I am interrested in anal sex but i dont know how to really start. Is there anyway i can get "cleaned up"? i dont want my partner to get a little surprise................
Do an enema an hour or so beforehand. Check out the how to story section there are several there that pertain to anal sex. Mine is written for newbies. It's called Taking The Anal Plunge. Good luck.
hey, i had anal sex for the first time last night and it was so amazing. i did use an enema, but i was still so dirty.... i was so embarassed though!!!! please give me more advice on how to clean up.....
(unless that is something that gets you off), and just get yer finger nice and soapy in the shower. That's good enough. Besides, most blokes ain't gonna care.
If it's his prick yer worried about (afterwards), have him wear a condom--then you can take it off, and clean him up like regular. (lick, lick)
I hate to be naysayer but I gotta say don't use soap. It irritates the mucus membrane (maybe that's not what it's called) but it irritates something and causes burning usually when you are having sex. Effectively kills the moment I guarantee.
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There shouldn't have been much left in there. Did you wait the full 5 minutes either butt up/ head down (kind of like praying Islam style) or on your left side?
Glad you thought it was amazing. I think that's good right? Scabbers is right about one thing though most guys don't care if they have to clean up a bit afterward. Take a washcloth with you for quick clean up until you can get to the bathroom if you want.
> but i was still so dirty.... i was so
> embarassed though!!!! please give me more
> advice on how to clean up.....
Bottom line is that it isn't so bad really, though I understand your reluctance to be dirty. I've never found it to be much of a problem when I've done a woman that way and none of my lovers used an enima. Maybe you just had some bad luck. I'd recommend trying a few more times with recommendations above, you might find that your preparation technique improves with practice.
Well after reading all of the posts....the enama is the answer yes....but make sure that the water expelled is clear. If it's not do it again. If the water is clear coming out after your enama, you WIL be clean for him with anal....I promise.
I agree - don't worry about the enema. If you cover him in KY, he'll come out clean cos the brown stuff won't stick. Just remember to clean him off before he goes into your pussy. THAT's the one hygiene risk - the bacteria in your ass is not good for your pussy.
I have done it with my wife a number of times and I can say that it's the most erotic experience for me. I don't really mind the mess we make, I just use a scented lotion to mask the smell and then i run to bath room to clean up. Better yet we do it in the bathroom.
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