Anal sex without much lube- how does it feel?

[marieR19]

Okay, I KNOW there have got to be people around here who've done it, this is the bdsm part of Lit after all. I saw it mentioned in the NaNoWriMo erotica forums, but I figure asking here might get me a better response.

What does anal sex feel like (on the recieving end) if you do not use much lube (and the man/toy is fairly big)? Have any of you ever had that as a punishment or something?

(research for a story)

Thanks in advance!


Heather

 

[FurryFury]

My husband claims he is not big. He sure feels big to me!

Anyway, we tried anal sex a long time back with no research or prep other than my juices and HOLY SHIT it hurt!

Also I bled!

It wasn't a punishment. Just a stupid fucking thing we did out of curiosity without actually taking the time to learn how to do it right.

HTH

 

[robincr]

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[kajira311]

My ex said lube was for sissies

And anal was his favorite way, and he was thick, so ...

I got used to it. Sometimes, when I wasn't relaxed enough, it did hurt. But I never tore or bled. Most of the time my own juices and my spit on his cock was enough.

No matter what story or fantasy I use when I start to play with myself, I always, ALWAYS end up, in those frantic seconds right before release, remembering how fulfilled and truly, physically dominated I felt with his cock stuffed balls deep in my ass. Somehow I felt better knowing that no matter how I felt or didn't feel, he would satisfy himself in me. It satisfied me, even if it did hurt, maybe especially when it did hurt.

My two cents, hope it helps.

 

[xPinkxStarsx]

Okay, I KNOW there have got to be people around here who've done it, this is the bdsm part of Lit after all. I saw it mentioned in the NaNoWriMo erotica forums, but I figure asking here might get me a better response.

What does anal sex feel like (on the recieving end) if you do not use much lube (and the man/toy is fairly big)? Have any of you ever had that as a punishment or something?

(research for a story)

Thanks in advance!


Heather

I've done it with no lube (first time...bad plan) and only a little. It takes a little longer to really get going with it and it does hurt a lot more. Once his precum starts to lubricate inside it gets better but before that it does hurt a lot.

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

The jerk I first had anal sex with just shoved it in without lube or any other type of preparation, which might explain why it hurt so damn much. There was intense discomfort with some sharp pain, but as my body relaxed, the pain did lessen. I wouldn't recommend anal sex without lube, ever, to be honest. However, everyone's body IS different, and I realize that. I've been told I'm more sensitive than many.

 

[myinnerslut]

A once punished me with very rough anal. it was painful, rough, dry, and brutal. i bled then.

normal anal for us is never that bad. i would always recommend using lube.

 

[Netzach]

I'm not a frequent bottom in this activity, but I've always rather enjoyed it at times. I actually find that too much lube, to the point where I can't feel any friction makes me feel positively queasy - it's really not good. I vote somewhere between "none" and "a lot."

 

[DeservingBitch]

When bottoming, I actually prefer not too much lube (and often not at all). But I'm very 'juicy', so the lube is just redundant in my case.

As a top, I tend to go for more lube, but not so much that there's no friction anymore. Just enough to not cause damage.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Without any lube (including spit or precum) anal penetration can feel like your skin is being ripped apart. You may or not actually bleed but it feels that way.

Too much lube gives me bad after effects (gas, stomach upset etc) but dry anal sex is now a hard limit for me. The chance of damage is a real possibility.

 

[Marquis]

There's a lot of variety between anuses. As the penetrator, light lube is really uncomfortable with some asses and feels great with others.

 

[serijules]

I HATEEEE lube. I groan whenever Ma'am gets it out, as I just cannot stand the stuff. I get very wet on my own, so I personally don't see the need for lube for myself. It upsets my system a lot when used in my ass. But then again, I like the pain of dry anal (which isn't really dry anyhow seeing how wet I get and that wetness works its way in that direction in no time). I stop enjoying it once the pain fades. The entry is a bit much though, that needs to be done slow, not so much for the pain factor as the damage factor.

