anal with my man

NewGirl146

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Looking for tips on anal fun with my man I have done anal a few years back I have a few toys few smaller ones I have been playing with I been really wanting to try dP any suggestions and tips on how to make it fun and less painful I love the feeling but I havent had Dp ever really want to try it.
 
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Take it very VERY slow and use a ton of lube. Just remember, you don't have to make it happen on the first attempt.
 
Have you found the 2nd guy yet New Girl?
Let him be underneath you, cock up. You next, cunt down, fucking him very slowly. Your BF then on top up your ass, very very slowly!

Then get the motions going together!!!

Best feeling ever!!
 
Make sure you are good and worked up before anal. My ex and I did anal quite a bit and I liked to make sure she had 2-3 orgasms before starting anal.
 
Have you been through the Anal section of The Blank Manual sticky yet? If not, I highly recommend reading the great advice in there, then coming back if you still have questions. When done properly, anal isn't painful.
 
I said discussion, not wanking.

Well, now you're probably more aware of how you're coming across when you propose private "discussions" and "chat" right off the bat. After all, if you have a bunch of useful info on the topic to add, why not post it here, so everyone who's interested can benefit?
 
i love erika

she s so onto us guys its uncanny! seems to me buttman that that is exactly what you were looking for;) great call erika
 
The best thing we've found for anal sex is a Lube Launcher from Amazon.com. ($3.99) Its a thin applicator that shoots lube up into your anus and lubes the whole channel, not just the entrance. Its made it much more pleasant for me and my lady friend.
 
Looking for tips on anal fun with my man I have done anal a few years back I have a few toys few smaller ones I have been playing with I been really wanting to try dP any suggestions and tips on how to make it fun and less painful I love the feeling but I havent had Dp ever really want to try it.
Two girls I have done anal with come to mind. The first was a surprise, she got on top cowgirl style looked me in the eyes and started pushing it in her ass. I had no clue until then and we had many nice times.

The other one, did it because I asked her to and she was more passive. That was more her style, she'd lay back and let me do what I wanted. This girl, I found it hard to push in past the spincter muscles because they'd tighten up, so it was like I was fighting her.

In retrospect I think I wasn't very sensitive to the second girl and could have done much better, or might should have stopped even though she had said it was okay and to continue.

Then there was a third who I was giving a sexy massage to, oiling her up and I oiled her butt cheeks and to some extent the crack between them, then lay down on top of her and started moving around. It slid right in, probably because I'd worked her over to the point of being extremely relaxed. This just happened....it wasn't like I started to massage her thinking about anal. We were just squirming against each other, enjoying the feelings, and I was running my cock between her butt crack, and it slid right in. She really got into it. Later, she said she wanted to fuck me in the ass with a dildo, and I didn't let her. I've since had mixed feelings about that.

So I guess I would comment that the girl really does have to be very relaxed, and does need to be in control, and I think her being on top would help a lot, where being more passive could easily become uncomfortable. Seems like that would all be more true when a couple was first experimenting with this. And those spincter muscles have to be loosened up, and that's something the girl has to do herself.
 
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I'm not sure what you mean by DP. You don't mention anything about a second guy at all. You can either use two guys or you can use one guy and a toy or you can use two toys and no guys. As for the mechanics of it all others have already given some good advice already.
 
DP works best for me if my bum gets filled before my vadge. Otherwise it can be really difficult to find the room in my bum.
 
I found using a soft vibe shaped like a snowman with seven or eight snowballs to be just the thing. It looks like anal beads without the string connecting them. I usually perform oral while inserting the vibe slowly, and I have slipped in easily every time.
I've been considering having another "clean" toy at the ready to do the DP thing, but so far just having my cock in her ass is blowing her mind.
 
TRIXIE just started having g spot orgasms from anal. We have to start slow because of my girth(almost 6 inches) but once settled in, she can't get enough.
 
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