Anal sex for the first time

[shomex]

Just had my first anal sex ever. All I can say is that it hurt *a lot* at first, but got slightly better after a while. I guess my asshole bled a little. The guy I met at gay sauna was kind of rough and didn't care whether I was hurting. Luckily his pecker was not too large.

After 4 days, I'm still sore from it. Is this normal? I think that single experience might have put me off anal sex forever.

 

[m.j.h]

Just had my first anal sex ever. All I can say is that it hurt *a lot* at first, but got slightly better after a while. I guess my asshole bled a little. The guy I met at gay sauna was kind of rough and didn't care whether I was hurting. Luckily his pecker was not too large.

After 4 days, I'm still sore from it. Is this normal? I think that single experience might have put me off anal sex forever.

Still sore after 4 days. Bloody hell.

Probably not the best way to go for the first time but it's done now.

Don't be put off by all this but have another go if you want, only make sure the lube is ready and they take it easy, allow you to strech etc and only go hard once it's all the way in and you are comfortable with it.
Start slow and work your way up to a good hammering if thats what you want to do.

There are a few more threads about this stuff in the blank manual so have a look around and see what you can find.

 

[interface]

haha, why would you lose your anal cherry to basically was spur of the moment, pure animal lust with a stranger? Dumb.

No lube. Dumb.

No talking before. Dumb.

No self exploration beforehand Very Dumb.

Your ass better have hurt for 4 days, you did something stupid. And even dumber would be to put off anal sex because of this. Do not do more dumb things when it was caused by something dumb you did earlier. That's great advice for anal sex, and life.

Now, for those who will say 'this guy made a mistake, give him a break' or something along those lines; here is a very simple answer. I do not know how to properly use semi-colons! (just in case) Now, another answer is that he came here so he could find out if he should pursue more anal sex, and the best way to make sure he tries again is to make sure he knows it was him that did something bad, not the anal sex. He came here to be told he was dumb, he may have wanted it lube....rrr sugar coated, but too bad.

 

[fingermagic]

Just had my first anal sex ever. All I can say is that it hurt *a lot* at first, but got slightly better after a while. I guess my asshole bled a little. The guy I met at gay sauna was kind of rough and didn't care whether I was hurting. Luckily his pecker was not too large.

After 4 days, I'm still sore from it. Is this normal? I think that single experience might have put me off anal sex forever.

I think you need to be a bit more careful about who you have sex with. As exciting as the encounters may be, you may end up getting hurt even worse in the future.

 

[interface]

Very good point. Safe sex can mean more than just wearing condoms, which I did not hear of any in this encounter, btw.

 

[Lucky Girl]

My first anal was after some (a few bottles) of wine...now 3 years later, I'm loving it more every time. Now, I can't even cum without a little stimulation "back there."

I HIGHLY recommend lube, though. It just isn't good without it! It just plain hurts.

 

[interface]

I don't need lube a lot of the time, actually.

 

[interracial_sex]

Just don't make the mistake I made. I dated a girl once and kept trying to get her to let me take her anally. Finally one night after we'd been out on the town she said ok. We'd both had a little too much to drink by the time we got home to do it. She asked me to get some vaseline from the bathroom. Problem was the lightbulb was burned out in the bathroom and I couldn't see. I did NOT grab vaseline. I ran back in and lubed her up really well so as to get her lose and be sure to make it as painless as possible. Once I entered her, when the BEN GAY and the first dick ever in her ass merged....you could hear her wailing three states away! I had NO idea what I'd done and just thought her reaction meant I was doing my job! "Yeah, baby, who's yer Daddy?" LOL

Needless to say I never got the ass a 2nd time!

 

[BT-NJ]

Just don't make the mistake I made. I dated a girl once and kept trying to get her to let me take her anally. Finally one night after we'd been out on the town she said ok. We'd both had a little too much to drink by the time we got home to do it. She asked me to get some vaseline from the bathroom. Problem was the lightbulb was burned out in the bathroom and I couldn't see. I did NOT grab vaseline. I ran back in and lubed her up really well so as to get her lose and be sure to make it as painless as possible. Once I entered her, when the BEN GAY and the first dick ever in her ass merged....you could hear her wailing three states away! I had NO idea what I'd done and just thought her reaction meant I was doing my job! "Yeah, baby, who's yer Daddy?" LOL

Needless to say I never got the ass a 2nd time!

