Anal action virgin

[boston_bbw]

My SO has mentioned he has never found a women willing to fuck his ass with a dildo or strap on. Had 1 try once and she was slow and gentle and the minute he made a sound she stopped .... not what he had in mind. So next week I will be trying to satisfy this desire for him, just useing a dildo or vibe for now..... any advice guys? If it goes well a strap on just may not be far off.

 

[cal69]

I suggest start off using lubed fingers before starting with objects.
Then start off with a pencil vibrator before going on to the strap on.

 

[SweetErika]

We like using a vibe. Based on feedback from my husband, I'd say the standard anal guidelines apply...choose an appropriate toy, use lots and lots of lube, go slow and be gentle at first or have him insert it, and make sure you communicate throughout (plus, talking dirty can add excitement for both of you). Have fun!

 

[boston_bbw]

Thanks for the advice Cal69 but I don't want it to sound like he hasn't had anything up there.. he has had my fingers, butt plugs and toys he has used himself.. so it's not like this is a very 1st.. but just yet to find someone to fuck it verses just tease it a little if that makes sense..

 

[cal69]

Thanks for the advice Cal69 but I don't want it to sound like he hasn't had anything up there.. he has had my fingers, butt plugs and toys he has used himself.. so it's not like this is a very 1st.. but just yet to find someone to fuck it verses just tease it a little if that makes sense..

Then I would suggest he gets on all 4's for you and enjoy a good fucking with your favourite vibrator if you've yet to get a strap on.

 

[lipgloss_clare]

Thanks for the advice Cal69 but I don't want it to sound like he hasn't had anything up there.. he has had my fingers, butt plugs and toys he has used himself.. so it's not like this is a very 1st.. but just yet to find someone to fuck it verses just tease it a little if that makes sense..

Should be fun. I think it's just like normal sex is when it's a real penis - you just have to pay attention to find the right depth and speed to drive him crazy...

 

[cal69]

totally agree with you clare

 

[DuckLover]

I going crazy loving it when my gf plays with my ass. My best sexual experience to date was the night she fucked the hell out of my ass with a Feeldoe. (A type of "strap-on" dildo; see the thread on Feeldoes.)

Keep the communication very open. It will be natural that when you first insert the toy, he'll react, probably verbally. And when you slide it in deeper, he'll make some kind of sound again. Same thing when you hit his maximum depth. In all those cases, you (being a kind, considerate SO) will probably be worried that you hurt him and you'll want to back off or stop entirely.

PLEASE-- when that happens, don't push anymore, just pause in place. Ask him how he's doing. Let him tell you how he feels and what he wants. Start slowly and build speed as he gets more comfortable.

ENJOY!