Anal Toys

[SXYBlTCH]

well, you 2 are seriously turning me on!

lol well thanks, I think, but I think pixie left us but glad I could be of some help lol

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I'm still here LOL

 

[SXYBlTCH]

I'm still here LOL

ohhhhhhhhhh she is still here hehe I thought that she left

 

[Pixie Mischief]

ohhhhhhhhhh she is still here hehe I thought that she left

no I Was reading my book

 

[SXYBlTCH]

no I Was reading my book

ohhhhh sry ..... go read hehe

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

might i suggest something?

yeah told him I Was quiet scared since the last time and that to take it easy next time he decides to take my ass. he said "of course baby" yeah LOL thats what he said last time! LOL I dont think he realizes that I'm little LOL he does with regular intercourse but LOL when it comes to my ass he doesnt seem to realize it or something. I'll give him a 2nd chance when he comes back to visit me. just also its very hard to relax. his answer to it hurting some (not counting the terrible last time) is, "you need to get used to it"

hope you don't mind me barging in on your thread pixie....but i've read your stuff elsewhere and i have a suggestion on this particular problem that might make things more comfortable for you...and a whole LOT more PLEASURABLE for you <wicked grin> next time your man comes to town

have you ever used a butt plug? don't roll your eyes LOL. www.toysinbabeland.com makes one called Zing . it's about 4 inches long....1-1/2 wide at its widest point. the BEST part is it vibrates...dammit girl...LOL. you can work at stretching it out and get off at the same time. use tons of lube and have fun. i know you are very tiny. i believe it comes in a smaller model as well. happppppy stretching. and don't worry. things do snap back nicely.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Re: might i suggest something?

no sex shops around here and I would think it would be quiet uncomfortable to sit on my ass in my wheelchair with that up it LOL

hope you don't mind me barging in on your thread pixie....but i've read your stuff elsewhere and i have a suggestion on this particular problem that might make things more comfortable for you...and a whole LOT more PLEASURABLE for you <wicked grin> next time your man comes to town

have you ever used a butt plug? don't roll your eyes LOL. www.toysinbabeland.com makes one called Zing . it's about 4 inches long....1-1/2 wide at its widest point. the BEST part is it vibrates...dammit girl...LOL. you can work at stretching it out and get off at the same time. use tons of lube and have fun. i know you are very tiny. i believe it comes in a smaller model as well. happppppy stretching. and don't worry. things do snap back nicely.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Re: Re: might i suggest something?

no sex shops around here and I would think it would be quiet uncomfortable to sit on my ass in my wheelchair with that up it LOL

you misunderstood my intent. or perhaps not. either way...i prefer it as a toy of play between lovers...preparation...not something to sit on, or wear around all day. the vibe take your mind completely off any thoughts of "ouch"...at least it does mine..<chuckle>.

as to sex shops...you have a computer, you got a sex shop <weg>

best,

 

[SXYBlTCH]

I have to agree!

I agree with you anelize the toy I have has a vibrator in it as well, makes it twice the fun....if yours doesn't have it pixie you prob. want to consider a new toy....heck even if it does the more toys the better hehe

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Re: I have to agree!

I agree with you anelize the toy I have has a vibrator in it as well, makes it twice the fun....if yours doesn't have it pixie you prob. want to consider a new toy....heck even if it does the more toys the better hehe

every mew visit I get from BF he gets us a new toy. he told me to look for intersting toys online for his next visit.

 

[SXYBlTCH]

Pixie!!!! Ok go girl! you get to pick out a fun one hehe so many toys so lil time hehe

 

[Bandit58]

yeah told him I Was quiet scared since the last time and that to take it easy next time he decides to take my ass. he said "of course baby" yeah LOL thats what he said last time! LOL I dont think he realizes that I'm little LOL he does with regular intercourse but LOL when it comes to my ass he doesnt seem to realize it or something. I'll give him a 2nd chance when he comes back to visit me. just also its very hard to relax. his answer to it hurting some (not counting the terrible last time) is, "you need to get used to it"

Hi Pixie
It sounds like you need a bit more communication with the b/f! I had only done anal once many years ago until a few months ago, still haven't done it often, because my b/f reckons I am not ready yet and he's right. My first time was accidental and I tore and it was absolute agony. My b/f is treating me like a virgin in that area now, we go slow and use lots of lube and fingers first. I've had a vibrator up there (not very far!) and he's very gently put his cock inside me a couple of times. He's not attempted to cum in there - yet I really enjoy anal play, and I know it won't be long before I'm ready to take it further, but he's leaving it up to me to say when.

I am learning to relax more, because I know if it hurts or I don't like anything I can say stop and he'll stop immediately......