YYYYYEEEEEOOOOOUUUUUCCCCHHHHHH!!!!!!

 

[socalsurfer]

Just don't make the mistake I made. I dated a girl once and kept trying to get her to let me take her anally. Finally one night after we'd been out on the town she said ok. We'd both had a little too much to drink by the time we got home to do it. She asked me to get some vaseline from the bathroom. Problem was the lightbulb was burned out in the bathroom and I couldn't see. I did NOT grab vaseline. I ran back in and lubed her up really well so as to get her lose and be sure to make it as painless as possible. Once I entered her, when the BEN GAY and the first dick ever in her ass merged....you could hear her wailing three states away! I had NO idea what I'd done and just thought her reaction meant I was doing my job! "Yeah, baby, who's yer Daddy?" LOL

Needless to say I never got the ass a 2nd time!

I have never owned BenGay but I believe it comes in a tube right? Doesn't vaseline come in a container?

Great story though.

 

[Lucky Girl]

Yikes! I've got one that's pretty bad, too. Involves buffalo wings and not washing one's hands well enough before foreplay. Now that was for real. I still giggle everytime I have wings...

 

[baddog434]

My first time having a woman anally was an old girlfriend. She didn't like to use birth control...so we would have sex different ways and I would always finish in her mouth or ass. The first time we were fucking and she pulled me out and just slipped me into her ass. Obviously it was not her first time!! Ever since then I have been a fan of anal sex.

 

[Lucky Girl]

My first time having a woman anally was an old girlfriend. She didn't like to use birth control...so we would have sex different ways and I would always finish in her mouth or ass. The first time we were fucking and she pulled me out and just slipped me into her ass. Obviously it was not her first time!! Ever since then I have been a fan of anal sex.

Nice. Sometimes it just works out like that. You never "wondered" about it before then?

 

[baddog434]

Nice. Sometimes it just works out like that. You never "wondered" about it before then?

Oh I wondered...my girlfriend prior to that one liked me to insert a finger in her ass while I was fucking her....but she was very petit...and I'm not long, but a little on the thick side, so she didn't want to try it....

 

[interracial_sex]

Ben Gay comes in a tube or a canister, just like vaseline. In the dark it was impossible to tell which I picked up. The incident is 100% true.

 

[BT-NJ]

Yikes! I've got one that's pretty bad, too. Involves buffalo wings and not washing one's hands well enough before foreplay. Now that was for real. I still giggle everytime I have wings...

happened to me once, didn't wash my hands well enough BEFORE I went to use the bathroom.

Ever seen a grown man cry???

 

[Lucky Girl]

Oh I wondered...my girlfriend prior to that one liked me to insert a finger in her ass while I was fucking her....but she was very petit...and I'm not long, but a little on the thick side, so she didn't want to try it....

That's what I thought. I think all men do.

My first was a long term steady boyfriend who "just so happened" to come across an article about it in an old edition of Playboy. At first, it freaked me out! We broke up a few months later (not related to this).

After a year of being at each others' throats, we decided to do dinner to try to gain closure. A few hours later, and after a big plate of mushroom tortellini and 3 or 4 bottles of wine, we couldn't resist the attraction any longer. We went back to his place, fucked for hours, exploring each other in ways that we NEVER thought possible!

I've been hooked since!

 

[Lucky Girl]

happened to me once, didn't wash my hands well enough BEFORE I went to use the bathroom.

Ever seen a grown man cry???

At least with enough scrubbing, you could remedy your pain. I had to wait mine out...we both had wings and after much "exploration" I was burning in 2 places that were (basically) unscrubbable! Needless to say, we're a bit more careful with washing before playing...

 

[socalsurfer]

Ben Gay comes in a tube or a canister, just like vaseline. In the dark it was impossible to tell which I picked up. The incident is 100% true.

OK. Like I said, I have never bought BenGay so I do not know. Ha you can now look back and laugh.