Anal play effects

[heterotic]

More of a safety question than a how-to. I've heard much to support each opposed view, and I'd like to know for sure. I wish I could think of a more delicate way to phrase it, but will frequent insertion, or insertion of larger objects into the anus cause incontinence, or other embarrassing or harmful effects?

 

[on_the_verge]

More of a safety question than a how-to. I've heard much to support each opposed view, and I'd like to know for sure. I wish I could think of a more delicate way to phrase it, but will frequent insertion, or insertion of larger objects into the anus cause incontinence, or other embarrassing or harmful effects?

Heterotic ,

You might want to specify the frequency and the size of the objects, no? Each body is different and there aren't really any definitive answers. Maybe I will do some research and I should, considering that it can be a nice part to the any acts of sex and/or foreplay…

 

[heterotic]

If there isn't a definitive answer, verge, I guess the question would be what's the safety threshhold? Even in relative terms, such as: "If it feels like it's stretching, but doesn't actually hurt, it's ok." Or something like that, whatever it is.
Research could be hard to find. I guess I could do a medline search, though...

 

[Beethoven'sFire]

The rectum is not meant to be used as a sexual orafice. Any time you insert something into it, regardless of size, you are taking a risk. Anal sex can cause impaction, hemmerhoids, and you can tear or damage the colon, as well as cause infection.

However, this doesn't stop most. I would merely pay attention to how you feel during the act, but don't forget how you feel afterward as well. Monitor your bowel movements and if there is any infrequancy, lay off the anal play for a while.

 

[heterotic]

Thanks, Beethoven'sFire. So there's nothing that I wouldn't notice at first, but would put me in depends by 50?

 

[Frouwa_Aph]

Thanks, Beethoven'sFire. So there's nothing that I wouldn't notice at first, but would put me in depends by 50?

The trick is to go slow and to use lots of lube. One finger first, once it feels OK, go on with a second finger and/or a medium plug.

If you go slow and don't tear the sensitive tissues, no problem. The sphincter muscles need to get used to the intrusion, going too fast might rip them and then you'll be in trouble, not at 50, but immediately. Pain is a good guide here, if it doesn't stop after a few mins, don't continue.

If you use really big plugs or bigger parts of the body, i.e. a fist, then it'll take the sphincter muscles a while to close up again and there might be some brown stains in your underwear for a day or two. But that's about it. As long as you don't rip the muscles the anus closes up again. Assholes can take a lot.

Monika

 

[APhil]

Repeated anal insertions, of any object large or small, can cause colorectal distension, in time. As an example, watch any adult film with a porn star named Mila. She can literally force her colon out of her rectum. For further viewing pleasure, watch the Houston 620...

 

[JilloryIsMoist]

Yowee! And poor Mila: splashback when sitting on the toilet is bad enough, but to drop one's whole colon down there? Eek.

 

[Guest]

Get a copy of "Backdoor Willy" at www.penisenlargementillustrated.com/anal.htm
and you will know all you need to know

 

[SexyChele]

Basically, it comes down to knowing your own body and taking steps to protect your body, such as lube, going slow, etc.

Sometimes the recipient may experience constipation for a day or so, others may have diaherria. Just depends on how a person's body reacts to the insertion of an object, and also how it reacts to ejaculate. When I was really new to anal sex, I experienced both. Now, I experience neither.

And, no, I do not need to use Depends, I don't have hemorriods, and I can't expel my colon. But I do know that if I've had anal sex, and then the next day I experience difficulty with the functioning of the rectum, I lay off of anal sex. It's really quite basic.

I doubt few people would experience the problem of expelling a colon or an anus that is permanently "stretched", unless they are in the porn industry and do this with a lot more frequency than the average person on the street.

And let us not forget - you can have incontinance problems, hemorroids, and other malfunctions of the rectum due to other things beside anal sex. Keep it in perspective, and get to know your body.

 

[Max27]

well....

I have to tell you all that I, a man, had my ass deeply penetrated by my female lover's finger last night.
it took some coaxing but she tried it. I have to say that it was fantastic. it hurt alittle at first and I did take my time. but once i relaxed and let her in, it was great. I kept asking her to go deeper. then asked her to push in and out.
when she started fucking me with her finger, I was moaning so loud. she reached around and jerked me off and I was in heaven.
is this what it feels like to be fucked?
I think if I can feel comfortable with the size, I would love to have her use a strap on.

does turn on women?

 

[SexyChele]

Re: well....

