Anal sex and bi curiosity

[SilkVelvet]

Firstly, I wanted to say yay, we have a GLBT board at last and to Etoile and apetforyou, cos you are both darlings and soo sweet and smart xx

A few years ago, I tried anal sex for the first time with a man, and really enjoyed it. I remember thinking so why is this so taboo, why all the big fuss ?( A site that really helped answer a lot of my questions btw was www.puckerup.com)

It seems to me, that though of course it is a choice for bi women like myself (and str8 ones too), if more women did get into anal sex, more straight-identified men would enjoy it and get out of the mental straight jacket and satisfy their own bi-curiosity. I certainly wish I had discovered it earlier in my sexual history, but I thought it was a terrible perversion back then.

What do you all think of my theory ? ( And again I reiterate it has to be a choice for women)

I also wanted to ask here, of any bi women or lurking/interested straight women, does gay male porn turn you on ?

My deepest fantasy, other than being swept of my feet by a Dom/Domme, is to watch two bi men and get involved.

I think its partly because I know what anal sex feels like, partly because of the submissiveness of a gay bottom (be it BDSM or not) and because well I like the idea of seeing men in love/lust being tender and not 100% macho. Oh and of course two hot male bodies getting all entangled and sweaty ..

(When it comes to women though, I am much more possessive and no way would I do a threesome, I want her all to myself, every delectable centimetre )

velvet xx

 

[Queersetti]

I'm not sure I understand what you are getting at.

Are you saying that if more women were open about enjoying anal sex, it would lose some of it's taboo status, and therefore, more men would want to try it, leading to them exploring bisexuality?

I think the stigma against homosexuality runs deeper than that, but I suppose it couldn't hurt.

 

[SilkVelvet]

Sorry I wasn't clearer but basically yes that is what I am wondering. Of course I realise that the stigma of homosexuality, as you put it, does run deeper than that, but I do think for some men, that it would be enough to prompt them to follow their instincts and urges an get out of the mental sexual straightjacket, yes.

 

[Queersetti]

Sorry I wasn't clearer but basically yes that is what I am wondering. Of course I realise that the stigma of homosexuality, as you put it, does run deeper than that, but I do think for some men, that it would be enough to prompt them to follow their instincts and urges an get out of the mental sexual straightjacket, yes.

Thank you. I am skeptical it would have much effect, but like I said, it couldn't hurt!

 

[Netzach]

Doesn't this put yet more shit at the feet of women?

No offense, I know you didn't mean it that way, but it smacks to me of:

girls, if you just learned to take it up the ass and like it more, the boys would change, they'd be nicer!

The change is up to the boys. If anything I should be doing my part to provide ass-virgin males with a quality first fuck. If they want to go from memorex dick to live, so much the better, but they get the credit, not I.

And I like it up the ass, sometimes.

 

[Never]

Hey, nothing would turn me bisexual faster than my girlfriend saying she wanted anal sex. Other than... I don't know... oral sex. Yeah, going down the the best route for women.