Am I strange?

[CrissySnow]

I think I have strange fantasies. Is it strange to like things that are not conventional by regular societal norms?

For instance let's take one of my fantasies as abnormal. I am into non consensual fantasies. Sometimes of the extreme. Nothing violent or anything that would be deemed maiming or harm to the point of death. Not the things we see on the five o'clock news about an extreme crazy on the loose assaulting women because he's defected. Another erotic fantasy I have involves the occult such as vampires and incubi. I have erotic thoughts of being seduced by something sinister, deadly but irresistibly charming. Then taken advantage of for this being's selfish pleasure. I think being used is good only if the other is getting satisfaction from it. I'm far from the stereotypical Gothic cyber punk type. I'm just this average girl with unusual erotic taste.

Does anyone share these types of erotic thoughts or fantasies?

 

[SweetCupcake]

I think you have come to the right place for reassurance that you are not strange.

 

[lvs2lck]

I too have fantasies outside of society's norm, but I have been fortunate enough to find willing partners to share with. That is always key, exploring with willing partners who support you, that make you feel "normal", who don't judge, who build you up with love and make you feel special!!!

 

[anthilly]

I think you have come to the right place for reassurance that you are not strange.

Couldn't agree more

Societies concept of Strangeness is the spice of life!

 

[CrissySnow]

I feel strange for some reason maybe because I'm around alot of conservative people who may think that being into things of the occult is weird. I'm not a weird person by a long shot. It feels restrictive because those around me aren't sexual people. It's a messed up feeling.

 

[CrissySnow]

Well awesome I like that. I need to find some good stories on here to get my juices flowing but I have exhausted my tags on a good incubus story in every section Category possible. None really turned me on.

 

[DirtyAllie]

have erotic thoughts of being seduced by something sinister, deadly but irresistibly charming. Then taken advantage of for this being's selfish pleasure.

I married this guy!

 

[CrissySnow]

Bring him to me lol share don't hold back

 

[DirtyAllie]

Bring him to me lol share don't hold back

Trust me, fifteen years later, I might be willing to give him to you.

 

[naughtoldperv]

Well Crissy,
just be thankful that you are not having the dreaded "normal" fantasies that most ppl have. I had them for a short while in my life, but grew out of them early, thank Buddha and very quickly in life realized that Normal is boring and 'get me out of here!' and have been a slightly weird, wild and crazy kinda guy that thrives on the unusual and different in most aspects of my life, especially re: sex and love.
Call me crazy, but I am a kind and honorable guy.............

 

[CrissySnow]

Trust me, fifteen years later, I might be willing to give him to you.

Haha OMG where did you find him? Those are rare.

 

[DirtyAllie]

Haha OMG where did you find him? Those are rare.

Met him in this dive bar during a dart tournament my best friend's boyfriend's team was in.

he was on the other team. Heavily tattooed, bad attitude, talking smack all night(and backing it up, he won every one of his games) and just oozing 'fuck you"

I was with someone...sort of an unofficial blind date and he was totally ignoring me. Next thing I know this bad boy asshat who was the type I never went near is next to me saying

Hey, green eyes, how about I buy you a drink?"

I said, "I'm with someone."

He looks over at the guy who was as he had been all night, talking to his buddies and he says "Oh, well too bad he doesn't know that"

he wandered off, but end of the night he cornered me, bought me a drink and started chatting. When my 'date' was ready to go, he comes over and this guy says.

listen, jack ass you haven't paid attention to her all night, go home and jack off, I'll get her home."

That should have upset me, but it turned me on and he was actually a gentlemen. Dropped me off asked if he could give me a call and didn't try anything.

He's a rare breed, usually most guys who act like that are bad news, but he's nothing but good to me....now everyone else? Not so much.

My mom says "my son in laws not the nicest guy but he's good to my daughter"

Most people who meet me and get to know me....whenever they finally meet him its, "seriously, you're with him?"

he gets the same, "But she looks like such a nice girl!"

 

[Messier82]

Another erotic fantasy I have involves the occult such as vampires and incubi. I have erotic thoughts of being seduced by something sinister, deadly but irresistibly charming. Then taken advantage of for this being's selfish pleasure.

Nothing too odd about that, I had my first seduced-by-a-vampire dream in my mid-to-late teens, admittedly the vampire was in the shape of a girl I knew, but still a sexy twist to an adolescent horny dream.

There's a song by Genesis on the Lamb Lies Down on Broadway album called The Lamia. Even if the music is not to your taste, I bet you'll get a kick out the the premise of the song. Basically, the character in the song is seduced and used by a sexual predator in the shape of three water snakes with female faces and voices. After they've had him he's turned into a hideous blobby creature called a Slipperman.

The Lamia, on YT

 

[CrissySnow]

hahahah omg that is too funny. I wish I would have a dude tell someone to go home and jackoff lol. That's too funny.

 

[CrissySnow]

I dont know how I got into the whole vampire thing but I like it! I think it was due to anne rice novels or something that triggered it. It seems silly but I am not sure. I will check the song out.

 

[blksoldier]

not strange

you're not strange at all

 

[Messier82]

I dont know how I got into the whole vampire thing but I like it! I think it was due to anne rice novels or something that triggered it. It seems silly but I am not sure. I will check the song out.

What about Buffy the Vampire Slayer? Quite a few hot vamp chicks in that. (Darla ) Come to that, it's full of hot chicks ( Faith Anya Willow... )

 

[seamus221]

I think I have strange fantasies. Is it strange to like things that are not conventional by regular societal norms?

For instance let's take one of my fantasies as abnormal. I am into non consensual fantasies. Sometimes of the extreme. Nothing violent or anything that would be deemed maiming or harm to the point of death. Not the things we see on the five o'clock news about an extreme crazy on the loose assaulting women because he's defected. Another erotic fantasy I have involves the occult such as vampires and incubi. I have erotic thoughts of being seduced by something sinister, deadly but irresistibly charming. Then taken advantage of for this being's selfish pleasure. I think being used is good only if the other is getting satisfaction from it. I'm far from the stereotypical Gothic cyber punk type. I'm just this average girl with unusual erotic taste.

Does anyone share these types of erotic thoughts or fantasies?

Having these fantasies is way normal, abnormal is the acting on them knowing the harm they can cause you and others.

You seem to have a very active mind and you in the right place to enjoy your fantasies,share and maybe find new ones!

I don't judge but think your fine.

 

[CrissySnow]

I loved that series it's On Netflix. Spike turned me on immensely

 

[cubbies4vrs]

Nice do tell

 

[LoversPlayToy]

No such thing as strange fantasies

You're wonderful and normal

 

[lovecraft68]

I like the name, she was my favorite. Suzanne Summers still looks pretty damned good.

 

[lovecraft68]

Trust me, fifteen years later, I might be willing to give him to you.

Fifteen years later I might be willing to go.

 

[TheUmp]

This is like a sexual hardware store. There is a bolt for every nut!

 

[submit4pleasure]

I have the same types of fantasies.

Mine are just a little more violent.
I wanted to reassure you that you're definitely not alone in liking them. I can relate to being reluctant to talk about them, but remember that everybody has at least one "weird by society's standards" sexual turn on.