before and usually walking (being active) helps get rid of the feeling or whats causing the feeling. Once I do know of someone who cramped the next morning...she felt better after going to the bathroom

 

[SummerMorning]

It's not mental - it could be air. You need to, there's no polite way to put it, "fart out" the air he "pumped in." That should deal with the cramps - unfortunately there's nothing to do but take your time.

It just depends how much time you spent having anal... long time, lots of air. The penis functions a bit like a piston in this respect - pumping you up literally. When you pull out air doesn't make it out of your intestine because it's pretty well curved, so air enters from outside, then when he pushes back in some of it gets compressed further in.

It's not dangerous, just annoying. More so if you ate any kind of "gassy" food before.

 

[bare_pussy]

It's not mental - it could be air. You need to, there's no polite way to put it, "fart out" the air he "pumped in." That should deal with the cramps - unfortunately there's nothing to do but take your time.

It just depends how much time you spent having anal... long time, lots of air. The penis functions a bit like a piston in this respect - pumping you up literally. When you pull out air doesn't make it out of your intestine because it's pretty well curved, so air enters from outside, then when he pushes back in some of it gets compressed further in.

It's not dangerous, just annoying. More so if you ate any kind of "gassy" food before.

thanks for the advice - i figured it would go away after i went to the bathroom, and it did - walking actually didnt help - i felt worse after a walk! i tried to...um...whipe out as much cum as possible to become clean (with a warm damp washcloth).
i'll keep trying it because he seemed to love it (since there was no condom - and yes, I'm on the pill but you can never be too careful!). He was happy, I think, because he's pretty big and could never do it before. Go me! maybe he'll fall madly in love with me

 

[therockap1]

I think its best if you go and handle your business and take a shower, then do anal. I've been with girls that had the same feeling, don't do it after you have eaten. Eat a few hours before, handle your business in the bathroom, then when you and he do anal, relax. I agree that it might be air.

 

[bare_pussy]

...do you think he should have called to see if i was ok?
lol

 

[LottieJones]

I'm glad someone you posted this thread, as I too had my first experience of anal the other night. It was fantastic, didn't hurt when I relaxed and I came twice (wich for me is v good if I come at all!!) I too felt "crammpy" but it seems to have lessened today. There must be something that can reduce/remove this? (other than an enema??)

 

[bare_pussy]

I didn't cum...
maybe I need a vibe or something.

 

[Moleculor]

Someone on the B.com forums just said something similar, and someone responded saying that since sperm contains nutrients such as sugars and such, your bowels were probably creating lots of gas since it was in there, which cause cramps.

 

[bare_pussy]

Someone on the B.com forums just said something similar, and someone responded saying that since sperm contains nutrients such as sugars and such, your bowels were probably creating lots of gas since it was in there, which cause cramps.

..hhmm.....
lottie - did your guy cum in you?

 

[warrior queen]

cramping after bareback anal is usually caused by the ejaculate itself.
the rectum/colon reacts to the acidity/alkalinity of the ejaculate.

you can eliminate this by using a condom - with the added benefit that it makes him last longer [usually]!

 

[bare_pussy]

cramping after bareback anal is usually caused by the ejaculate itself.
the rectum/colon reacts to the acidity/alkalinity of the ejaculate.

you can eliminate this by using a condom - with the added benefit that it makes him last longer [usually]!

in all honesty, i didn't want him to last long the first time! wasn't the most comfortable! i just kinda said "cum in my ass" and spurred him towards ending my first experience! hehe.
i think the point of anal is he has to wear a condom for regular sex just in case, this way he gets the feeling back...

 

[LottieJones]

Yeah, twice that night...he enjoyed himself as much as I did. Didn't realise that there was any sort of chemical reaction going to occur. I, like you thought it was just the actuall motion and newness of the experience. Next time I'll try it with a condom on.