Am I a bitch...

[PrincessSkyee1993]

Okay so I get nowadays most men feel the need to show their unsolicited dick pics to women.. what I wanna know is am I a bitch for having a backup plan when they don't understand that it makes ME uncomfortable as fuck to deal with that?

And by backup plan I mean a picture of a cheese grater. Cause clearly my words don't mean shit to these small brained assholes.

PS-- Men? Do better. Don't be creeps please. Thank you.

 

[Rayyj97]

Actually quite funny

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

Actually quite funny

Right?! I think I'm hilarious

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

My advice, just don't engage and click ignore. There are good people on here, just have to rule out the losers.

This is usually on other sites. Theyre.. weird. And creepy. Like.. dudes.. read the roooooom

 

[pdxhiker]

this is absolutely fair. Not a bitch at all. And it’s quite funny to boot.

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

this is absolutely fair. Not a bitch at all. And it’s quite funny to boot.

I'm on a few chat sites and such and "men" seem to think their shriveled dick is gonna do something. Like hon.. simmer down boy. I have standards xD

 

[filt]

I’ve never understood the unrequested, unwanted dick pic. I mean, by claiming to be male the old chap’s presence is implied.

If you think about sex, you insert it so if you get on really well, no one wants to see it!

 

[nekkid_handyman]

Ok, so being a guy I obviously don't know exactly how women are affected by unsolicited dick pics. I assume the feelings span uncomfortable all the way to violated.
My advice to you is don't worry one bit about how they feel about you...they certainly don't care how they make you feel.
BTW, I think it's funny as hell.

 

[MiaBabe23]

And to the OP - absolutely, go for it. Use whatever style of simple response that gets rid of the ick feelings, and lets you feel empowered again

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

It's all you. Do what you feel best represents what you want/need to do. Don't worry what others may think or say. This place can be a jungle and it can be a great place. Use the tools afforded to you.

 

[irishblade]

I'm on a few chat sites and such and "men" seem to think their shriveled dick is gonna do something. Like hon.. simmer down boy. I have standards xD

But also, like….you have the internet.

 

[pdxhiker]

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What?

 

[Escierto]

The same can be said about men. There are a plethora of disgusting men who have shown no respect for anything or anyone aside from their own needs. The women here haven't projected anything onto anyone. In a simple term they are just saying fuck around and find out. Men who send dick pics without any permission are the ones who need to learn respect. If you wouldnt want someone sending that to your mother daughter, or yourself then don't do it to someone you're trying to introduce yourself to.

Well said!

 

[Escierto]

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No women police officers where you are? Of course, most of them are men, I understand that.

 

[Escierto]

Another one on ignore lol

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

Well this took a turn

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

Yall are.. Wow.
I mean I'm glad some of yall agree I'm not a bitch. (I'm typing this at a church for a pantry xD)

But again thank yall. I just wanna make sure I'm not a bitch cause like.. I clearly can't be nice. They won't listen. It's sad.

 

[Bi4Older84]

Don't mistake your response to someone being an asshole as your "being a bitch." Sending an unsolicited dick pic is a classless move, which warrants whichever reaction you see fit. It's not up to you soften the blow to their ego, sometimes people need to be knocked down a notch or two. You may be saving trouble for someone else down the line or (unlikely) causing a moment of reflection and self awareness for them to think about their behavior.

 

[Bi4Older84]

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Being OFFENSIVE is a choice-sending an unsolicited dick pic is a choice. The only choice she may have made was engaging with someone on an app or website. Now, had she asked for a picture, that's a different story.

If you personally are fighting against the possibility of 3 years in jail for sending a dick pic, I'd be curious as to the age of the person you sent it to or the laws against doing that wherever you are from. Honestly, it's irrelevant-3 years will probably be plenty of time for reflection and I'd be willing to bet you won't be sending any more dick pics, so it sounds like a good deterrent. But I'm sure you will claim the victimhood here, whether the punishment is equal to the crime or whatever your argument will be.

 

[Bi4Older84]

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You're right in assuming that I'm not going to shame you or guilt you. I don't care at all. You did an action, the actions have consequences. Good on you for apparently being willing to face those consequences.

The point is that there were no actions that she took that warranted her getting an UNSOLICITED dick pic. She shouldn't feel bad or question if she's a bitch if she responds sarcastically or rudely-she doesn't have to protect anyone's feelings.

This isn't a man vs woman thing like you want it to be, and no gender should be granted exception for shitty behavior. This is just a gendered issue, as you don't really see a huge problem of women sending unsolicited nudes or men complaining about it

 

[Bi4Older84]

Ok. Seems like most everyone on this thread has you blocked anyways and I've no interest in blocking you or in engaging any further. Best of luck to you

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

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Okay. Ease up my guy. Please. I did not ask MY original question for others to be attacked and I'm putting my foot down. Behave or you can please exit stage left.

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

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Yeah.. You definitely need help. Good luck in your life dude. Please do not reach out or comment again. Thank you.

 

[PapaRomantic]

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You need to GO.THE.FUCK.AWAY. Counting my post, there have been 68 posts on this thread and you have made 34 of them. That's spamming, and that's not accepted in Lit.

There is nothing you can gain by making any more posts, so please stop!

 

[PrincessSkyee1993]

You need to GO.THE.FUCK.AWAY. Counting my post, there have been 68 posts on this thread and you have made 34 of them. That's spamming, and that's not accepted in Lit.

There is nothing you can gain by making any more posts, so please stop!

I messaged the moderator. I'm hoping he gets professional help, and gets off this site. I actually now feel 1000% unsafe coming on here in the threads.. Like.. Im terrified.