Ambidexterity

[SpankyMcCranky]

I've just decided to become ambidexterous, well at least in one aspect. At the moment, I can only use my right hand to properly pleasure myself, but sometimes it would be useful to have the option of either. I can use either hand on him, but what about me?

I just googled ambidexterity and found this site Becoming Ambidextrous I wonder if it will help me in my particular quest?

Has anyone trained themselves in this?

 

[landcruisergal]

Folk who break their dominant arm often have to learn.
Start small.. open doors and brush your teeth with your other hand.
Its actually good for back and neck pain too, as it strengthens your muscles on that side..
Good luck.

 

[temp256]

Move your mouse to the other side. If you want hard training, wear a mitten on your right hand and don't use it for a week.

If you want really hard training, give up masturbation until you are able to do it with your left hand. You will learn fast...

 

[EJFan]

i'm not fluently ambidextrous but i can masturbate with my recessive hand quite well. i recently damaged my dominant hand and found that brushing my teeth with the recessive one was about the hardest thing to do. other daily tasks weren't particularly EASY, but certainly easier than dental care.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Move your mouse to the other side. If you want hard training, wear a mitten on your right hand and don't use it for a week.

If you want really hard training, give up masturbation until you are able to do it with your left hand. You will learn fast...

Harsh!

What would pinkstarfish do?
What would MrBates do???
Beebeeblue?
Gingerly?
tswyk?
dolf?​

 

[eudaemonia]

Interesting thread.

This is something I've recently learned to do. I don't know why I thought it would be *fun* but ...

I wouldn't say I'm fluent with the left, but proficient to, erm, finish the job. What's interesting is it takes longer so it builds up some nice sexual tension. And the finish is still not predictable <heh heh>.

 

[Lioness]

Harsh!

What would pinkstarfish do?
What would MrBates do???
Beebeeblue?
Gingerly?
tswyk?
dolf?​

Harsh, yeah.

I would ask for a donation hand until further notice, if you really wanted to know.

 

[SpankyMcCranky]

Hehe. Yeah, that site said to start with things like brushing your teeth and hair, and writing. Last night I tried with my left hand but switched back because I couldn't hold off any longer

 

[garbage can]

I've just decided to become ambidexterous, ?

Does this mean you can pull the pud with the other hand?

 

[bush59]

Is it like somebody elses hand pleasuring you if you use the other hand?

An alternative would be sitting on your regular hand until it gets numb/pins and needles and then using it.
The thing is you dont have to "learn" anything.....but you do have to be quick,if your circulation returns it like being caught out by your regular "Lover"

 

[Maxell46]

I'd give my left arm to become ambidexterous if I could!!!

Actually I am!
Play sports lefty and everything else ( eating/writing etc) righty.
Both hands work perfectly fine...
you just have to use them equally and overcome the tendancy to favor one side over the other!

Strange for me as sportswise I'm completely a lefty but if I had to arm wrestle someone it would be right handed as that is my stronger arm.
And ...I'm righty with the self pleasuring tho the left hand does get put into play but very seldom

 

[ffemtp]

Just try cleaning your ass with the other hand.

 

[Eilan]

I'm right-handed, but I can use a vibrator with my left hand.

 

[Blindinthedark]

Break your strong arm. That's what happened to me. I learned how to do everything over again with my left hand and it's stuck thru the years.

I'm still a preferential righty but I can switch at anytime. My left handed writing is a little messy now (a bit out of practice) but I can still do fine.

I think the suggestions made by others already are on the right track. Just use your left hand for everything and you'll pick it up. You'll find that if you learn something with your strong hand first, it'll be easier to transfer to your weak hand.

As for self pleasuring, I'm a switch hitter. Also thanks to the broken right arm.

Have fun learning. It's supposed to be good mental excersice one way or the other.

 

[SpankyMcCranky]

I've been trying to switch in brushing my teeth and hair, but I just get frustrated and switch back. As for the masturbation, same deal. I have to be patient.

 

[sugarisnice]

Doing simple tasks with the other hand is best in trying to retrain your brain. If you use a mouse with your computer, put it on the other side of your keyboard for a day. Open doors with your other hand. Eat with your other hand holding the fork. I once lost use of my right arm for a couple months and had to do everything lefthanded. I got to the point where I could write clearly and sign my name on checks and hospital forms. It's not hard, but if you don't have to do it, don't make it a priority.