Anal

[nycphoto]

For a story I need to know how it feels like to perform anal intercourse. Also I need to know how it feels like to be penetrated for the first time. Is there much difference the second and third time around? Are there any preparations the receiver should take?
Again this is for a fictional account so we need not apply normal rules. E.G using protection.
The more details you can supply more the more I will appreciate your response.
Thanks

 

[Latinababe]

When I first had anal it hurt my ex was big and I felt very uncomfortable, I didn't enjoy it as much as I thought I would.
Then when I dated another man that was average and he wanted anal I was scared at first, but it didn't hurt and I enoyjed it, but the feeling of anal is very pleasureable to me rather have anal more then having it in the love hole.

Don't know if that helps out some.

 

[nycphoto]

Yes this helps

However if you can tell me more or perhaps you can tell me both of your personal experiences as they took place. You can send me email privately for that. I will most likely incorporate your entire experience into my fictional account.
Thanks.

 

[kinkston-duo]

hi, its the girl half of the duo here. the first time i was anally pentrated it hurt like hell but we didn't do it properly, when i was properly prepared it slid in like going into my pussy and didn't hurt at all. the next day i was a little tender but nothing bad (actually i kinda liked the feeling, reminded me of what i had been up to the night before lol). i enjoy being taken anally very very much, and even though in your "story" you don't want to give safe details, you do NEED your participants to use lubricant and to open the anus properly first!

good luck,

love sophia

 

[MMorJon]

y not try it on yourself?

 

[nycphoto]

Thank you

Thank you for giving me some insight. If you would you can send me that night's details privately so that I can look over them and possibly use them in my story.

 

[SlowGuy]

There are some good details in the First time anal on Valentines Day thread. It's probably on the second or third page.

For subjective descriptions, check out the anal stories on Lit and experiment on yourself.

 

[kiwis29]

I cannot be sober to have anal. I think it hurts like hell. My very first time I cried because it hurt so bad, and as soon as we got done I had to run to the bathrom. (It gave me the shits bad). Needless to say that was 12 years to go and I have learned a lot since that first time. I am now with a guy who is very tender when it comes to anal. Like I said I cannot be sober. Usually it has to be a really dirty night of sex for anal to take place. As in role playing where I am definately into total submission. He usually has teased and played with me all night, so by the time we get home, I usually have most of my clothes off before hitting the front door. He gets me to our bedroom where he penetrates me with my vibrator. Not deep just a little test with some serious lube. That gets me pretty damn excited. He eats my pussy, bangs my ass with his finger. My so usually works me up to f**king my ass. By than I am usually in a state of ectasy and as soon as he breaks thru ( so to speak) I am usually at full blown orgasm.

 

[thegreenfairy]

I love anal. Lube is almost always essential... even in a story. Personally, I like spanking before anal, and some kind of clit stimulation during. Another option is double penetration using a dildo. So good!

 

[fma30f]

hi

My guy likes to do it dry. It burns a lot. But it is good when it lasts.

 

[jo_love_pink]

I love anal now but the first time I tried it we were both young and inexperianced and it realy hurt.The second time I needed a lot of talking in to and a lot of lube but then I enjoyed it and have done eversince.

 

[infinity706]

I've never had much trouble with pain from anal. Now, if I get off with something in my ass, it will hurt a little afterward, but I like it. Mostly, as long as you take your time and use plenty of lube, it will probably feel rather good. Getting fucked in the ass can even feel better than fucking someone.

 

[silverwhisper]

from the guy's perspective: performing anal is different:

1. assuming you're going in from behind, the angle's different. that extra 1" or so doesn't seem like it would mean that much, i know, but it really does.

2. it's tighter--a lot tighter. no one with 2 brain cells to rub together would try performing anal on someone dry. it not only hurts the recipient but also the giver! it works best if you lube up both the rectum & the cock. we can talk in erotica about using the lubrication from a woman's vagina but the truth is that isn't a whole lot. for better verisimilitude, use lube. people who've done it will get it. people who haven't will remain ignorant and you will have helped keep them so.

3. although the fantasy of going from anal to vaginal and back & forth might get some people going (and i admit, i'm one), the reality is it's a recipe for infection. please avoid it.

4. i love giving anal and there are times i prefer it to vaginal, to be honest: no concerns about pregnancy so i can shoot my entire load, and the feeling for the recipient, i'm told, is more intense. i suspect most women will tell you they can't feel every spurt when a man cums in them. i suspect most women will tell you they can during anal.

5. to me, there's something primal and raw about anal--even moreso than in other sex acts. maybe that's why i love it the way i do, i don't know.

i second mmorjon's question: why not try it for yourself? it's hard to write something convincing without first-hand knowledge.

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