Anal stimulation help

[CeriseNoire]

and where else would I ask but here?

So I have this friend, straight male. He read a story of mine about a guy, a girl, and a strap-on, and after some puzzlement at the idea, he's been wondering what anal stimulation is like. We've been talking about it, and when he asked me for advice, I told him "Do some research and explore on your own."

Can anyone suggest reliable sites/online articles where he could find some info? They should preferably be geared toward straight males; I'm afraid anything else might make him self-conscious.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

You want a paperback by Violet Blue entitled The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex. He'll love it.

 

[CeriseNoire]

You want a paperback by Violet Blue entitled The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex. He'll love it.

I thought about that one. I've always been a fan of Ms. Blue.
I'm thinking of giving it to him if he ends up enjoying anal self-stimulation.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Yup, there's a woman who really enjoys men . . . an other women, of course. It was her book and the DVD from Sinclair that convinced Hot Mama that there was noting weird about my liking getting pegged.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've just found this resource;
http://www.jackinworld.com/

It seems pretty good, I haven't done much perusing.

Yet.

ETA, the sister site;
http://www.clitical.com/

 

[WRJames]

Does he have a partner lined up for this (e.g. a significant other?)

Even if he does, he should figure it out on his own first. That is -- if he's planning to use a strapon, get used to the dildo (and how to enjoy it!) in privacy before he attempts it with a partner.

 

[CeriseNoire]

I've just found this resource;
http://www.jackinworld.com/

It seems pretty good, I haven't done much perusing.

Yet.

ETA, the sister site;
http://www.clitical.com/

Thanks Stella, I had a feeling you might help

Does he have a partner lined up for this (e.g. a significant other?)

Even if he does, he should figure it out on his own first. That is -- if he's planning to use a strapon, get used to the dildo (and how to enjoy it!) in privacy before he attempts it with a partner.

That's what my original question was about. I need some sites that can help with basic research before he tries it on his own.

 

[Oblimo]

I need some sites that can help with basic research before he tries it on his own.

The Nifty Informational

Just tell him to take it like a man.

 

[CeriseNoire]

The Nifty Informational

Just tell him to take it like a man.

Thanks.

Quite the interesting site, but I have a feeling it would scare the daylights out of him

 

[Stella_Omega]

I just looked in the how to section here, and-- I really didn't find much.
Plenty on anal sex-- doing women, mostly-- almost nothing about anal masturbation.

There's a how-to contest right now, isn't there?

 

[CeriseNoire]

I just looked in the how to section here, and-- I really didn't find much.
Plenty on anal sex-- doing women, mostly-- almost nothing about anal masturbation.

There's a how-to contest right now, isn't there?

Yes, I think the contest's still underway. I can only hope this thread inspires someone to write a guide.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yes, I think the contest's still underway. I can only hope this thread inspires someone to write a guide.

.... yeah....

 

[Oblimo]

I have a feeling it would scare the daylights out of him

That insecure in his sexual identity, is he?

 

[CeriseNoire]

.... yeah....

Unfortunately I haven't been able to write much lately, and I really don't know anything about anal masturbation on the male side.

 

[CeriseNoire]

That insecure in his sexual identity, is he?

Lol, no. Just a bit inexperienced and not quite ready for that I think. Though it's almost tempting to see his reaction

 

[WRJames]

Thanks Stella, I had a feeling you might help



That's what my original question was about. I need some sites that can help with basic research before he tries it on his own.

Here is one that's not too bad

http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/bend_over_boyfriend

 

[Oblimo]

Lol, no. Just a bit inexperienced and not quite ready for that I think. Though it's almost tempting to see his reaction

Well, there's always the one-and-only male penetration edutainment DVD for heterosexual couples, Bend Over Boyfriend.

...

Jesus wept, why do I know this stuff?

 

[glynndah]

The Nifty Informational

Just tell him to take it like a man.

I do like the "jump the shark" file. It's a list of cliches for writers to avoid, and not just in gay fiction.

Jump the Shark

 

[CeriseNoire]

Thanks guys. I think your suggestions are good; I can share the more "daring" ones with him as he gets more comfortable.

I found a nice, non-threatening one to start him off, I'll know how to proceed depending on what he says.

Oblimo, why ask why?

 

[WRJames]

There are a lot of femdom videos showing ladies going after guys with huge dildos -- I don't know if he would find them exciting or if they would just scare the shit out of him.

 

[CeriseNoire]

There are a lot of femdom videos showing ladies going after guys with huge dildos -- I don't know if he would find them exciting or if they would just scare the shit out of him.

Lol. I think I should start with something tamer. I don't want to scare the poor kid to death.

But thanks. I followed your link and found this under the suggested resources. Just perfect

 

[WRJames]

Here is a good one to start with

Fetish Fanatasy Beginner Strapon

 

[Vermilion]

There are a lot of femdom videos showing ladies going after guys with huge dildos -- I don't know if he would find them exciting or if they would just scare the shit out of him.

Well at least it would leave more room for the huge dildo....


WHAT?!


Like I was the only one thinking that....

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