An odd question

[Lunar_Eclipse]

Well maybe not odd, and I doubt there actually is'>> But I was curious if there were places around where you can meet people for more sexual purposes and if so, how to find them. I really don't trust the idea of meeting someone online. I've tried talking to a couple people but they were either to old or I got to nervous. So I thought I'd just ask if such places existed.

 

[SweetErika]

Have you looked into the CSPC? There are tons of different events that draw a wide variety of (usually very friendly, welcoming) sex-positive people. And there are volunteers to show you the ropes, introduce you to people if you'd like, etc. I think this is likely your best bet. You can always go to an orientation to check it out and see if it might be a good fit for you.

There are also a number of swingers/"lifestyle" and sex-positive groups and clubs in the state. I don't have personal experience with any of them, but single females are usually welcomed with open arms.

 

[Lunar_Eclipse]

Even though I'm not 21 yet? But how do I find these groups and things?

 

[Lunar_Eclipse]

Oh Eurika you tease me! I looked at the CSPC and it is exactly what I've been wanting. But so far away!

 

[SweetErika]

Even though I'm not 21 yet? But how do I find these groups and things?

Yeah, the CSPC is 18+. There's no drugs or alcohol allowed on the premises, nor do they allow people who appear intoxicated into the space.

What's the nearest bigger city for you? Spokane, Tri-Cities, Bellingham and Vancouver/Portland all have some sort of swinging, sex-positive or BDSM scene. Google and sites like FetLife are your friends.

You could contact CSPC anyway to see if they know of anything closer to you. Also, they're pretty good about accommodating and helping people who are coming in from out of town. There are over 10,000 members, so it wouldn't be hard to find someone to take you as a guest or get on the guest list if you plan in advance.

 

[Lunar_Eclipse]

I e-mailed them and Tri-cities is closest to me. About half an hour or so. I'll take a look around online. I'm not to into BDSM sense I haven't even done anything not innocent yet, I think small steps is a good start and I think that might be a tad intimidating. thanks so much, you are very helpful! <3

 

[SweetErika]

Yeah, it looks like your age puts you out of luck for lifestyle clubs in that area. Desert Delights and Club TSS are both 21+.

Have you tried SwingLifeStyle, SwingersBoard, OKCupid and even MeetUp.com? I'm thinking that you may just be able to meet sex-positive people who know about events for the 18+ crowd in your general area.

When will you be 21?

Do you have any friends who live in/around Seattle? If so, maybe you could visit them and the CSPC in one trip. You'd just have to choose the right event(s) at the CSPC; some of them are more suitable for nervous newbies and non-BDSMers than others.

 

[Lunar_Eclipse]

I'll be 21 in November. I mean, It isn't like I can't wait that long, be I'd prefer not to. I'm rather excited to know these places exist. I mean, I've known about swingers club, but I used to think that they were all just couples only.

Hmm, I think you are the only person I know who lives in Seattle. Going to Seattle isn't so much the hard part as getting the money and the time off work... hmm, I do have a two day weekend coming up next weekend, maybe I can check out how much i'll need/what they're events are on the weekend. I've never driven in Seattle though and that is rather terrifying. I've been in the car when people have and for a country girl like me, big city roads are awful><

 

[Lunar_Eclipse]

Ah, make weekends a no go'>> hmm, I hope I can find something closer><

 

[infinity706]

I'll be 21 in November. I mean, It isn't like I can't wait that long, be I'd prefer not to. I'm rather excited to know these places exist. I mean, I've known about swingers club, but I used to think that they were all just couples only.

Hmm, I think you are the only person I know who lives in Seattle. Going to Seattle isn't so much the hard part as getting the money and the time off work... hmm, I do have a two day weekend coming up next weekend, maybe I can check out how much i'll need/what they're events are on the weekend. I've never driven in Seattle though and that is rather terrifying. I've been in the car when people have and for a country girl like me, big city roads are awful><

Swingers' clubs are fine for single women, too. Infact, the biggest problem any sex club tends to have is a shortage of women. As a single woman, you'll probably even have an increased likelyhood of getting to go home with couples you like, if that's something you'd be interested in.

 

[erotiquegirl]

Well maybe not odd, and I doubt there actually is'>> But I was curious if there were places around where you can meet people for more sexual purposes and if so, how to find them. I really don't trust the idea of meeting someone online. I've tried talking to a couple people but they were either to old or I got to nervous. So I thought I'd just ask if such places existed.

Seattle has tons of clubs.

 

[Hannah90]

There are clubs dotted around the place. You can use internet but only if there is a lot of correspondence between you both before you meet. I like to leave it 4 weeks minimum, we've only ever contacted people online for threesomes, and they've all worked out fine. Just need to get to know them first, through email, text, and calls. xxx