Ambitious sexuality?

How do you view your sexual ambitions?

  • You're happy with your sex life and don't need to take it further.

    Votes: 2 11.8%
  • You have one particular fantasy you're dying to act on

    Votes: 4 23.5%
  • You're generally open to new ideas

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • You have desires which you're too ashamed to admit outside of lit

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • Staring out into the void of your sexuality scares you shitless

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • You are insatiable for new kinks and experiences

    Votes: 6 35.3%

  • Total voters
    17
dirtylover said:
Another question: are women usually the limiting factor in kinkiness btwn couples?

Twice I had opportunity to explore much further than I had ever gone due to a woman who wanted to go further. Both times were fairly early in my sexual career(if that makes sense) with women I shared great physical chemistry with and both times I was the one holding her back.

After losing both of these wonderful women I resolved never to let that be the case again.

Currently my explorations are held back by the necessity of caring for little ones (hard to go roaring off for a spontaneous wild weekend; must find a babysitter first) and the current inhibitions of a woman I love in so many ways besides only the physical. Let's get the kids grown and we shall see...

I answered in the "generally open" category BTW
 
You're welcome, 'Dita.
I don't like to mix up sex with feeling sick. Atleast not for a few more years.
Me neither, which is why I always try to collect. :D
 
fifty5 said:
Close, Joe, but for me I'd have to change that to 'scared shitless about AIDS, STDs, etc.' rather than merely 'unable'.

Oh yeah, plus no-one's said "OK" in what seems like a long, long time....

f5 (sobbing into his beard)

First, lose the beard... :p

Maybe you're aiming too high... forget the "OK", just go for "Thirty quid, in advance".

P.S. My best mate hadn't had a fuck or even a snog for seven years after relationship broke up -- he put on weight, ended up twenty stone (280 lbs). But he managed to lose three stone (42 lbs) over the last year, finally got back "in the saddle" last month. Now in Florida presumably celebrating. Hang in there..
 
Sub Joe said:
First, lose the beard... :p

Maybe you're aiming too high... forget the "OK", just go for "Thirty quid, in advance".

P.S. My best mate hadn't had a fuck or even a snog for seven years after relationship broke up -- he put on weight, ended up twenty stone (280 lbs). But he managed to lose three stone (42 lbs) over the last year, finally got back "in the saddle" last month. Now in Florida presumably celebrating. Hang in there..

Just wanted to say... I don't agree with the "lose the beard" statement. I love 'em.

Lou :p
 
Tatelou said:
Just wanted to say... I don't agree with the "lose the beard" statement. I love 'em.

Lou :p

Take it up with the missus. I grew one, then shaved it off when my son called me "Captain Haddock."
 
Sub Joe said:
Take it up with the missus. I grew one, then shaved it off when my son called me "Captain Haddock."

Captain Haddock!? Bahahahahahahaha!!!

Grow it back. ;)

Lou :devil:
 
Nah, It made me look like a cross between a headmaster and a dosser. Besides, it was a little rough for some people ;)
 
Liar said:
Content witht my moderate level of kinkyness but, due to singleness, in search of someone to get moderately kinky with. Open for suggestions.

#L
Still waiting for suggestions, dammit.

;)

#L
 
Tatelou said:
Just wanted to say... I don't agree with the "lose the beard" statement. I love 'em.

Lou :p
Answering both Lou and Joe...

I'm so glad about that Lou - and Joe (not that I fancy you anyway, grin) you ain't seen me without it! That's worse, much worse!

And re: 'Maybe you're aiming too high... forget the "OK", just go for "Thirty quid, in advance".' that idea seems self-defeating - I've lost condoms during the act before, so other concerns might take the edge off things... I really don't think that would work for me (or me for it).

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Hey, I've passed the 100 mark! How do I do this AV thing? :p

f5
 
fifty5 said:


Hey, I've passed the 100 mark! How do I do this AV thing? :p

f5

Find a pic you like and make sure it is less than 20k in size, and less than 150 px X 150 px in dimension.

Then, go to your User CP, and then into "Edit Options". Scroll down to the bottom of the screen, and there you will see the "Avatar" option. Click on that, then click "Browse" and select your chosen pic from wherever it is on your system. Then hit "Upload". And then it shall be done. :D

Lou :kiss:
 
Tatelou said:
Find a pic you like and make sure it is less than 20k in size, and less than 150 px X 150 px in dimension.

Then, go to your User CP, and then into "Edit Options". Scroll down to the bottom of the screen, and there you will see the "Avatar" option. Click on that, then click "Browse" and select your chosen pic from wherever it is on your system. Then hit "Upload". And then it shall be done. :D

Lou :kiss:
Thanx Lou. Dunnit! ;)

f5
 
Tatelou said:
Kewl! Great choice, you wear it very well. ;)

Lou :rose:
SO glad you like it Lou. :kiss:

As far as the skill at wearing it goes, I've been practicing for quite a while... :cool:

Thanks for being the first to comment - luv ya lots. :heart:

f5
 
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