Am I Bisexual??

[YngStallionGuy]

Hi all, my first post besides my introductory post a little while ago...I am a 19 year old male college student, and you all seem like very nice, very wise, and very kinky people

So I am in need of a little help here...I am not sure if I am bisexual or not or what the hell is going on...here is the info so far LOL and you can all let me know what you think, because I'm not sure if I "qualify" as bisexual.

I never have had any thoughts of me and another man alone, never bee attracted to another man sexually...but I have often thought of a threesome of me , a woman and a man where the man and I play with each other for the woman. I also have spent many a masturbation session drooling over she-male pics, and have also imagined me and a woman being with a she-male. In these fantasies I touch cock, taste it, lick it...I probe asses with mouth, fingers, and cock, the whole nine yards lol. But none of these are very enticing to me without a woman present (well the she-male maybe....) so I am not quite sure what's going on! What do you all think? I have never experimented with either male or she-male, because quite frankly I have never had the urge to be with a man...so am I just one kinky bastard LOL? If so, I knew that all ready....but what's the consensus? Thank you all for your time, don't mean to impose my problems on the forum!

 

[VeryBadGirl]

Hi YSG - if you search, you'll find many "am I gay" and "if I want to suck dick am I gay" threads.

I've wondered this question myself, and have been enlightened to the fact that there are no cut and drieds.

You MAY be bi-curious. But then again, I thought my husband was bi-curious - it turned out that he is very turned on by gay porno (as am I) but has no desire to be with a man. If he did want to, he would tell me - we're pretty open. I got him to put a dildo in his mouth - no likee - but he DID like it up his ass.

you're young - enjoy the journey to self-understanding!

VBG

 

[BustyTheClown]

Yeah, I'm not sure if fantasies make you bi, either. One thing my sweetheart and I have learned is that just because you fantasize about something, that does not mean you'd like it if it happened in real life. For instance, I find anonymity highly arousing when I fantasize, but I am not remotely aroused by the idea of actually having sex with a complete stranger. Also, if you don't feel sexual attraction towards men, it's not likely you're bisexual.

...Then again, human sexuality is not black and white. There are lots of shades of grey, and you may find yourself attracted to the idea of having sex with men or not. Either way, just go with the flow. Don't worry about what others think, or how you might look if all of a sudden you started wanting to have sex with men without a woman (lol or women) present. Just enjoy your experiences as much as you can. It all comes down to whether or not you're enjoying yourself -- as long as you're happy, labels like "straight" "gay" "bi" and whatnot are unimportant, if not altogether meaningless.

Hope that helps.