So does it hurt? Thankfully, yes

 

[twysted73]

There's a lot of variety between anuses. As the penetrator, light lube is really uncomfortable with some asses and feels great with others.

I had an image of a "wine cellar", but with asses lined up on racks instead of bottles as you spoke.

 

[Marquis]

I had an image of a "wine cellar", but with asses lined up on racks instead of bottles as you spoke.

That's a great image.

 

[ownedsubgal]

whenever my Master uses me anally, which isn't so often anymore, it's without any lube or with very little lube. obviously, with my bum always being so tight and tense and his cock being so thick and determined, it hurts. a lot. but after a few minutes i'll start bleeding (natural lube) and it will get a bit easier after that. but i'm one of those weird chicks whose never had a non-painful anal experience, from beginning to end it's pretty much excruciating for me, and for a good while afterwards i can't do much more than writhe around on the floor holding my tummy.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I've been used anally with and without lube and both ways are OK by me. One more of a delicate operation but the end result is what counts. I have never been punished anally so I have no horror stories to share. Just nice orgasms from deep in my belly.

 

[missy_me]

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[VelvetDarkness]

I find that silicone lube works for much longer than spit or my own juices. We have tried it with just spit and juice and I am ok for a short while before the friction builds towards the end of my tolerance again.

Master varies how much lube he uses according to his mood but anal is very uncomforable for both of us without it. He does say that I have a very tight ass IHE so maybe that's a factor, he also has some girth on him IMO.

 

[Quint]

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[Marquis]

Sometimes I can take it, especially if we've been doing a lot of anal recently. But if it's been a long time and he decides to start me off with no lube it's pretty horrible. I totally agree about the mental place I go to; it's exquisite and I don't think I ever get that feeling with any other activity.

This connection has always been an interesting concept to me. Anal certainly seems to be a staple fetish of the BDSM crowd.

There is a website I use to interpret my dreams and once I looked up anal sex on a lark. It said that dreaming of anal sex (I assume it meant as the recipient, but who knows) meant you were feeling very submissive to your lover.

 

[NemoAlia]

I notice that it's much easier (for both of us) with uncircumcised guys than with circumcised ones. I think because the foreskin can "stick" to my dryness without inhibiting the thrusting of the penis proper.

 

[nh23]

Okay, I KNOW there have got to be people around here who've done it, this is the bdsm part of Lit after all. I saw it mentioned in the NaNoWriMo erotica forums, but I figure asking here might get me a better response.

What does anal sex feel like (on the recieving end) if you do not use much lube (and the man/toy is fairly big)? Have any of you ever had that as a punishment or something?

(research for a story)

Thanks in advance!


Heather

I adore anal sex, but as far as using no lube..it depends on the partner. It it's someone smaller, it's not too bad. One partner I had who was really large it was horrible. I just laid there and prayed for it to be over while it felt like he was ripping my ass apart.

 

[Bandit58]

My first experience of anal sex was an accidental one - he slipped out of my vagina and went into the wrong hole All I remember is excruciating pain and yelling at him to "TAKE IT OUT, NOW!!" I bled for 3 days and sitting was painful for a week.

Put me off anal sex for over 20 years, until I met someone (not Master btw) who with much patience and lube enabled me to actually enjoy having a cock in my ass, even if I didn't orgasm from it (which I haven't yet but there's still time )

 

[kimbernee]

My first experiences with anal were with no more lube than a lubricated condom and the fact that it had just come out of my wet pussy and it never hurt. My current BF is bigger and even with lube it hurts at first.

 

[unfoundiamond]

I have to say for safetys sake.

I am a huge LoveLine fan, back in the day when its was Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew Pinsky who is board certified sex and addiction specialist- (So I am no doctor but he is)- and on the subject of anal sex, he said that *this applies to women* There is a paper thin membrane inside between the rectum and pussy, and if you do not lubricate the anus during anal sex you can rupture the membrane and shit out of your vagina. So, I know too much lube is bad but get yourself something to give a little slide, for the sake of your membranes.

Or don't... just passing on something I heard on the subject. I like to watch anal... its my favorite porn...