Am I too big.

[Guest]

Hi All,

My wife is more than happy for me to use a dildo in her ass whilst we are having sex but she refuses to let me actually ass-fuck her. She claims that my penis is too big and she would not be able to fit me in without being hurt. My penis is only just under 8 inches when fully erect, but it is pretty wide.

I have had anal sex with a few women before and normally had to stop before getting fully inserted, even when using lots of lubrication. The only woman who has enjoyed me having anal with her was an ex soft-porn actress who was able to cum whilst I pounded her ass.

Is it possible for a man to be too big for anal sex? Is it usual for a woman to cum from having anal?

Many thanks.

Stephen

P.S. The actress was an American. Perhaps they are different to the normal english girls I have had?

 

[Guest]

Yes, it is possible. My (ex?) husband has trouble getting into my ass. It takes a long time to get in, and then after I cum he has to go back to my pussy (or not get off). I suppose there's some disadvantages to being "big"... But over all it's great!

 

[Gingersnap]

THere are a lot of how to books out there and even some videos on the topic. Make an investment and watch it together.

 

[Guest]

It's not that I don't know what I'm doing just that I seem too large for most women to accomodate me.

If a woman practices having anal sex with larger and larger objects is this going to help? Or is it a case of there's a max size for most women and that's it?

I've seen videos where some women can take very large objects into their anus (e.g. baseball bats) and whilst I'm big I'm not quite that big ;-)

My American soft-porn friend had no problem with me and I was really able to slam in and out of her ass without a second thought; but she had had a lot of experiance in that department.

Tiggs seems to be a very experianced woman but even she seems to have problems with very large guys and I would have thought if practice made perfect she should be fine.

Any more thoughts?

 

[Guest]

I'm willing

I don't know what your wife is complaining about, she should feel lucky to have a guy with such a large cock between his legs.

I've had all sizes deep within my ass and never yet had to complain; I guess that makes me a real good fuck as they all come back for more. Once a man knows he can slam his dick in and out of your ass as hard and as fast as he wants then you've got him hooked for life.

If you need a girl to get your ass kicks with then let me know your email address and we can meet up some time. If you are as big as you sound then my ass is in for a real treat (and my pussy is twitching to get some of that action too).

Rose,

 

[Guest]

LoL

I don't know about experienced, but I've been around. At any rate, sometimes certian men are possibly a bit too big for anal sex. Keep in mind, no matter how lubricated you are, it's still a small (usually) hole.


~Tiggs~
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[Guest]

I have to disagree Tiggs. In my experiance most girls (and guys cum to think of it) can soon learn to take objects of any size in the anus. It's all about learning to relax the muscles and lots of practice. Most people tense up real tight when they get something inserted into their ass that's why it's so difficult. Learn to control that urge and you can take whatever any guy can throw at you; trust me I've had some real whoppers in my time.

Rose

 

[Guest]

Tightness has a lot to do with it. If I've been worked over for a while I have no trouble taking a dick up my ass. Face it, some people DO have tight holes English Rose....



~Tiggs~

 

[Guest]

Yes I agree that lots of women do have tight holes but that's by choice. Give me a willing woman (please) and within a couple of weeks I will have her being able to take large cucumber size objects into her anus without breaking into a sweat. It's all about practice and technique.

I once went to a sex show where one of the star turns was able to fuck a baseball bat in her pussy and have another one stuck deep into her ass at the same time (you should have heard her when she came). I was so impressed that after the show I asked her how she did it and she gave me some pointers which I have used ever since; now my ass fears nothing

So ladies my advice is practice, practice and practice (and if you need help then I am oh so willing).

 

[dancinvixen]

no offense intended <s>

Have you guys tried looking for a new lubricant? I know the very first time I had anal sex (with my ex husband) he was a little larger than you. The only reason we had to stop was because he got a little over excited and slammed me down onto him, and I ripped. But now that my husband(new hubby) and do it, we use something called Astroglide. You can usually find it in an adult bookstore if you look, or even an adult playground store. If they don't have it, tell them that you need a catalog to find some. That stuff works so well. My husband now is only about 7 1.2 inches maybe a little smaller, but he is very thick, about 3-4 inches around. And it hurts until he get the entire thing buried. You might also try a different angle. Try it in doggy position, but with you off the bed, and her with her feet dangling off. Tell how it goes please. <g>

 

[Guest]

So, ER, you've voiced your opinion a few times here now... Why not register already?!

 

[*Eve*]

I think it's all in how you go about it. I think that if she starts practicing with larger dildos, she could probably eventually work her way up to taking you all the way in her ass.

 

[Gingersnap]

Steven you aren't too big just too stupid... There are only about five hundred books and videos on the topic.....I of course mean that in a nice way stevie........