Am I strange

[Taboohubby]

Hi I'm a 42 married guy would like to talk to married ladies , need an
Opinion is it strange that I want to watch or share my wife? ( no gay stuff though) my wife says if inloved her I wouldn't want to see snyone else touch her. The one time it almost happened she stopped short than was mad at me for letting it go as far as it did

 

[Jringo21]

Not at all

If you spend any time on this site you will see that you are not alone in that fantasy. My wife thinks I am crazy too. Secretly, it probably turns her on, she just won't admit it.

 

[Taboohubby]

Hi I'm a 42 married guy would like to talk to married ladies , need an
Opinion is it strange that I want to watch or share my wife? ( no gay stuff though) my wife says if inloved her I wouldn't want to see snyone else touch her. The one time it almost happened she stopped short than was mad at me for letting it go as far as it did

Ladies??? Is he right???

 

[cutiepiejes]

I would think some wives would think it was crazy and others would think it was a great idea. Just depends on who you talk to I guess.

 

[Jringo21]

Hi I'm a 42 married guy would like to talk to married ladies , need an
Opinion is it strange that I want to watch or share my wife? ( no gay stuff though) my wife says if inloved her I wouldn't want to see snyone else touch her. The one time it almost happened she stopped short than was mad at me for letting it go as far as it did

So, how far did she go before she stopped "short". Just curious.

 

[SouthTexas]

No, you are not alone, and you are not strange.

I fantasize about the same thing, and she will masturbate on cam for guys while I watch them both, she masturbating and the guy jerking off.

We have tried to set something up as far as finding a man to play with her while I watch, but so far we have been stood up or let down. We will keep trying though!

In case you were wondering, she is all for it, it didn't take much to convince her.

 

[boilerman55]

You are not strange at all. My wife is was very excited when I shared this fantasy with her. She has been chating with a guy and they have exchanged pics and are working on meeting. She is very turned on by it all as am I and the fact that I encouurage her makes all the difference to her. She is on this site as well.

 

[Steved01]

real life sequence over the last week

I came about this concept unintentionally, my wife had been cheating for 3 months, but with 3 different guys at the same time

I always imagined that the physical act of her fucking another man would drive me to a rage, but i was not all that concerned with the physical aspect. Of course i was dangerously pissed But managed to restrain on the situation without ending in mexico or jail

Once the emotion of the betrayal and lies had settled, i found my self as horny as a devil and the idea excited me...badly. My nuts were and are busting constantly.

Given that she was and is in no position to really protest... i decided to pop a question the other day whilst buried in her (as you do). Something along the lines of "you dirty little bitch how does it feel to have 4 cocks inside you within a week...It turns me on how about you?".

Her reply, now remember the situation as it evolved.... "there is something wrong with you" but said with that slight glint and a horny fuck me harder voice.

The truthful answer was to be found in the place that a woman can't lie.... she told me all i wanted to know. My reply was "So why are you dripping wet like never before and your pussy could take a bus ?"

She was creaming everywhere, you would have thought i had cum 3 times inside her......Reckon she loves it but still feels a little shy on admitting it.

Coarse if she betrays my trust ever again, there will be consequences. But if the occasional fuck session gets her horny then i am good for it The sequence of events is little more detailed and i will consider adding the facts as a story over time in courtesy for using this site over the years.

 

[Taboohubby]

No ther ladies have any opinions or advice for me???

 

[Keleigh]

I have an opinion for you. Listen to what your wife says and gauge her genuine reactions. It sounds to me like she really isn't excited by the idea. You should respect that rather than hope that because some random person on the internet tells you that she probably is secretly getting off on the idea that she is. If you can't tell- then maybe you don't know your wife all that well. I know the idea of being with another man while intimately involved with my husband would have done nothing for me at all. I truely desired total monogamy with him. On the flip side, some women are perfectly capable of it, it may excite them immensely, you should be able to tell if your wife is one of them.There is never anything wrong with fantasy, but you also need to remember that the idea of it and the reality of it might be very different too. Perhaps she'd be open to the idea of the fantasy if not the reality.There's nothing wrong with you, but the reason I would have hated the idea if it had been broached to me is because to me that would have said felt he didn't love me enough to want to keep me just for himself. I don't know if that gives you insight or not but that's just my .02 worth

 

[Taboohubby]

Any other ladies care to comment

 

[hondo53]

If you haven't yet you might check out a web site called the Hotwives Forum. You can post your questions there and will get many well thought out responses from a large variety of people, some women, probably as here mostly men.
Good luck and the only thing I'd add is that you need to have her believe that you love her and no matter what her decision is you'll still love. Without that you probably have no hope of ever making your fantasy anything more than that.

 

[susieq718]

My boyfriend is extremely turned on with the idea that I am considering this concept. We have been together for almost 7 years and he encouraged me to take a lover early in our relationship. It never came up much until we recently moved in together. I have not acted on this but am seriously thinking about it. I feel selfish because I do not want to share him with others, however. He assures me that he has no desire to be with anyone else - he just loves the fact that I am being sexually gratified by another man. I agree, also, that a woman has to know how much her man loves her to take this step. A couple has to be VERY confident and open in their relationship as to not make things complicated!

