Am I a bitch...

[PapaRomantic]

I messaged the moderator. I'm hoping he gets professional help, and gets off this site. I actually now feel 1000% unsafe coming on here in the threads.. Like.. Im terrified.

i have reported him as well.

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

i have reported him as well.

Thank you.

 

[What_Motivates_a_Man]

I'm brand spanking new here. I use to be relatively busy on Tumblr during it's high times. Hate to say it seems things haven't changed and people still invade other's inboxes with unprompted and unwelcome photos. Men need to realize that just because a woman is sexual doesn't mean that woman wants to be sexual with them.

Not a bitch at all. Sorry for the bad experiences in your inbox and in this thread.

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

I'm brand spanking new here. I use to be relatively busy on Tumblr during it's high times. Hate to say it seems things haven't changed and people still invade other's inboxes with unprompted and unwelcome photos. Men need to realize that just because a woman is sexual doesn't mean that woman wants to be sexual with them.

Not a bitch at all. Sorry for the bad experiences in your inbox and in this thread.

Well the dick pics usually are on another site I'm on but like.. the unwanted people are everywhere. And ehh. I have the person ignored so I can't see what he says or anything and wouldn't be shocked if he's saying some bullshit now on a post or something

 

[What_Motivates_a_Man]

Well the dick pics usually are on another site I'm on but like.. the unwanted people are everywhere. And ehh. I have the person ignored so I can't see what he says or anything and wouldn't be shocked if he's saying some bullshit now on a post or something

It's crazy to me that people can't just take a few easy seconds to shoot a courtesy and be like, "Hey, can we talk?" whatever it is. Men are crazy pushy and need to realize it ain't helping anyone.

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

It's crazy to me that people can't just take a few easy seconds to shoot a courtesy and be like, "Hey, can we talk?" whatever it is. Men are crazy pushy and need to realize it ain't helping anyone.

Ehh. Honestly after today I feel unsafe so I may take another long break from here....

 

[PapaRomantic]

It's crazy to me that people can't just take a few easy seconds to shoot a courtesy and be like, "Hey, can we talk?" whatever it is. Men are crazy pushy and need to realize it ain't helping anyone.

Please stop generalizing ALL men with statements like this. Some of us are not this way at all, but we get unfairly characterized by too many people.

 

[What_Motivates_a_Man]

Please stop generalizing ALL men with statements like this. Some of us are not this way at all, but we get unfairly characterized by too many people.

Eh, I used generalizing statements in both "people can't just take a few easy seconds", and used the term 'men' in this particular case because it is a man who is being bizarre and pushy.

More to the point, this thread doesn't seem like the place to feel triggered when a fellow man has made yet another person uncomfortable enough to leave.

Not to be rude, but don't be triggered by what I said, help fellow men not be awful.

-From a fellow man.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Okay so I get nowadays most men feel the need to show their unsolicited dick pics to women.. what I wanna know is am I a bitch for having a backup plan when they don't understand that it makes ME uncomfortable as fuck to deal with that?

And by backup plan I mean a picture of a cheese grater. Cause clearly my words don't mean shit to these small brained assholes.

PS-- Men? Do better. Don't be creeps please. Thank you.

I haven't read your entire thread, so this may have been mentioned already. You can REPORT messages like that.

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

The pics weren't sent on this site

 

[ToPleaseHim]

The trash has been taken out and no longer has permissions to post in this thread.

 

[What_Motivates_a_Man]

The trash has been taken out and no longer has permissions to post in this thread.

Being so new here I'm thrilled to see how quickly mods stepped in. Kudos!

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

The trash has been taken out and no longer has permissions to post in this thread.

Thank you so much! He definitely scared the Hell outta me and I honestly don't have it set to get notifications so I didn't see shit until it was too late. Thank you so much again!

 

[jasten]

My advice, just don't engage and click ignore. There are good people on here, just have to rule out the losers.

"If you want some quality friends, you gotta wade through all the dicks first."

 

[jaF0]

Sometimes an unsolicited Dick pic is good for the funny bone.

https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fm.media-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FM%2FMV5BNTZhZDE1NmYtZDczYS00YWVmLTlhZWItODhhYWQwZWNlOWQ0XkEyXkFqcGdeQXVyMjM2ODYwMQ%40%40._V1_FMjpg_UX1000_.jpg&f=1&nofb=1&ipt=4378ec4d2a34f0b4051ea292cd2e522d19987e0f3947f7953868bbb4d7ef0e63&ipo=images

 

[jaF0]

You might even phone your Dick Inn.


https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.sitcomsonline.com%2Fphotopost%2Fdata%2F683%2Fbnps.JPG&f=1&nofb=1&ipt=b13fc41d01b2f05ffb11f6611f274f9101a248b6d9a6da40cb6c63ea521c12b1&ipo=images

 

[Bbl87]

You mean you don't want more unsolicited weiners in your inbox than a hotdog eating contest? I must have women all wrong...

In all seriousness, I've never understood the compulsion to send an unsolicited dick pic. Don't get me wrong, sending solicited ones is fun and all. But ya, I don't get it.

 

[jaF0]

You mean you don't want more unsolicited weiners in your inbox than a hotdog eating contest?

Not real big on weiner dogs.

 

[Noor]

Okay so I get nowadays most men feel the need to show their unsolicited dick pics to women.. what I wanna know is am I a bitch for having a backup plan when they don't understand that it makes ME uncomfortable as fuck to deal with that?

And by backup plan I mean a picture of a cheese grater. Cause clearly my words don't mean shit to these small brained assholes.

PS-- Men? Do better. Don't be creeps please. Thank you.

yay, I don’t get it. Even when you ask them not to, they do. Maybe because they are so into their cocks that they think everyone else will be ?
I don’t think you’re a bitch, I think it’s kind of funny, but I usually just block them.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Sometimes an unsolicited Dick pic is good for the funny bone.

https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fm.media-amazon.com%2Fimages%2FM%2FMV5BNTZhZDE1NmYtZDczYS00YWVmLTlhZWItODhhYWQwZWNlOWQ0XkEyXkFqcGdeQXVyMjM2ODYwMQ%40%40._V1_FMjpg_UX1000_.jpg&f=1&nofb=1&ipt=4378ec4d2a34f0b4051ea292cd2e522d19987e0f3947f7953868bbb4d7ef0e63&ipo=images

 

[Matt_B]

Agreed. You're not a bitch. Sorry to hear this is something a lot of the woman here have to go through. Not all of us are like that.

 

[TravisAW]

Honestly, how many men would be freaked out/grossed out by unsolicited boob/pussy pics? A very small minority.

It's definitely a one way thing that men cannot really relate to.

Heard of another woman who sent the dick pic back to his wife with wishes that she finds a better one in future.

Bottom line reality is that it's sexual assault and needs treating as such.

 

[Escierto]

Honestly, how many men would be freaked out/grossed out by unsolicited boob/pussy pics? A very small minority.

It's definitely a one way thing that men cannot really relate to.

Heard of another woman who sent the dick pic back to his wife with wishes that she finds a better one in future.

Bottom line reality is that it's sexual assault and needs treating as such.

You make some good points.

I was on Grindr briefly looking for a transgender woman for a relationship. What a mistake! I got so many unsolicited dick pics from gay guys, it was unbelievable. Why would anyone start a conversation with, btw here is my dick!

 

[AvgMan9000]

No you are not a bitch. Sharing unsolicited pics is rude AF. Since their ego must be associated with their member, maybe you should respond with an "I'm so sorry for you. Here's a link to a place that does penis implants and enlargements" and then give them a link...

https://doctor.webmd.com/providers/procedure/penile-implant