Am I weird ?
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I dont get aroused, it hurts for me, but I have heard that others do get excited, so I dont think its wierd.
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personally, i hate going to the gyno. it's just unpleasant.
but then, i hate mustard. this doesn't mean that people who like mustard are wierd.
to each her own.
but then, i hate mustard. this doesn't mean that people who like mustard are wierd.
to each her own.
Not my field, but...
One of Robert Altman's most underrated films is "Dr. T and the Women", staring Richard Gere as the gyno, Helen Hunt as his golf-pro-love interest, Farrar Fawcett as his wife with the nervous breakdown. Anyway the film was very big in Europe and is often on cable. Gyno Gere's patients love him and can't seem to get enough of him. It's unclear in the film if the seek physical or emotional release, but that makes it work. Just a suggestion from the sidelines.
One of Robert Altman's most underrated films is "Dr. T and the Women", staring Richard Gere as the gyno, Helen Hunt as his golf-pro-love interest, Farrar Fawcett as his wife with the nervous breakdown. Anyway the film was very big in Europe and is often on cable. Gyno Gere's patients love him and can't seem to get enough of him. It's unclear in the film if the seek physical or emotional release, but that makes it work. Just a suggestion from the sidelines.
catalina_francisco
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Mmmm...well I can't say I've been attracted because they were a gyno, but I did end up accepting the interests of my gyno a few years ago and we had a mild BDSM experience along with other things. Was interesting in a university lecture (a boring one) a couple of years later when my friend and I were chatting in the break and she began to tell me aout her gyno and what she would love to do with him. As the conversation progressed we realised it was the very same man. She didn't forgive me for weeks as she said she was insulted to find he had made several passes at me before I acknowledged them, and had never even given her anything but the unpleasantness of the annual check up. LOL. She got over it in the long run though, especially when I told her she had not really missed much.
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I don't get aroused while I'm there, but the thought arouses me.
What does it is the fact that the woman is basically helpless - naked, while the doctor is clothed, feet in stirrups, hips at the edge of the table. She is forced to be spread open, she feels the cool air on her labia. Top half is covered, yet her sex is uncovered. She knows she is exposed and open, and though it's necessary, it's not something she's 100% comfortable with. Then the probing fingers and prying eyes - all focused on her most private of privates as she lies there, staring up at the ceiling. And that speculum! As if she weren't exposed enough, she's stretched to reveal more.
Yeah. Oh yeah.
And yes, this is BDSM related. I believe it falls under "Medical scenes" - at least that is what the catalogue stated when I bought my speculum and Wharburton wheel.
What does it is the fact that the woman is basically helpless - naked, while the doctor is clothed, feet in stirrups, hips at the edge of the table. She is forced to be spread open, she feels the cool air on her labia. Top half is covered, yet her sex is uncovered. She knows she is exposed and open, and though it's necessary, it's not something she's 100% comfortable with. Then the probing fingers and prying eyes - all focused on her most private of privates as she lies there, staring up at the ceiling. And that speculum! As if she weren't exposed enough, she's stretched to reveal more.
Yeah. Oh yeah.
And yes, this is BDSM related. I believe it falls under "Medical scenes" - at least that is what the catalogue stated when I bought my speculum and Wharburton wheel.
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Personally, nothing about trips to the gynecologist turn me on. Just find 'em embarrassing. I used to feel that way with Sir too when he would do an "inspection"- some of that is wearing off, but not all...and if there is anyone else in the room during an inspection I still dislike it.
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SexyChele said:And yes, this is BDSM related. I believe it falls under "Medical scenes" - at least that is what the catalogue stated when I bought my speculum and Wharburton wheel.
That also explains the speculum, white lab coat, and stethescope (and a few other things) in MY toybag
Kind of like how women have rape fantasies about cute guys who give them orgasms instead of the real thing?
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WriterDom said:
*promptly becomes sick*
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90 % of the gynos I've gone to, not expressing any particular preference are female. I get buzzed by this scene in a F/f kinda way, I can't imagine playing it as a bottom to a guy...bleah.
A trannie girl going to the gyno, though, that could be really interesting.
A trannie girl going to the gyno, though, that could be really interesting.
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Still shuddering from Writer's image... 
I never had a male gyno until late last year when I had some complications that eventually led to surgery.
