djrip
Oneirographer
- Joined
- Apr 28, 2015
- Posts
- 1,883
I was being a bit tongue in cheek there. I didn't mean to suggest there was any shaming. She just expressed dislike for the subject matter, which made me think of all the other people in the world who are also bothered by it, and it made me want to put out there that I think of writing such things as a kind of service to the people who want to fantasize about or imagine or roleplay such things. I guess to me the perspective makes a difference - the perspective of the perpetrator may carry a connotation of enjoying being the perpetrator. Which is fine for stories that do that. But for me it's about the perspective of the victim, specifically to serve readers who want to imagine being the victim in that situation. Ie, a sort of roleplay.So a few things:
1) I actually have a plan to create a Patreon where all of my happy endings get dark ones, and vice versa. I have no idea if that'll be popular, but I'm gonna try it one of these days.
2) My noncon stories (while never violent) could basically never end with "We're just kidding." I mean, I suppose I could write literally anything, but I always start with absurd premises which separate my story from reality... long before the noncon starts. Twisting back to, "it's all pretend!" would require such a mental lurch, that no reasonable reader would be happy.
3) Why would you feel bad about writing a noncon story? Should Steven King feel bad for all the characters he's murdered in his novels? It's fiction. I feel like writing mostly noncon makes me a pariah in these forums, but I can't bring myself to care. Real life rape is evil, but fortunately these are words on a computer screen, and no more evil than all the fictional murders that millions of players commit in GTA.
[EDIT] For clarification, I'm not suggesting that anyone should enjoy noncon. If you don't, then you don't. That's perfectly fine. But the idea of shaming a person for what they write on here... Oof. I'm not a fan of that.
I should avoid words like "every," I think.