Always wanted to be a submissive

[HandsomeHunk]

Cheri is 5'1" slender and petite with a truly soft, sweet voice....when we first met I was instantly attracted to her....Cheri loves sex....but she has a secret....she really wants to be dominated and made to sleep with other women...and men...and couples...and groups!

 

[Guest]

Is this based off a real life friend/lover, or are you open to ideas and suggestions from others at Lit?

 

[HandsomeHunk]

The idea is based mostly on a past experience..any ideas would be great.

Handsomehunk

 

[Chicklet]

It's always interesting to me to read stories about women manipulating their men into domination. Mostly cause I've tried to do this, and because the stereotype is for a man or woman to try to get their s/o to submit to them.

This is a huge relationship thing.

tell me, if this is a true thing, how did Cheri go about explaining her desires to you? I would slip books about the subject into my partners hands = )

Chicklet

 

[Guest]

(Not entirely on topic, but I've trained many of my past lovers to be Doms...)

 

[Chicklet]

(Not entirely on topic, but I've trained many of my past lovers to be Doms...)

well, yeah, it can be done = )

did you tell them outright what you wanted from them, or did you sneak around it like me?

 

[Guest]

I told them outright, but in its own way that was sneaky. I didn't "teach" them D/s per se. I taught them what I liked. (After all, the ultimate punishmet for a masochist is to not touch them.) But, for my novice lovers I was getting my ass beaten, etc.

I was molding them into the kind of Sadist Dom I craved. (And, on a couple counts, some past lovers asked me if I was "still into the things I was into when I was with them" and if I'd do them with them again. lol)

 

[HandsomeHunk]

Submissive

Cheri finally told me of her fantasies after a couple of years....not that I wanted to dominate her...she just needed to pushed..wanted to be pushed into situations where she could secretly do what she really wanted....total, unashamed sexual expression...

 

[Guest]

Okay, so back ON track again...

Here we have a petite little woman who looks "normal" to society, but who has a deep, dark secret desire. She's tired of being the "goodie two-shoes" and wants to dabble in the world of BDSM. (She's always heard and seen so much about it in the media, etc., and she knows it's what she craves. It's time to break out of her shell and to "just do it"!)

Like I have done with several lovers, she can "top from the bottom". If you want, HandsomeHunk, you can be the main male character for this story...and you're her husband, lover, best friend...whatever. And, you want to please her very much, but D/s "just isn't your thing".

That's where the other people come into play. She's shared her fantasies and desires with you, and you gotta admit, though it's not quite your thing you're turned on by her fantasies. You want to help her.

So, you get things set up. It could be a personal ad online somewhere, it could be with friends you already have who are swingers, etc. Through these outside people, you fulfill your lover's desires.






Edited for a typo.

 

[HandsomeHunk]

Submissive

The first Dom/S episode with Cheri was with a neighbor down stairs...a woman. Cheri has known her in High School...a real beauty..tall, very long hair..should have a model. After several weeks of just chatting and social drinking.....some how we got on the topic of Adult videos...and I let it out that I had done a few loops (XXX) in the early 80's. This got things moving....Tina wanted to hear more...and Cheri was just her quiet self. I told about for or five scenes I had done...ending with a torrid tale of five women and just me. tina wanted to hear more and then asked if I had bought any of the videos I was in...sadly I siad no.

But, I said I do have a video camera....Cheri perked up and Tina was interested I could tell...I got out the camera and started shooting....I told Cheri and Tina to dance around for me...Cheri wouldn't budge from her chair....being somewhat forceful...I told to just get up and do it! to my surprise..she did. that's when I learned that if I TOLD her to do something..she would.

 

[HandsomeHunk]

Submissive

To answer your question.....while in bed after making love to cheri...she would talk about going to swing partys....and thinking it would be fun...because no one would know her or neccessarily ever see her again...it was about anonymous.