I never ever felt arousal when going to the gyno when they were all women, but I will admit that during the many check ups and exams I had during the last 6-8 months....there have been times when I have been anticipating his fingers sliding into me. Not sure if "anticipation" is right, but I definately thought about it before I went, and I was acutely aware of every sensation as it was happening. I did not necessarily "get off" on it, but it was a little more...."exciting" than the usual check up LOL
and the feeling of being so open...so bare...so exposed....definately something I still like the feeling of
I never had a male gyno until late last year when I had some complications that eventually led to surgery.
I never ever felt arousal when going to the gyno when they were all women, but I will admit that during the many check ups and exams I had during the last 6-8 months....there have been times when I have been anticipating his fingers sliding into me. Not sure if "anticipation" is right, but I definately thought about it before I went, and I was acutely aware of every sensation as it was happening. I did not necessarily "get off" on it, but it was a little more...."exciting" than the usual check up LOL
and the feeling of being so open...so bare...so exposed....definately something I still like the feeling of
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the gyno just plainly scares me....wait a minute...any kind of doctor scares me....but then hmmm...then I shouldn't be scared of Sir....hmmm..ooppss...look at me running all over the loop again...sorry!
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If the pinwheel is required in a gyno exam, something is seriously wrong! Speculum yes, Wartenburg no. (I did just discover disposable ones at MedicalToys.com, though!)SexyChele said:And yes, this is BDSM related. I believe it falls under "Medical scenes" - at least that is what the catalogue stated when I bought my speculum and Wharburton wheel.
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Etoile said:
Not necessarily as originally it was a medical tool and is not out of the realm of possibility it would be used by a gyno depending on your problems. The thing I am amazed at is the use of stirrups by gyno's mentioned here. I have never had to experience that, or even found them present in any doctor's office or hospital in Australia. Was told they were considered outdated, unnecessary, and demeaning for women.
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i have to put my feet in stirrups....
but you're right, cat, they suck!
but you're right, cat, they suck!
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Yuck....have to check out the docs in Holland....can't believe they are used at all.......I have had many problems throughout my whole life and even in the early 1970's in Oz I never experienced any doctors using stirrups!! It was many years later while listening to my regular gyno speak to students that I learnt they were not used as they were considered an unnecessary measure which did more to make the patient feel uncomfortable and degraded than they did to assist the doctor in their examination.....so they had been thrown out. Didn't even have to endure them in childbirth.....incredible.
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I guess the stirrups never bothered me since my doc's stirrups are covered in sheepskin. It's actually pretty comfortable, and I don't have ot have my ass half hanging off the exam table.
I didn't have the stirrups when I had my kids either. In Lamaze, they taught us to get in the position which was most comfortable. My nurses thought I was freaky because I wanted to be naked and squatting, which I did, much to their chagrin...but I digress...
My gyno is a beautiful woman about 6 years younger than me, and while I don't necessarily like my gyno exams, I must admit that I love the way her hands feel on my breasts and pussy and I have had many fantasies about her that start with stirrups and end up in bed somewhere romantic.
I didn't have the stirrups when I had my kids either. In Lamaze, they taught us to get in the position which was most comfortable. My nurses thought I was freaky because I wanted to be naked and squatting, which I did, much to their chagrin...but I digress...
My gyno is a beautiful woman about 6 years younger than me, and while I don't necessarily like my gyno exams, I must admit that I love the way her hands feel on my breasts and pussy and I have had many fantasies about her that start with stirrups and end up in bed somewhere romantic.
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No, I stand by my statement. I know perfectly well what the pinwheel's original use is - it's for testing where you have sensation. It's used by neurologists with paralyzed patients, to find out where their feeling begins. If you have that problem at the gynecologist's, there's something very wrong with your girly bits.catalina_francisco said:
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when i had a female gyno, a middle aged, very conservative, indian woman, i would always feel tense and extremely uncomfy during an exam....so, getting aroused definitely never happened. but i have a male gyno now, very large undoctorly looking man, and yes i do get aroused when he examines me. but, i am that way with any male doctor i have, not simply the gyno. just a man touching/viewing my body, with such precision and detail, gets the juices going uncontrollably. it's actually pretty embarassing. but i do have a still unfulfilled fantasy of being sexually used by one of my doctors. but i want it to be natural and spontaneous...not this planned out thing, and i guess my doctors to date have been too ethical or just plain not attracted to me....*sigh*
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SexyChele said:
I agree with the uncomfy-ness and all (someone even compliments my pedicure or socks whenever i go in) And I can't get one of the Vagina Monologues out of my head eeeverytime I go. (its called my angry vagina)
but i never thought of it that way... i'm almost worried I'm going to be turned on next time ..yipe
