anal sex

[jammy9991]

me and my girl frequently have anal sex

i knw she enjoys it in the respect thats ehs enjoys the fact that im enjoying myself , but i dnt know whther she actaulyl enjoys it physically

so can u tell me ladies , whats it like for u


also where do u go after anal sex , i want sumthin new and excitin , like anal sex was at first. Any ideas , nuthin to hardcore though

 

[TypicalDeviant]

I recommend aural sex.

 

[quietinpublic]

I've only tried it a few times but if it's done right it is pretty enjoyable!

As in lots of lube, being properly warmed up first, etc...

You should really just ask her what she thinks of it? If there's no obvious discomfort from her then I'd imagine she is having fun - I wouldn't put up with it if I wasn't!

 

[SweetErika]

Uh, have you asked HER if she enjoys it physically?

Because getting opinions from others isn't going to tell you anything about what your gf actually experiences - she's the only person who can answer questions about her enjoyment (or lack thereof).

And while you're on the communication train, perhaps you should ask her what she would enjoy after anal. Again, different people enjoy different things, so it's important for you to know what your gf does and doesn't like/want. What you should NOT do is stick anything that's been in her ass in her mouth or pussy without cleaning it thoroughly first - that's a recipe for illness.

 

[koalabear]

me and my girl frequently have anal sex

i knw she enjoys it in the respect thats ehs enjoys the fact that im enjoying myself , but i dnt know whther she actaulyl enjoys it physically

so can u tell me ladies , whats it like for u


also where do u go after anal sex , i want sumthin new and excitin , like anal sex was at first. Any ideas , nuthin to hardcore though

the bathroom.........

 

[fgarvb1]

What the hell do YOU call hardcore?

 

[jammy9991]

well i have asked her , and she says it feels ok , but she enjoys the fact that im enjoying it rath than the act itself
so really what i was trying to ask is , is it physically pleasant for girls or not

and in reponse to the post above , i did use to class anal as pretty ahrdcore , but no iv done it alot its lost that side to it , thatw as why i was wondering what to do next

 

[SweetErika]

well i have asked her , and she says it feels ok , but she enjoys the fact that im enjoying it rath than the act itself
so really what i was trying to ask is , is it physically pleasant for girls or not

Maybe there's something you two could be doing better, or add to increase her pleasure? If that's a possibility, check out the anal section of The Blank Manual sticky.

 

[joehmpsd]

I have to agree with Erika, talk to her. Just because it might feel good to my girl doesn't mean it will for yours.

 

[jammy9991]

thansk for the advice guys

 

[Little Bird]

My advice for any man who wants his partner to enjoy anal sex, is to try for himself. It's one of the few things that's mostly the same for men and women.

After all, if you want your partner to comfortable with being touched and penetrated there, you should be willing to do the same. If you don't feel comfortable about it, it might not be something you should expect from someone else.

That said, it can be very pleasurable for both women and men, and I think if you know how certain things feel yourself, you're much more able to make it pleasureable for your partner. It's a win-win for everyone.

 

[saskatuna1]

My advice for any man who wants his partner to enjoy anal sex, is to try for himself. It's one of the few things that's mostly the same for men and women.

After all, if you want your partner to comfortable with being touched and penetrated there, you should be willing to do the same. If you don't feel comfortable about it, it might not be something you should expect from someone else.

That said, it can be very pleasurable for both women and men, and I think if you know how certain things feel yourself, you're much more able to make it pleasureable for your partner. It's a win-win for everyone.

i concur.

 

[jammy9991]

hmm thats proabbilyl a good idea :/ and i dnt think iw ould fancy it

thought the male g spot is up there isnt it


hmm may have to ring sum of my gay friends up

 

[TypicalDeviant]

hmm thats proabbilyl a good idea :/ and i dnt think iw ould fancy it

thought the male g spot is up there isnt it


hmm may have to ring sum of my gay friends up

I don't think they're suggesting you have sex with another man, rather that you explore the sensations of touching and fingering your own ass, perhaps even going so far as to use a vibrator, dildo, or buttplug on yourself.

 

[saskatuna1]

I don't think they're suggesting you have sex with another man, rather that you explore the sensations of touching and fingering your own ass, perhaps even going so far as to use a vibrator, dildo, or buttplug on yourself.

ding ding ding!

 

[jammy9991]

haah yeah i know , i was only joking

hmm maybe i will invest in one

though what if my parent ever see it :O

 

[TypicalDeviant]

though what if my parent ever see it :O

What's the worry? Use it with her. Afraid that she'll think your gay? Well, you're not gay for fucking her in the ass and you're not gay if you like having certain (anal) nerves stimulated. If that is the concern, just remind her that the only thing that makes a make gay... ... ...is enjoying sex with other men.

 

[Bottomlover]

My advice for any man who wants his partner to enjoy anal sex, is to try for himself. It's one of the few things that's mostly the same for men and women.

After all, if you want your partner to comfortable with being touched and penetrated there, you should be willing to do the same. If you don't feel comfortable about it, it might not be something you should expect from someone else.

That said, it can be very pleasurable for both women and men, and I think if you know how certain things feel yourself, you're much more able to make it pleasureable for your partner. It's a win-win for everyone.

Very well stated; I think this is the absolute best advice on the subject.

 

[jammy9991]

thanks again for the advice


i just dnt like the idea of her going there if im honest :/

thinking back i did once try it on myself , and i kind of know what she means now when she describes how it feels


xxxx

 

[Bottomlover]

thanks again for the advice


i just dnt like the idea of her going there if im honest :/

thinking back i did once try it on myself , and i kind of know what she means now when she describes how it feels


xxxx

Why should she like it if you don't? That part of our bodies are similar. With a little practice and experimentation, you may find what feels good to you, and can then use that information plus some communication to please her. It may turn out that no matter
what, she just doesn't like it, but that's not a deal breaker for me. It's just not that big of deal

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

thanks again for the advice


i just dnt like the idea of her going there if im honest :/

thinking back i did once try it on myself , and i kind of know what she means now when she describes how it feels


xxxx

You should think about trying it again.

I've heard that a very small vibrator in your ass while your dick is being sucked feels rather good.

Why should she like it if you don't?

Also: this.

It's the old "I love it when she blows me but I don't want to lick her" argument.

 

[mouthmike]

My advice for any man who wants his partner to enjoy anal sex, is to try for himself. It's one of the few things that's mostly the same for men and women.

After all, if you want your partner to comfortable with being touched and penetrated there, you should be willing to do the same. If you don't feel comfortable about it, it might not be something you should expect from someone else.

That said, it can be very pleasurable for both women and men, and I think if you know how certain things feel yourself, you're much more able to make it pleasureable for your partner. It's a win-win for everyone.

I have and I agree

 

[kara24]

How does it feel? If its done right - amazing! But that means taking time to get properly ready, and enough lube to make it comfortable. And if you can play with her clit while you are fucking her ass she will get a lot more out of it!

 

[squarejohn]

I recommend aural sex.

Yeah. That way she can hear you cummin.

 

[lyinaboutitall]

i have to agree with Kara24 on this one...i had never done anal before until recently. First time, was very uncomfortable and not pleasurable...i am a information girl...investigate everything. So i researched different sites and stories that encouraged clit play...So being the perfectionist that I am, next time i rub my clit and it was the very exciting, pleasurable, and orgasmic. If you didnt indulge in rubbing her clit during anal sex, do it, the next time i guaranteed she will enjoy it more than you