 

[boilerman55]

Hey susieq, glad to see your being more proscribe in your search for a lover and in expressing your thoughts and feelings to others. I hope some mature guys are showing an interest. I admire your honesty.@

 

[Irishsopr]

Hey - you are definitely NOT alone here, my friend!! My husband really loves watching other men with me, pleasing me. And my hugest turn on/kink is to watch him with other women (great pair, eh?). I'm sorry it's so hard for some people to understand, but we definitely do.

With that said - I do agree with some other people on the thread, though, that perhaps your wife is being completely honest that it just doesn't turn her on.

 

[NaughtyTxWoman]

I do not think you are strange but have opened yourself up to share a fantasy and therebis nothing wrong with that. I love the idea of surprising my hubby with a another woman or have him come home to "catch" me with another man. It is such a huge turn on and one of my favorite fantasies. Now could i really go through with it, that is very questionable. But fun to think I could. I would love to think of my hubby getting turned on watching another person enjoying what is "his"

 

[Sweetheart31]

The fantasy is often better than the reality. It sounds like she doesn't want it though.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Your profile states that you're here to find women with whom you can message and phone. Is the question really more about finding another woman who will fulfill this fantasy for you?

 

[janeyl]

Any other ladies care to comment

Yep...it doesn't matter whether you're strange or what you want, if she isn't into it then she isn't into it and what she should really be saying is that if you love her, you shouldn't be pressuring her into doing it...

 

[talldad1]

I came about this concept unintentionally, my wife had been cheating for 3 months, but with 3 different guys at the same time

I always imagined that the physical act of her fucking another man would drive me to a rage, but i was not all that concerned with the physical aspect. Of course i was dangerously pissed But managed to restrain on the situation without ending in mexico or jail

Once the emotion of the betrayal and lies had settled, i found my self as horny as a devil and the idea excited me...badly. My nuts were and are busting constantly.

Given that she was and is in no position to really protest... i decided to pop a question the other day whilst buried in her (as you do). Something along the lines of "you dirty little bitch how does it feel to have 4 cocks inside you within a week...It turns me on how about you?".

Her reply, now remember the situation as it evolved.... "there is something wrong with you" but said with that slight glint and a horny fuck me harder voice.

The truthful answer was to be found in the place that a woman can't lie.... she told me all i wanted to know. My reply was "So why are you dripping wet like never before and your pussy could take a bus ?"

She was creaming everywhere, you would have thought i had cum 3 times inside her......Reckon she loves it but still feels a little shy on admitting it.

Coarse if she betrays my trust ever again, there will be consequences. But if the occasional fuck session gets her horny then i am good for it The sequence of events is little more detailed and i will consider adding the facts as a story over time in courtesy for using this site over the years.

This is very hot, thanks for sharing.

 

[AllenWmsUSA]

Hi I'm a 42 married guy would like to talk to married ladies , need an
Opinion is it strange that I want to watch or share my wife? ( no gay stuff though) my wife says if inloved her I wouldn't want to see snyone else touch her. The one time it almost happened she stopped short than was mad at me for letting it go as far as it did

It's not about you. If it isn't something she really wants to do, everything else is moot.

Would have been a good convo to have before you put a ring on it.

 

[Ms_Mee]

Wife Here!!!
My husband has shared me a couple of times. I originally thought the same thing that your wife does now.. If he loved me then he wouldnt want anyone else to touch me. NOT TRUE! It took a long time before I really understood his thinking but he never gave up trying to make me understand. The two things he has said that stuck out to me and I remember are ... "I get off on seeing you receive pleasure" & "watching you with another man is the best porn ever!"

My husband loves me and we have been together for 19 years. I am only 35 (we met very young). My marriage is very strong and we have open communication about everything.

The fact that your wife let it "get to far" once already, makes me believe that it is something she would definitely enjoy.

My advice to you, be prepared for some jealous and mixed feelings. Regardless of how much you want this to happen .. and even though you will enjoy it a great deal, you will have some mental things to deal with once its over.

Good luck!

 

[whalee1]

Pretty much says it all.

I have an opinion for you. Listen to what your wife says and gauge her genuine reactions. It sounds to me like she really isn't excited by the idea. You should respect that rather than hope that because some random person on the internet tells you that she probably is secretly getting off on the idea that she is. If you can't tell- then maybe you don't know your wife all that well. I know the idea of being with another man while intimately involved with my husband would have done nothing for me at all. I truely desired total monogamy with him. On the flip side, some women are perfectly capable of it, it may excite them immensely, you should be able to tell if your wife is one of them.There is never anything wrong with fantasy, but you also need to remember that the idea of it and the reality of it might be very different too. Perhaps she'd be open to the idea of the fantasy if not the reality.There's nothing wrong with you, but the reason I would have hated the idea if it had been broached to me is because to me that would have said felt he didn't love me enough to want to keep me just for himself. I don't know if that gives you insight or not but that's just my .02 worth

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