 

[isshogai7]

dear pixie,
sorry for wasting your time,i have a couple of suggestions for you.Please go tp puckerup.com,there's lot about anal intercourse.Also go to the site of dr Jack morin,there are wonderful advices for all the things anal,from a doctor point of wiew.Tristan taormino did write a book also.It's important to keep in touch with your backside first,and the sensation you feel as you touch yourself(feeling good,bad,a naughty girl,etc)and be aware of them.Then try to use your fingers,you can control the situation better.AS LONG AS YOU DO SOMETHING TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE,it will hurt.Begin to use some kind of light touch there during self pleasuring,then when you will confortable with that,can try some toy.ONLY THEN.About intercourse,you have to be really excited(try vaginal sex first),and YOU have to lead things,not your BF,otherwise he can be the most gentle on the planet and you will get hurt.Let him use toungue,fingers,and ONLY WHEN YOU are ready,try penetration.If you experience disconfort,stop.AS long as the intercourse is goal orientated,or
done to please him,you'll experience disconfort.Let him stop for a while to experience his presence,then he can begin to move,GENTLY.With some clitoral stimulation ,things can turn out quite good.I hope this will help.Let me know.
Happy new Year,
Isshogai7

 

[Pixie Mischief]

thanks LOL But I've already done all that and LOL I enjoy pleasing him geez its not like he doesnt do it back for me he did let me stick a toy up his ass to please me.
but hes licked my ass and used fingers, tongue feels... so good lol and I've stuck finger there many times, medical reason thought

 

[His Whimsicality]

Can anyone give me some advice on what kinds or sizes of anal toys to buy for a beginner? Im looking to see what a good size didlo is to start with. Ive tried using my fingers on myself but they just dont seem to do the trick. Also, any advice on how to get my wife to use these items on me would also be appreciated. Im hoping that by using these toys I will work up the courage to let the real thing up my ass some day.

My first anal toy was a jelly butt plug, 2 inches at its widest part. I know that this is quite fat, but I also wanted to be stretched, to work something big inside me because that idea turns me on.

I also got it in eventually, but there were two problems. The first was that the neck was too short, thus the widest part of the butt plug pressed quite uncomfortably against my prostate; the second was that the two "flaps" at the base were small and yielded quite a lot, so I was afraid that it would slip in.

I then got another plug which has got a longer neck and stable base, problem here is that it is only 4cm in diameter which is too small for my liking, and that it is also a little bit too long, but I couldn´t find anything better in the sex stores.

Anyway, since you have experience with fingers, I´d say dont buy anything smaller than 1 1/2 inches in diameter, and watch out that it doesn´t have a too short neck or yielding base, best material probably is acrylic glass.

 

[XWe2RLooking4UX]

I just HAD to respond to this topic
We have been having anal sex for a long time. But toys came along later on,
our first toy was like the purple one in the first page, but its a double ender, (so we can both enjoy it).
Then we got a red plug that is about 2 1/2in wide at the widest part, and about 5in long. we both LOVE that one too
Our most recent one is a 'real' looking dong, that is about 3in wide and 5-6 in long. I realy enjoy it alot (2x the first day) she hasnt tried to take it in the butt, although realy enjoys it vaganialy maybe some double penet going on later on maybe???

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I just HAD to respond to this topic
We have been having anal sex for a long time. But toys came along later on,
our first toy was like the purple one in the first page, but its a double ender, (so we can both enjoy it).
Then we got a red plug that is about 2 1/2in wide at the widest part, and about 5in long. we both LOVE that one too
Our most recent one is a 'real' looking dong, that is about 3in wide and 5-6 in long. I realy enjoy it alot (2x the first day) she hasnt tried to take it in the butt, although realy enjoys it vaganialy maybe some double penet going on later on maybe???

2 1/2-3 inches wide? sounds very painful. and I thought 1 1/2 was painful LOL
I'm 4 foot tall thought...... LOL

 

[XWe2RLooking4UX]

Hahaha I am a tad bigger that that... 6ft and 210lb I guess I got a big butt??

 

[SXYBlTCH]

WOW!

I just HAD to respond to this topic
We have been having anal sex for a long time. But toys came along later on,
our first toy was like the purple one in the first page, but its a double ender, (so we can both enjoy it).
Then we got a red plug that is about 2 1/2in wide at the widest part, and about 5in long. we both LOVE that one too
Our most recent one is a 'real' looking dong, that is about 3in wide and 5-6 in long. I realy enjoy it alot (2x the first day) she hasnt tried to take it in the butt, although realy enjoys it vaganialy maybe some double penet going on later on maybe???

Wow I have been looking for something bigger today. The one I have ( the purple one ) does feel good prob my fav toy but I want something that will stretch me out a bit more any ideas ??

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Hahaha I am a tad bigger that that... 6ft and 210lb I guess I got a big butt??

my bf is 230 lbs and he was sore with the purple one he didnt complain thought LOL wonder what hed do if I waved a big toy in front of his face LMAO

 

[XWe2RLooking4UX]

Hmmm well I can give you suggestions maybe, our next one after the purple one was the red plug... its a little bit bigger, works a little difrent though we just kinda put it there and it kinda stays there... maybe some larger diameter beads??

 

[Belilica]

Hmmm well I can give you suggestions maybe, our next one after the purple one was the red plug... its a little bit bigger, works a little difrent though we just kinda put it there and it kinda stays there... maybe some larger diameter beads??

do you have a pic of said red plug?

 

[Pixie Mischief]

ouch no hed wanna stuff the beads up me after LOL

 

[XWe2RLooking4UX]

Here is a link to what shape ours has, althought its a tad bit bigger, next size up i think.

http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sg...350977&UREQA=5&UREQB=4&UREQC=3&TRAN85=N&GENP=

 

[Pixie Mischief]

For sure not getting bigger beads how can I put it he "bites back" meaning hed wanna stick it up me LMAO

Here is a link to what shape ours has, althought its a tad bit bigger, next size up i think.

http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sg...350977&UREQA=5&UREQB=4&UREQC=3&TRAN85=N&GENP=