am i the only one who thinks the act of sex or masturbation is more fun than orgasm?

[saskatuna]

it seems like whenever i'm having sex or jerking off, i'm always doing my best to delay, delay, delay. don't get me wrong, orgasm feels good, but i kinda like looking forward to it more than actually doing it.

causes problems sometimes during sex when she'll tell me to cum, and i'm not ready...