Anal Help Needed
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I had my first anal sex experience about two weeks ago... and it was completely amazing 
. Mostly I think you have to keep a 'fun' attitude. Try out positions and play around and stay relaxed. My boyfriend and I spent a good hour just fooling around and trying to figure out what position would be best for him to slip inside of me.
Then, of course, there are the basic bits of advice. Use lots of lube and don't force anything... feel free to shower or take an enema if it makes you feel better. In general I think the key is just to have fun and be open and able to express your fears to your partner.
Good luck... it really is a wonderful experience... best orgasm of my life was a result of our anal play.
We laid on our sides and he slipped into me from behind and played with my clit, worked well for me...
. Mostly I think you have to keep a 'fun' attitude. Try out positions and play around and stay relaxed. My boyfriend and I spent a good hour just fooling around and trying to figure out what position would be best for him to slip inside of me.Then, of course, there are the basic bits of advice. Use lots of lube and don't force anything... feel free to shower or take an enema if it makes you feel better. In general I think the key is just to have fun and be open and able to express your fears to your partner.
Good luck... it really is a wonderful experience... best orgasm of my life was a result of our anal play.
We laid on our sides and he slipped into me from behind and played with my clit, worked well for me...
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You need to know that anal sex introduces a whole new set of health issues that one should know a little about. Just do a google search with Health Anal Sex and you will find tons of info. Take the time to do a little research. And most of all don't be afraid to say you don't like it if you don't like it. If done well it can be an orgasmic milestone. If done poorly it can be a nightmare. I hope it is a wonderful experience for you when you get to it. Oh yes, choose a gentle, considerate partner.
You need to know that anal sex introduces a whole new set of health issues that one should know a little about. Just do a google search with Health Anal Sex and you will find tons of info. Take the time to do a little research. And most of all don't be afraid to say you don't like it if you don't like it. If done well it can be an orgasmic milestone. If done poorly it can be a nightmare. I hope it is a wonderful experience for you when you get to it. Oh yes, choose a gentle, considerate partner.
