Anal for husbands ?

[Jeff1977]

so I am just starting this thread cause I cant find one. me and my wife have been talking about trying anal for the first time. I am also a bit curious about her useing a strap-on with me. so I am wondering, does it feel good for guys like it does for girls ? what is different ? and any general tips are openly welcome here people =)

 

[PertPerth]

Try the Black Manual :
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=243894
There is lots of good info in there. Else try the BDSM forum - there are a few threads in there with questions and people talking about their experiences.

 

[oldkinky]

Once you try anal play you will love it. DW always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a BJ. Really intensifies my orgasms. Vibrating anal toys work better than fingers. Toys we use are Spectragels Vibrating Anal Tool, Anal T, Anal E-Z Bend and Vibrating Anal Twister Strap On. The last toy can be used either as an anal toy or as a strap on. We tried non vibrating anal beads, but they did not do much for us. Remember use lots of lube. All these toys are small and insert easily with lube. We like Astroglide.

At one time I had a hangup about this type of anal play, but as I came to understand my prostate I purchased a vibrating anal toy and asked DW to use it while she gave me a BJ and WOW what an orgasm-I was hooked.

We graduated from this type of anal play to strap ons. We have three strap ons. Vibrating Anal Twister Strap On and Feeldoe and our favorite Bend Over Beginner Kit.

The Bend Over Beginner Kit has a harness, two silicone dildos and a vibrator that fits in the harness for stimulating her clitoris while she does me. She gives me a HJ while she does me. We usually cum together. She gets so excited and talks dirty about her dick and how she like to fuck me in the ass. These dildos are small and easy to insert with lube. Remember use lots of Astroglide. Also double dildos look interesting.



The Feeldoe is a strapless strap on. It is designed to insert in me while the bulb end fits in her vagina. Lots of people love it. it feels good in me, but the other end is a little hard to keep in her vagina.

You might want to try the DVD Bend Over Boyfriend. Watching it together might get him interested.

Once he gets over his hangup he will love it. Guys who don't do anal play don't know what they are missing.

 

[AmishPantry]

anal is my favorite thing to do. Unfortunately my bf says he can't tell the difference between the holes and almost always tries to switch back to the front for the finale. That's serious bad news for the woman and I can't get him to understand that. I will have to send him adrift.

 

[Peter_North69]

You will love it. It takes a lil time to get used to it but when my ex gf got me into i was not really into it but once we did it i loved it use lots of lube.

 

[hersforever]

Take your time use a lot of lube. I find that if I want her to use a very large strap-on then it is best to start with a smaller butt plug to help my sphincter to relax and stretch. Once you start, have her adjust her position until you find one that feels best, and rubs your prostate. I can orgasm from only prostate stimulation, but if she gives me a HJ as well, I tend to have mind-blowing orgasms which last much longer than usual.

 

[human_male]

anal is my favorite thing to do. Unfortunately my bf says he can't tell the difference between the holes and almost always tries to switch back to the front for the finale. That's serious bad news for the woman and I can't get him to understand that. I will have to send him adrift.

You've explained about the risk of infection and he still does it?

 

[subwannabe]

I'm not sure how it feels for a woman since I'm not one but I would think it would be similar. I personally like it myself. It gives me an idea of what it feels like to be fucked.

 

[Emlyn]

This is something that my wife and I have done a bit. She likes receiving AS (not loves it, but likes it well enough). To date she has not been comfortable enough to escalate anal play for me past a small vibrating plug, but I love it all. Some day in the future perhaps she will be comfortable enough to try a strap on but for now, I'll take what I can get.

 

[nipers]

Did It

All I can tell you is that I got a strapon for my wife and after a few times I got used to it I have the hardest cum EVER.Maybe someday I will try the real thing but dont think so