Anal without lube

[Peznut]

Hey all.

I've recently had anal for the first time with my gf. It was also her first time.
We did it without lube as she was almost drippin from her pussy after a long foreplay session... i had been manually playing anally with her for a while and this was a first. If it goes in easily enuf and take ur time should it be fine without lube?

any other suggestions to make this tight tight area feel even better for both of us?

 

[warrior queen]

even if it seems to work okay without lube....

USE SOME!

in fact, use LOTS!

and then use some more, just in case.

 

[Peznut]

just curious... why?
everything seems to work well why use it?

im not trying to fight ya on it.. just curious

 

[ChainedEros]

I'm not an expert on anal sex or anything, but it would seem to be a little challenging to have anal sex for the first time without lube.

It makes me wonder if your girlfriend is not telling you something, or if you are really small.

:|

 

[warrior queen]

just curious... why?
everything seems to work well why use it?

im not trying to fight ya on it.. just curious

the anus is not self-lubricting.
even tho you have enough of your g/f own lube, it may not be enough to prevent damage to the delicate rectal tissue.
especially if you go for a long time.
and believe me (being a totally anal-loving kinda gal!), having any kind of tear or injury in your ass is NOT fun.
trust me, use some lube.
your g/f will thank you for it.

oh, and if you're both lubricated to the max, then you can give her more and longer anal fun!

 

[Quint]

I disagree. Yes, the first many times that I had anal sex, lube was a must. I couldn't even conceive of not using it. But now, it's natural for me to go without and I kind of like it.

Factors that explain why this works for me: 1.) I've done it lots before and am used to the sensation of anal sex. 2.) I enjoy pain. 3.) T, my lover, is uncircumsized and thus slides easier even unlubed. If any of these are different for you, my advice may not hold true, so I guess I'll chime in with the other ladies and recommend lube for her first time.

 

[Lust Engine]

I absolutely love anal and there's nothing that's more of a buzzkill than to hear her say "STOP! I'm drying out". So why even take the chance of drying out? Besides if you dry out, you're liable to give her a tear internally & that could be bad later down the road.

 

[SexyChele]

In my opinion, you don't absolutely need lube, unless things are too dry to make anal sex comfortable. I've done anal without lube before and, yeah, there were times it was a little more painful than it should have been (was without lube and really wanted it), but there were more times when things were just fine.

I would have lube available, because you never know if next time your lady will be just as wet as she was the first time. If she isn't, then I'm supposing you certainly don't want to hurt her. In that case, it's best have lube nearby to make things more enjoyable for both of you.

Oh, and just a word of caution here. Sometimes things can seem to be going along great in the heat of passion. However, if your lady notices blood or discomfort later on or the next day, it is most likely because she wasn't lubed enough. She needs to check for those types of things.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[James G 5]

I never used lube with the first partner I had anal sex with. We were young and just didn't know about it. Even though I always loved it, I possibly would have done it a lot more if we did know about lube.

Now, I sometimes use lube and sometimes don't. It depends on just how worked up I am and whether I want rougher sex or not.

Most of the time, lube is a good thing, and there are times it absolutely won't happen without it. But if I'm being entirely honest, the best anal sex I've had has been without lube.

I think I love you
Am surprised (but HAPPY!) to see you online!

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Lust Engine]

Ack. Having Partridge Family flashbacks.

It's good to be back, if only for a couple of days before my next adventure.....

Some is better than none.

Glad to see ya back too (not that I've been my usual prolific self) considering what we'll be facing in a few weeks!

(Now you've got me lusting after Susan Dey for a bit)