Dar~
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Hey you guys!! I have been remarkably lax in communicating and I want to apologize. I have just been busy and life sometimes gets so chaotic that I have no idea whats going on myself let alone time enough to figure other people in and I know that that is inconsiderate; so if you are amongst the ones i have been rude to, I am sorry. My life has been in a state of flux and things are settling in. I only have one more big change to go thru, but it is the biggest.
My ex GF is living with me, that is nothing new, she's been here since June. That has been great. We have a very good friendship and its been nice to have her
around.
I also got a new job. I am still doing marketing, but no longer for radio. I am working for Freedom Newspapers (which is a national newspaper corporation.) They own our local paper. I was really excited about the move from radio to newspaper because in a small market, newspaper is more reputable. The News Journal has been in this area for 100 years or more. The radio station I worked for was very very reputable, but it was radio. People are leary when you try to sell them air.
The new job is going well. It was kind of weird because I quit the radio station thinking I would have a week to get my life straightened out but that afternoon I got a call from the marketing manager at the paper asking if I could come in for some corporate training because the girl was here only once yearly and It would get it out of the way for me. I was sitting in the meeting the whole time going i sell newspaper now, I sell newspaper now I sell newspaper now. So I wouldn't flub up.
In the first week on the job, I have already beaten my monthly sales at the radio, and that is over the phone. My job description is to handle the marketing for our two magazines (Farm and Ranch, and Healthy You), and I will also be handling all of our special sections. Right now I am working on our centennial newspaper. Next is the Taste of Home cooking school. Its fast paced and I love that. I work well with deadlines.
The really big change is coming up in October. Though I have been living without him for almost a year (Nov. 1st) Our divorce will be finalized within the second week of October or soon there after. I will no longer be darlene pipinich, but darlene cunningham. It is strange and scary. ( don't worry about it being up here, its well known already to those who care to look.) I am thrilled about no longer being tied to him in this way, but I have been tied to him emotionally since my senior year of high school when we started dating. Its going to be a strange new world with out him around to just be there. I will truly be free.
The sad part is that I am giving him custody of my kids. This is where the change that is the biggest starts. I cry every time I think about it, so I am blessed that I am not trying to write this on paper. What our agreement is is that I will finish my degree, and then I will be able to challenge our original agreement. This would be okay if he was a permanent resident here, but he is Air Force and will soon be PCSing to a new place and taking my babies with him. I have been there since the day they were born. I only started working, after years of being a stay at home mom, last November, when we separated. To be honest, I am still back and forth on the whole letting him do it thing. I may still fight.
on to the next thing. Myspace has deleted my profile. I don't know why and they won;t contact me and it's been a couple weeks. I started a new one. http://www.myspace.com/capulusestmei please re-add me. I can't remember all the login names of those of you who were on my friends list. Thank you guys. I can't express how sorry I am I haven't done this sooner. I am sorry I worried some of you.
I will end my epic now.
Dar~
My ex GF is living with me, that is nothing new, she's been here since June. That has been great. We have a very good friendship and its been nice to have her
around.
I also got a new job. I am still doing marketing, but no longer for radio. I am working for Freedom Newspapers (which is a national newspaper corporation.) They own our local paper. I was really excited about the move from radio to newspaper because in a small market, newspaper is more reputable. The News Journal has been in this area for 100 years or more. The radio station I worked for was very very reputable, but it was radio. People are leary when you try to sell them air.The new job is going well. It was kind of weird because I quit the radio station thinking I would have a week to get my life straightened out but that afternoon I got a call from the marketing manager at the paper asking if I could come in for some corporate training because the girl was here only once yearly and It would get it out of the way for me. I was sitting in the meeting the whole time going i sell newspaper now, I sell newspaper now I sell newspaper now. So I wouldn't flub up.
In the first week on the job, I have already beaten my monthly sales at the radio, and that is over the phone. My job description is to handle the marketing for our two magazines (Farm and Ranch, and Healthy You), and I will also be handling all of our special sections. Right now I am working on our centennial newspaper. Next is the Taste of Home cooking school. Its fast paced and I love that. I work well with deadlines.
The really big change is coming up in October. Though I have been living without him for almost a year (Nov. 1st) Our divorce will be finalized within the second week of October or soon there after. I will no longer be darlene pipinich, but darlene cunningham. It is strange and scary. ( don't worry about it being up here, its well known already to those who care to look.) I am thrilled about no longer being tied to him in this way, but I have been tied to him emotionally since my senior year of high school when we started dating. Its going to be a strange new world with out him around to just be there. I will truly be free.
The sad part is that I am giving him custody of my kids. This is where the change that is the biggest starts. I cry every time I think about it, so I am blessed that I am not trying to write this on paper. What our agreement is is that I will finish my degree, and then I will be able to challenge our original agreement. This would be okay if he was a permanent resident here, but he is Air Force and will soon be PCSing to a new place and taking my babies with him. I have been there since the day they were born. I only started working, after years of being a stay at home mom, last November, when we separated. To be honest, I am still back and forth on the whole letting him do it thing. I may still fight.
on to the next thing. Myspace has deleted my profile. I don't know why and they won;t contact me and it's been a couple weeks. I started a new one. http://www.myspace.com/capulusestmei please re-add me. I can't remember all the login names of those of you who were on my friends list. Thank you guys. I can't express how sorry I am I haven't done this sooner. I am sorry I worried some of you.
I will end my epic now.
Dar~
