Am I fucked up or what

[bambikiller]

Question,
Might not be the right place to post this but here's my question and or problem.
I dated a very kinky girl in my past.
I haven't had contact with here in about 10 years.
I find myself thinking about her a lot lately.
The things we did, what could have done, ect.
I find that sometimes I'll make the same facial exspresion that she used to make and that will bring me right to the thought of her.
I been married for a while with child and I have no desire to stray.
And the real weird thing about it is that the girl I've been thinking a lot about for the past year or so has been dead for about eight years.
Am I fucked up.
Or just fantising about a passed good time.
I thought that is the case.
But now but I've been thinking about this girl alot more frequintly lately and now I am not so sure.
So what's your vote, fucked up or just a fantisy thing going on.

 

[FurryFury]

Fantasy.

I still think about my evil toxic ex. So, shit happens. Ya know?

*hug*

FF

 

[bambikiller]

That's what I thought but shit I've been thinking a lot about her lately I just needed it confirmed by an out side source.
Thanks

 

[FloggingMolly]

That's what I thought but shit I've been thinking a lot about her lately I just needed it confirmed by an out side source.
Thanks

Sounds perfectly normal to me, especially if things at home are a little stressful etc.

 

[where]

it's only fucked up if you are fantasising about digging her up and fucking her. I had a beau who died and I still think of him.

 

[WriterDom]

it's only fucked up if you are fantasising about digging her up and fucking her.

Sicko.

CorpseLube. So effective you can use it on dead people!

I don't know if I want to be cremated or just put me in a sack and throw me in the dirt. Why buy a casket when it might be seen for 48 hours tops? And of course on top of that you are required by law to buy a vault.

I have a neighbor who goes to see her husbands grave every night at 7 because that's when he picked her up for dates in 1945. And that's great if that gives her comfort. Doesn't do much to me to visit the dead.

 

[Mohousewife]

Sicko.

CorpseLube. So effective you can use it on dead people!

I don't know if I want to be cremated or just put me in a sack and throw me in the dirt. Why buy a casket when it might be seen for 48 hours tops? And of course on top of that you are required by law to buy a vault.

I have a neighbor who goes to see her husbands grave every night at 7 because that's when he picked her up for dates in 1945. And that's great if that gives her comfort. Doesn't do much to me to visit the dead.

LMAO...Corpselube....LOL

 

[subwannabe]

You are not fucked up.

 

[midwestyankee]

You're not fucked up. We all wander back to thoughts of past lovers now and again.

But you're giving yourself a big shove in the wrong direction by obsessing about it. Give yourself a time limit - say, two days - and make yourself drop all thoughts of her after that time limit is up.

Then get on with your life.

 

[where]

Sicko.

CorpseLube. So effective you can use it on dead people!

I don't know if I want to be cremated or just put me in a sack and throw me in the dirt. Why buy a casket when it might be seen for 48 hours tops? And of course on top of that you are required by law to buy a vault.

I have a neighbor who goes to see her husbands grave every night at 7 because that's when he picked her up for dates in 1945. And that's great if that gives her comfort. Doesn't do much to me to visit the dead.

you come up with CorpseLube and you call ME a sicko?

that is really touching and yet so sad about your neighbour.

 

[WriterDom]

you come up with CorpseLube and you call ME a sicko?

that is really touching and yet so sad about your neighbour.

One of the cats in the neighborhood had a deformed kitty who couldn't use her back legs and she rescued it and now it's a happy little girl. She has a big male cat too but they both get along just fine. I thought that was sweet of her.

 

[YourCaptor]

Unless you put her in the grave, or get her out of it, it's not so bad.

 

[Etoile]

We're all a little fucked up though, aren't we?