Anal sex

[southernsub23]

Is anal sex a key component of a Master/slave relationship?

 

[Powerdog16]

hmm... I don't know if I would consider it a key component, but certainly another avenue of the relationship.

 

[LearningSub]

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[southernsub23]

I think this completely depends on the people involved in the relationship.

If it is extremely important to one party or the other, then it is a key component, just as in vanilla relationships.

It seems to be a running theme with the majority of couples involved in kink that I have ever met or read about.. I don't know any D/s couples off the top of my head that don't involve anal sex somewhere in their relationship. I'm sure they exist, though... kind of like unicorns..

i am quite excited to give it a go...with the right man.

 

[LearningSub]

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[Powertone]

i am quite excited to give it a go...with the right man.

I can be in Alabammy in 7 hours...

 

[Powerdog16]

hee hee... I am already here.

Seriously though, I agree with learningsub. It depends on the couple. There are women out there who want nothing to do with anal sex at all. They can not get past the pain initially. That being said, it is up to the slave at the core. If she (or he) don't want it, it can be set as a soft or hard limit and then it is up to the Master to respect her (or his) wishes.

 

[MrMentor7]

Is anal sex a key component of a Master/slave relationship?

It can be, but I think there are few absolutes in d/s relationships.

 

[catalina_francisco]

It depends on the people involved as to whether it is a key component or not. There are some who never experienced or even knew anal sex existed before becoming invloved in BDSM, but there are plenty of vanilla folk who also enjoy it and have done for a long time.

Catalina

 

[midwestyankee]

Is rye an essential element of bread?

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

Is anal sex a key component of a Master/slave relationship?

I always thought Domination and submission are, paired with trust and devotion, but I've must been doing it wrong

 

[radepor]

Anal isn't everyone's favorite

Therefore, depending on the master and depending on the slave, anal is perfectly suited to BDSM relationships.

If he/she likes it, where's the fun in that...except, of course, it's fun.

Is anal sex a key component of a Master/slave relationship?

 

[Etoile]

If the Master likes anal sex, then yes. That's the only thing that will make it a "key" component.

 

[FurryFury]

Yep, it depends.

 

[Belle966]

Nope, I wouldn't say they're linked in any way. Some M/s couples have anal sex, and some don't. Some vanilla couples do, and some don't. I personally have no desire to try it.

There are very few key components in M/s or D/s relationships, when it comes to the physical/sexual side. Every relationship is individual.

 

[southernsub23]

Nope, I wouldn't say they're linked in any way. Some M/s couples have anal sex, and some don't. Some vanilla couples do, and some don't. I personally have no desire to try it.

There are very few key components in M/s or D/s relationships, when it comes to the physical/sexual side. Every relationship is individual.

great response - love the idea that specific aspects of sexuality arn't "must dos".
thanks

 

[bigarter1]

important to me

My partner and I both agree this is an important part of our relationship for me as his slut. Besides that, I enjoy it.

 

[shannon893]

Agree...

Anal sex may or may not a component of a vanilla or BDSM relationship. Specifically, in reference to the M/s component of your question, it is entirely up to the Master.

I've met both men and woman who love anal sex, and those (of both genders) who don't care for it or downright hate it.

 

[PertPerth]

*raises hand*
With the bowel issues I've had since birth, there is no way in hell I'm having anal sex. Add in the fact that I had surgery to be able to have vaginal sex without tearing my vagina - and you have a switch who doesn't take anal. Fortuntately only one guy I dated was VERY much into it - yeah, it was an issue, but we wouldn't have lasted long as a couple for a long list of other reasons. All the others didn't really seemed too fussed either way.
Having said that - I'd love to try a strap-on.

 

[00Syd]

It's not part of our relationship because HE isn't that interested in it.

Weirdo.

 

[Cattypuss]

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[Etoile]

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Ha, I thought it was quite good!

 

[Cattypuss]

Well thanks Etoile but I decided it was a bit catty for Cattypuss

 

[BabyxGirl]

Anal sex may be used in BDSM, but in itself is not a bondage issue. Some people simply enjoy anal sex for what it is....anal sex.


Jena, Lady Claire's naughty little slut

 

[infinity706]

I know one couple that has anal as a hard limit. I think it's pretty weird that they've never even tried it with all the kinks they're into, but whatever.