All things Edging

I’m an old guy. Every so often I hear of “something new” and either I don’t understand it or it seems like something old.

Edging. You mean masturbating and not coming as quickly as you can?

I used to do that when I would rent a half dozen VHS porn movies and beat off for three hours.
Yes. You work until nearly a blow, stop cold. Throbbing and leaking. No pulsing ejaculation.

let the throbber relax and leaking. Start again as a thick cubby.
 
I’m an old guy. Every so often I hear of “something new” and either I don’t understand it or it seems like something old.

Edging. You mean masturbating and not coming as quickly as you can?

I used to do that when I would rent a half dozen VHS porn movies and beat off for three hours.
that sounds like 3 hours well spent
 
I love edging. Whether it is just taking my time to work up to a hard orgasm, or letting my mind be mesmerised for hours with stories, audios or fantasies, its such an amazing way to keep the sexual brain engaged and let the body quiver along..or vice versa. Sometimes I will edge for hours, or even days..chatting with online playmates, indulging in tasks and performing to scratch my exhibitionist itch.

i have also been tied, edged and denied in private play and parties. There is something hypnotic about being taken to and held at that point just before you tip...and I love to find new and interesting ways to enjoy it.

Keen to hear others experiences...if you are an edger how do you do it, who do you do it with, what do you watch, listen to or read. How many inventive and interesting ways have you found to get to that edge and stay there? How long can you hold it??

Lets take the conversation to the edge...
Edging and orgasm control are central to our sex life. My wife controls my orgasm and allows me to cum 1-2x a month.

We have sex a few times a week and my focus is always on her orgasm and pleasure. When I get close to cumming, I back off or slow down. Sometimes I will get competent flaccid and then restart. We typically have long session - around 30 minutes.

She will give me good, long edging handjobs without letting me cum abt once a week. This requires strong communication to keep me on the edge without tipping over. Then she leaves me delightfully and maddeningly frustrated.

When she’s not entirely in the mood, she will let me masturbate. She usually watches. Sometimes when I’m horny, I will also masturbate alone, but I always tell her and i edge and I don’t cum.

I save my ejaculation for her.

When I do cum, it is powerful, voluminous and shoots pretty far. I’ve been three weeks without cumming and I think I am due this weekend or next. (I hope)

The thing is, the feeling of lust you have after a few weeks really changes you. I become super attentive to her and loving and horny. When I edge, it’s an amazing feeling!

When I cum, I lose that feeling.
 
Edging and orgasm control are central to our sex life. My wife controls my orgasm and allows me to cum 1-2x a month.

We have sex a few times a week and my focus is always on her orgasm and pleasure. When I get close to cumming, I back off or slow down. Sometimes I will get competent flaccid and then restart. We typically have long session - around 30 minutes.

She will give me good, long edging handjobs without letting me cum abt once a week. This requires strong communication to keep me on the edge without tipping over. Then she leaves me delightfully and maddeningly frustrated.

When she’s not entirely in the mood, she will let me masturbate. She usually watches. Sometimes when I’m horny, I will also masturbate alone, but I always tell her and i edge and I don’t cum.

I save my ejaculation for her.

When I do cum, it is powerful, voluminous and shoots pretty far. I’ve been three weeks without cumming and I think I am due this weekend or next. (I hope)

The thing is, the feeling of lust you have after a few weeks really changes you. I become super attentive to her and loving and horny. When I edge, it’s an amazing feeling!

When I cum, I lose that feeling.
sounds amazing and thanks for sharing your experience, I love all aspects of that dynamic, especially the orgasm control and focus on her pleasure...a female led relationship is a thing of beauty
 
I love edging. Whether it is just taking my time to work up to a hard orgasm, or letting my mind be mesmerised for hours with stories, audios or fantasies, its such an amazing way to keep the sexual brain engaged and let the body quiver along..or vice versa. Sometimes I will edge for hours, or even days..chatting with online playmates, indulging in tasks and performing to scratch my exhibitionist itch.

i have also been tied, edged and denied in private play and parties. There is something hypnotic about being taken to and held at that point just before you tip...and I love to find new and interesting ways to enjoy it.

Keen to hear others experiences...if you are an edger how do you do it, who do you do it with, what do you watch, listen to or read. How many inventive and interesting ways have you found to get to that edge and stay there? How long can you hold it??

Lets take the conversation to the edge...
I find edging so incredibly enjoyable. I love that feeling of knowing that your orgasm is just a stroke or two away and you stop, reset a little and build back up. These days I don’t have nearly the time I used to when I was in college, but my wife and I do work some edging in and when I do finally cum it is so much more powerful.

In college though I could edge for 3-4 hours just looking at Playboy or Penthouse magazines and fantasizing about the young women I knew.
 
I find edging so incredibly enjoyable. I love that feeling of knowing that your orgasm is just a stroke or two away and you stop, reset a little and build back up. These days I don’t have nearly the time I used to when I was in college, but my wife and I do work some edging in and when I do finally cum it is so much more powerful.

In college though I could edge for 3-4 hours just looking at Playboy or Penthouse magazines and fantasizing about the young women I knew.
Fantastic, sharing that edging with a partner makes it so much more intense in my experience.
 
I’m an old guy. Every so often I hear of “something new” and either I don’t understand it or it seems like something old.

Edging. You mean masturbating and not coming as quickly as you can?

I used to do that when I would rent a half dozen VHS porn movies and beat off for three hours.
Yup…Edging is holding back…you can edge while fucking, or masturbating…as long as you’re consciously delaying your orgasm…you are EDGING
 
Edging and orgasm control are central to our sex life. My wife controls my orgasm and allows me to cum 1-2x a month.

We have sex a few times a week and my focus is always on her orgasm and pleasure. When I get close to cumming, I back off or slow down. Sometimes I will get competent flaccid and then restart. We typically have long session - around 30 minutes.

She will give me good, long edging handjobs without letting me cum abt once a week. This requires strong communication to keep me on the edge without tipping over. Then she leaves me delightfully and maddeningly frustrated.

When she’s not entirely in the mood, she will let me masturbate. She usually watches. Sometimes when I’m horny, I will also masturbate alone, but I always tell her and i edge and I don’t cum.

I save my ejaculation for her.

When I do cum, it is powerful, voluminous and shoots pretty far. I’ve been three weeks without cumming and I think I am due this weekend or next. (I hope)

The thing is, the feeling of lust you have after a few weeks really changes you. I become super attentive to her and loving and horny. When I edge, it’s an amazing feeling!

When I cum, I lose that feeling.
Wow I love this! I would love to hear how you guys got into this
 
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