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Am I the only vanilla guy out here anymore?

yevkassem72

yevkassem72

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Nothing against BDSM as a light thing, but it is just not a good lifestyle for me. I am an anarchist and it makes me uncomfortable. Am I alone here? I sometimes feel like it, though I do not condemn people who find it fascinating.
 
yevkassem72 said:
Nothing against BDSM as a light thing, but it is just not a good lifestyle for me. I am an anarchist and it makes me uncomfortable. Am I alone here? I sometimes feel like it, though I do not condemn people who find it fascinating.
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Uhm, what's a vanilla guy?
 
drksideofthemoon said:
Uhm, what's a vanilla guy?
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One who isn't into BDSM and other such fetish lifestyles as lifestyles, as I understand it....that is my impression of it.
 
I'd say it all depends on who you talk to. I know people who would think that AV of yours is the furthest thing from vanilla, and others who'd think it was little more than ice milk. *shrug*

It doesn't take being into D/s to keep from being vanilla. There are a thousand ways, and a thousand opinions, and every one of them is right...from their POV.
 
Vanilla's a term that can be applied to anything that's middle of the road, because it's bland, or lacking in variety.
 
yevkassem72 said:
Nothing against BDSM as a light thing, but it is just not a good lifestyle for me. I am an anarchist and it makes me uncomfortable. Am I alone here? I sometimes feel like it, though I do not condemn people who find it fascinating.
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I never tried it before my current SO. She's very much into being Sub, so I went with it, with the agreement that if it wasn't for me, she'd be OK. I found that I really enjoyed some of the aspects, others weren't for me. It's just like with anything else sexually; it depends on your partner. If there are things you don't like, you should never feel pressure to do them. You should try to keep an open mind, because we're never too old to find something new we like (sometimes it's something we wouldn't have liked when we were younger).

If you find someone who is interested in it, I would suggest something light, like tying her up and tickling/teasing. Maybe spankings that aren't overly intense until you both find your comfort zones. If none of this is for you, it just means that you've reached your comfort level, and you shouldn't feel pressure to go past it. If she's not happy, then you're not a match. There's too much of people trying to deal with things they don't like in a partner, which gets old after a while (contributing to the painfully high divorce rate). It's tough and sometimes lonely, but I made it to 40 without ever even being engaged because I didn't find the right person. If I hit 80 and still haven't gotten married, I'll be dissapointed, but I won't compromise. You shouldn't either.
 
Depends on whether she REALLY needs spanked or not. Like Sarahh for example. She always needs spanked....
 
scriptordelecto said:
Vanilla's a term that can be applied to anything that's middle of the road, because it's bland, or lacking in variety.
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I always wanna ask these people what they think Neopolitan ice cream would be without the vanilla.
 
yevkassem72 said:
Nothing against BDSM as a light thing, but it is just not a good lifestyle for me. I am an anarchist and it makes me uncomfortable. Am I alone here? I sometimes feel like it, though I do not condemn people who find it fascinating.
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I don't get it. What does being an anarchist have to do with vanilla sex.

As for vanilla sex, I really don't see a problem with it. In fact, I think, just like with icecream flavors, the true measure of quality is how you handle the vanilla. That is where you can really sense the quality since it isn't being obscured by frills.
 
scriptordelecto said:
Vanilla's a term that can be applied to anything that's middle of the road, because it's bland, or lacking in variety.
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But I like vanila?!?! :confused: :p
 
only_more_so said:
I don't get it. What does being an anarchist have to do with vanilla sex.

As for vanilla sex, I really don't see a problem with it. In fact, I think, just like with icecream flavors, the true measure of quality is how you handle the vanilla. That is where you can really sense the quality since it isn't being obscured by frills.
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Hello! Thank you! Sometimes you don't want/need massive complexities to enjoy it. Besides, if you really pay attention to that high quality vanilla, you'll probably be stuned at how very complex it is in its simplicity.
 
yevkassem72 said:
One who isn't into BDSM and other such fetish lifestyles as lifestyles, as I understand it....that is my impression of it.
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Sounds rather derogatory....
 
scriptordelecto said:
Hey Babe! It's someone who's just into the run-of -the-mill type stuff. Nothing too terribly kinky. ;)
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Hmm...well...I'm just me...nothing more, nothing less...
 
yevkassem72 said:
One who isn't into BDSM and other such fetish lifestyles as lifestyles, as I understand it....that is my impression of it.
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And here the first thing I noticed about your av is the *ahem* collar on one of your two cocksucking girls... :cool:


But there are plenty of vanilla people out there. I'm almost positive ;)
 
Stella_Omega said:
And here the first thing I noticed about your av is the *ahem* collar on one of your two cocksucking girls... :cool:


But there are plenty of vanilla people out there. I'm almost positive ;)
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This is true, but I'm makin' the call on this one, and you're not one of them. Nope...I'd have to say, Blue Bunny's Strawberry Cheesecake ice cream if pressed for an answer. :D
 
Tom Collins said:
This is true, but I'm makin' the call on this one, and you're not one of them. Nope...I'd have to say, Blue Bunny's Strawberry Cheesecake ice cream if pressed for an answer. :D
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really, she's not???????i'm um stunned..into submission :p
 
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