I have to tell you all that I, a man, had my ass deeply penetrated by my female lover's finger last night.
it took some coaxing but she tried it. I have to say that it was fantastic. it hurt alittle at first and I did take my time. but once i relaxed and let her in, it was great. I kept asking her to go deeper. then asked her to push in and out.
when she started fucking me with her finger, I was moaning so loud. she reached around and jerked me off and I was in heaven.
is this what it feels like to be fucked?
I think if I can feel comfortable with the size, I would love to have her use a strap on.

does turn on women?

I would say that you are almost there, Max. A finger, especially a woman's, is much slimmer than a dildo, and usually not as long. You will experience a greater degree of "fullness" and "stretching". Then you will know what it feels like to "receive"! Something you will really want to consider is lube! Don't expect that your lover will be able to insert a strapon into your anus and NOT use lube! OUCH! Don't use Vaseline (petroleum based) or hand lotion. You are best using a water soluble lube, such as KY or Astroglide. The more lube you use, the more comfortable it will be.

Also, as she pushes in, be sure to push out - entry will be much smoother. Oh, and you will find out what I mean when I tell men to GO SLOW! Tell your lover to take it very slowly.

Men are lucky - anal entry rubs against their prostates - where the true "good feelings" come from.

Is it a turn on? Not for every woman - but it would be for me! Ask your lover first. I'll bet she'd be willing to give it a shot.

Then, enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!

 

[Max27]

sooooooo,
you say that you would enjoy it, eh?


well, I may have to ask you to prove that!

on my hands and knees, with my ass up and waiting!!!!

 

[LarzMachine]

Hey Max, once you get over the initial "alienness" it's all uphill from there. I've graduated to some truly insane objects (including a Sobe bottle LOL), and it just keeps getting better.

Good luck brah.

 

[KillerVanity]

I don't know if this helps, but there's an interesting interview on BME called PLP56: ASS EXTREME, and it includes answers to the questions you asked.

 

[oni]

Repeated anal insertions, of any object large or small, can cause colorectal distension, in time. As an example, watch any adult film with a porn star named Mila. She can literally force her colon out of her rectum. For further viewing pleasure, watch the Houston 620...

I asked a similar question to this, since I got hemmorhoids for about three weeks after my first gay experience, and was referred to this thread. It looks like that one guy who can stick a volkswagon up his ass is doing fine, but I couldn't find anything with Mila in it, and watched about 20 minutes of the Houston 620 (as well as several clips from the Houston 500) without seeing any colons sticking out. Could anybody refer me to some specific pictures or movies with it, with a link if you have one? I'd like to see what we're talking about, and it sounds kinda like it could be sexy (although it could also be gross, I don't quite know yet)

 

[littlecat]

A little puzzled...

I am curious as to whether heterotic meant incontinence or encopresis in his original post?? I can see why one may be afraid of encopresis :Encopresis (en-co-PRE-sis) refers to the leakage of stool in the underpants - fecal soiling. , but why incontinence?? Is there something I am missing??
L.

 

[SlickTony]

you can have incontinance problems, hemorroids, and other malfunctions of the rectum due to other things beside anal sex

Unfortunately, I know all too well that this is all too true.

 

[lovechild27]

I was always told that if you had to much anal play your muscles would become to streched out and you would start to run the chance of pooping yourself cuz you couldnt hold anything in....

i wouldnt put anything bigger than your head up there


jk

 

[LarzMachine]

I was always told that if you had to much anal play your muscles would become to streched out and you would start to run the chance of pooping yourself cuz you couldnt hold anything in....

i wouldnt put anything bigger than your head up there


jk

It depends. I've done some pretty wild insertttions, and I don't have any problems except for soreness the next day or so.

Of course, I've never done any helmeting... LOL

 

[SlickTony]

Helmeting, what's that? Please enlighten me.

 

[LarzMachine]

Heh.

Helmeting, what's that? Please enlighten me.

That would be the semi-mythical practice of fucking someone in the ass with your HEAD. Apparently it involves muscle relaxants and a LOT of lube. I say semi-mythical because it sounds like perverted urban myth to Me, but Hustler mentioned it in passing once, so it might actually be done.

 

[lovechild27]

Why would you want someones head in your ass?

I cant see that being sexy at all...lol

 

[LarzMachine]

Yeah, no shit!

Why would you want someones head in your ass?

I cant see that being sexy at all...lol

I have NO idea! ANd that's why it isn't on the list of things to try... I wouldn't want to be on EITHER end of that little adventure.

For the bottom, OUCH!!

For the top, your HEAD would be in their ASS. ::shudder::

Scary part is, I have no idea which would be worse...

 

[ericviking69]

Open minded

Why would you want someones head in your ass?

I cant see that being sexy at all...lol

I like to think I am open minded but I think the idea is crazy...