Anal/prostate toy question

[Owlz]

One of my favorite toys is an anal vibrator. It comes with a 'pump bulb' attached to it. It's essentially an inflatable, vibrating buttplug. After I insert it, I inflate it until I can feel it touch my prostate. Then, I turn the vibrator part on. It feels amazing, but when I withdraw it, there are streaks of blood on it (though not a lot). I know that's a very sensitive area, but how to use such a wonderful toy without bleeding?

 

[DuckLover]

Yowch!

If you're bleeding, that's a bad, bad sign. It obviously means that you've done some damage and broken the skin (or mucus membrane internally). The possible results are extremely serious, so please monitor yourself closely for a few days.

To prevent bleeding, damage, and pain, follow the same tips for anal sex. Go very slowly-- give your body time to adjust. The anus is not designed to accept anything going IN, so give the muscles (the sphincter in particular) time to relax. Some people like to have a drink or two first to help with relaxing, but don't overdo it. You should also use LOTS of lube. When playing anally, there's no such thing as too much lube. Don't be afraid to use the whole bottle! And please, please, please, do NOT use any kind of anesthetic (numbing creams, etc)!! If you can't feel pain, you won't know if you're injuring yourself.

When done slowly and with lots of lube, anal play is awesome! Have fun!

 

[Owlz]

Re: Yowch!

If you're bleeding, that's a bad, bad sign. It obviously means that you've done some damage and broken the skin (or mucus membrane internally). The possible results are extremely serious, so please monitor yourself closely for a few days.

To prevent bleeding, damage, and pain, follow the same tips for anal sex. Go very slowly-- give your body time to adjust. The anus is not designed to accept anything going IN, so give the muscles (the sphincter in particular) time to relax. Some people like to have a drink or two first to help with relaxing, but don't overdo it. You should also use LOTS of lube. When playing anally, there's no such thing as too much lube. Don't be afraid to use the whole bottle! And please, please, please, do NOT use any kind of anesthetic (numbing creams, etc)!! If you can't feel pain, you won't know if you're injuring yourself.

When done slowly and with lots of lube, anal play is awesome! Have fun!

All good advice. Any recommendations for internal prostate massage toys?

 

[The_old_man]

I would strongly advise against any inflatable toy in the anus, damage is far too easy.

long, slim, vibrators are much safer. Try to get it into the base of your cock, feels wonderfully there.

 

[DuckLover]

I don't have any experience with inflatable toys, and I have mixed feelings about the idea.

Slim vibrators are a great option; you can even get several models that are specifically designed for prostate/g-spot stimulation. Some butt plugs are also good.

 

[izod]

I just ordered an Aneros. I keep reading great reviews about it. You may want to give it a look.

 

[Owlz]

I would strongly advise against any inflatable toy in the anus, damage is far too easy.

long, slim, vibrators are much safer. Try to get it into the base of your cock, feels wonderfully there.

*into*??

 

[Owlz]

I don't have any experience with inflatable toys, and I have mixed feelings about the idea.

Slim vibrators are a great option; you can even get several models that are specifically designed for prostate/g-spot stimulation. Some butt plugs are also good.

Any particular vibrators you could recommend for internal prostate stim?

 

[Owlz]

I just ordered an Aneros. I keep reading great reviews about it. You may want to give it a look.

Got one already, but unless I manually slide it in & out, massaging my prostate that way, the instructions are quite lengthy & it seems it would take several hours to achieve multiple orgasms with it.