alrighty.................

[mathis847]

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[rosebud5446]

first of all... how long have you been dating? and how serious is this relationship?

 

[bobsgirl]

ok , i figured that this should be put into its own thread, instead of replying to another already existing one ..

i talked to my roomie , and a girl that i know .. both of them talked to my bf yesterday .. i guess he got to a computer , well .. he never emailed me or anything.. the girl told him he should write me or something.. well .. he didnt .. he didnt ask anything about me or say anything about me i dont know what to think about that . i sent him an email pretty much saying that it was pretty bogus that he didnt email me .. like... he could talk to other people , and do other thinigs online yet didnt have time to write me a couple lines im so sad right now ... i told him we needed to talk when he gets home .. im really depressed about this.. well.. not depressed but upset .. am i wrong for feeling this way

have you actually talked to the bf? Why don't you talk to him before you get any more upset? I understand why you're upset, but there may be a perfectly good reason why you didn't hear from him.

 

[Exciteher]

ok , i figured that this should be put into its own thread, instead of replying to another already existing one ..

i talked to my roomie , and a girl that i know .. both of them talked to my bf yesterday .. i guess he got to a computer , well .. he never emailed me or anything.. the girl told him he should write me or something.. well .. he didnt .. he didnt ask anything about me or say anything about me ....

.. im really depressed about this.. well.. not depressed but upset .. am i wrong for feeling this way

mathis847, I have read some of your other posts... and been trying to stay out of this... because many other people gave you such good advice.

NO, you are not wrong to be upset... you feel the way you feel. You never have to justify how you feel to anyone. Dol you understand that?

Yes, all the stuff your b/f is pulling is bogus..IMHO!

Here is the deal. He is young... and really selfish... He got you to move in with him... well sort of...he got you to move in with him and his roomie...

Anyway, he has what HE wants... You have been asking him to get with the program.... but he refuses to listen... and now he is not trying.

You are young... the world is your oyster. You seem like a sweetheart... but now your trust in him is so low, that you are starting to distrust everything. Not good!

Sounds like you want a relationship... sounds like he needs some growing up before he will be capable of one.

Maybe you both need that, and the best thing to do is move out... and take the relationship back to the same conditions it was in when things were workiing. Make any sense?

I am sorry. Yes its painfull.... but changing all this will not be as painfull as all the distrust... and the emotional rollercoaster he has you on right now... that will be the first step to finding out what is going on with your b/f.

Bottom line, see if changing things back to the way it was when it WAS WORKING between you two changes anything for the better.

I have a question, what is your "inner voice", that one way deep down that is often hard to listen to, telling you to do?

 

[vanelane]

This is so junior high!

 

[Reba67]

Have you tried the telephone? How long as it been since you feel he should have emailed/called? How long has it been since YOU tried to contact him?

"He got to a computer", sure, but......just how long did he have? Not all public computers even allow email checking.

 

[mathis847]

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[Succulent-one]

not all computers or places allow email checking no , but .... he was online chatting with people through aim .. so ... in other words , he could have emailed me .. i cant contact him .. hes in another country til saturday .. i havent spoke to him since the 2nd of this month ..

This guy is jerking your chain. Believe me, he is not worth one tear, or a chipped nail writing him another email. Be out of there with no forwarding address by the time the ass gets home. If he treats you this way now, he just thinks you are rug and he can walk all over you. Don't let it happen. You deserve a heck of a lot more than this shit can give you.