Am I Sad?

[Real Mccoy]

Here i am a perfectly normanl Hetrosexual but still fantasize about having anal sex with a woman with a strap on, am i sad? guess il nver get to try it anyway!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Here i am a perfectly normanl Hetrosexual but still fantasize about having anal sex with a woman with a strap on, am i sad? guess il nver get to try it anyway!

Have you tried placing an ad?

 

[Real Mccoy]

My God No Im English?

 

[A Desert Rose]

My God No Im English?

okay... you don't advertise for stuff in England?

See, here's the thing... I can't help you out. I'm in Las Vegas.

;-)

 

[Real Mccoy]

so you would if you could, thats very kind of you, there is hope for me yet!

 

[MissTaken]

Here i am a perfectly normanl Hetrosexual but still fantasize about having anal sex with a woman with a strap on, am i sad? guess il nver get to try it anyway!

Nope, you aren't sad.

Anal play, anal sex doesn't necessarily equate to being less heterosexual, less masculine. Some of the most masculine and het men I know love anal play.

I think many men struggle with the idea that they want this sort of play and then, struggle with their "manly" ideals, preconcieved notions and certain phobia or stereotypes.

Your body is a playground, enjoy it. And you can only do that if you open your mind and just let it happen.

 

[MissTaken]

so you would if you could, thats very kind of you, there is hope for me yet!

Errrrr

somehow I doubt that is what she meant!

 

[Netzach]

You're not sad. Perfectly straight guys who want to get done up the ass by a woman with a silicone dick are a dime a dozen.

Feel better?

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

It appears I'm not one of them

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Every man should have the experience of being penetrated at least once in his life, just so he knows what sex is like for a woman.

It's probably the single most sexually educational thing you can do, and it will give you an antirely new appreciation for a woman's experience of sex.

---dr.M.

 

[Mysteryjj]

No Not Sad

Nothing wrong with you, what's wrong with a nice rubber ass fuck

I do my husband with a strap on most weeks, he loves it up him

He does me with it, I love it

Take the fucker up you and enjoy it



Mystery

 

[Bikewer]

Our local tabloid newspaper runs a sex column, Savage Love, by Dan Savage. He's an in-your-face homosexual, but the column has broad appeal to both gays and straights (and everything in between) because of his acerbic, no-nonsense answers.

Anyhoo, the above is a very common question. It's apparently a popular male fantasy (hehe- myself included!) and has nothing to do with homosexuality.
Certainly being penetrated by a woman is "safer", from the standpoint of the fragile male ego.

 

[Etoile]

Sometimes it really confuses me how posts end up in the forums in which they do. I would have expected this one in How-To or GLBT, but not here.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Sometimes it really confuses me how posts end up in the forums in which they do. I would have expected this one in How-To or GLBT, but not here.

Possibly because apart from being a fairly kinky and open community here, I think he knows 'how to', just not with whom, and as many have noted, and my experiences in the straight world have also found, it is not a sign of homosexuality and many men who want to experience this would never ever consider it with another male.

Catalina

 

[niteshade]

Sometimes it really confuses me how posts end up in the forums in which they do. I would have expected this one in How-To or GLBT, but not here.

Well, honestly I can't say it would have ended up in the GLBT because not too many people figure out right off what all of those letters stand for. I didn't even go in there because I didn't know what it was, and wasn't interested enough to find out.

 

[MissTaken]

It just seems to me that het men, whether in the lifestyle or not, get some sense of "submission" when they try to overcome the stigma and stereotypes that stand in the way of enjoying some intense anal play.

They need to trust their partner, communicate and know that they will be respected as a man during and after the act. To offer their ass to someone is serious business indeed and for me, when this has been the case, I have cherished the experience. IT isn't the physical act itself, that lends itself to these feelings, but what that act indicates on an emotional and mental level.

 

[Etoile]

Well, honestly I can't say it would have ended up in the GLBT because not too many people figure out right off what all of those letters stand for. I didn't even go in there because I didn't know what it was, and wasn't interested enough to find out.

Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender. For the most part, people who fit those categories tend to know what at least some of the letters mean (we had questions about the T early on), so it seemed like those who would start out with an interest would already know. I figured the description in the forum list was clear enough to attract those who might not know; do you have another suggestion?

added - sorry for being snippy, I'm just kind of depressed tonight. don't mind me.

 

[catalina_francisco]

It just seems to me that het men, whether in the lifestyle or not, get some sense of "submission" when they try to overcome the stigma and stereotypes that stand in the way of enjoying some intense anal play.

They need to trust their partner, communicate and know that they will be respected as a man during and after the act. To offer their ass to someone is serious business indeed and for me, when this has been the case, I have cherished the experience. IT isn't the physical act itself, that lends itself to these feelings, but what that act indicates on an emotional and mental level.

The one I had most experience with was anything but submissive, but just liked anal play because as he said, it felt so damn good for him on a physical level. But yes, I imagine some do find it a submissive act.