Am I a virgin?!

[cosmocreamer]

For various reasons, I don't have much experience with women. I have had intercourse with three women but I have never climaxed with a woman.

Does that make me a virgin?
It has been six years since I was with a woman so I certainly feel like a virgin.

Just throwing the question out there to see what's your definition of virginity!

 

[Carnevil9]

If you've had your dick inside even one woman, you are not a virgin. But there is still a long, slow learning curve before you can be considered experienced. Sometimes it takes a while before you can be comfortable enough with someone to climax with them. Nothing wrong with that. Take your time and have fun along the way.......Carney

 

[cosmocreamer]

Thanks Carney!
Your reply is appreciated.

 

[Sensua1]

So what happened? Had sex with women but did not climax ..

 

[Carnevil9]

So what happened? Had sex with women but did not climax ..

That's not unusual. Especially if you are too uptight to relax and enjoy yourself. The body just sort of clenches up. But the good news is, practice makes perfect!

 

[Ex Princess]

Definitely not a virgin, but finding a woman you actually click with and can stimulate you both mentally and physically is important.

Have fun looking for this lady. Find one who can make your toes curl!

 

[cosmocreamer]

So what happened? Had sex with women but did not climax ..

Yeah, I was pretty dissapointed lol.

One factor could have been that I was on anti-depressants at the time. Apparantly that can make orgasm difficult.

Another factor was that I had an overly tight foreskin which made sex painful. I suppose that put me off a bit, to build sex up as this great thing but finding out it's painful. But hopefully that problem is now solved since I got circumsized a while ago ;-)

 

[Sensua1]

So you remained hard but just did not cum?

 

[cosmocreamer]

Definitely not a virgin, but finding a woman you actually click with and can stimulate you both mentally and physically is important.

Have fun looking for this lady. Find one who can make your toes curl!

Thankyou Ex Princess!
Funnily enough the last girl I was with told me I needed to find a lady who made me weak at the knees!

 

[cosmocreamer]

So you remained hard but just did not cum?

Pretty much, yes. The girl I was with thought that was great of course!

 

[Sensua1]

Yes, from a woman's point of view, you could be a man with holding power. Of cos when it gets on for too long, I don't enjoy it either.

 

[cosmocreamer]

Yeah, at the time I had to stop eventually because of the discomfort. Hopefully it won't be a problem now I'm circumsized.