All the Lays of all your Days

[suckonsimon]

An invitation to share an overview of your story with sexual intercourse.
For some litsters it’s memories, whether happy or mixed; for others it’s hopes; for others, ongoing.
Let’s be kind as well as candid, as is the spirit of Darkroom Lounge.
Either write your piece, or answer these questions:

1 What circumstances have given you the most fulfilling sexual intercourse?

2 What circumstances have given you the most exciting sexual intercourse?

3 How frequent has been the most frequent time for you?

4 Since you lost your virginity how long has been the longest time without for you?

5 [not a competition this one! after all we are hugely different ages!]
Give us an honest approximation of the number of times you have had sexual intercourse.

I’m not asking the ‘how many different partners’ question, as it’s on several threads already, but if you wish to tell us that too, your choice. Who’s willing to go first with this? Simon.

 

[suckonsimon]

OK I'll offer my own answers and look forward to some other takers?

1 Most fulfilling times were the whole baby making thing: The delight of getting her pregnant and then how desperately she wanted fucking during various stages of pregnancies. What a pleasure to deeply satisfy her need and at the same time know an unborn child was experiencing its mother's orgasmic joy - that went deep for me!

2 Most exciting was a self-catered holiday for two well south in France, our first holiday without children after the years of [lovely] family hols. The furniture and interior design of this place, including the shower and the kitchen was a love-nest and we fucked two, three times each day all over it, and spent most of our time out on the beach or casual in cafes passing looks and innuendos about our next time naked.

3 A few holidays over the years have had the 'couple or three times a day' frequency.

4 Due to stress related depression there was a time of 18 months with no intercourse.

5 Being very much in love and fit for most of 38 years of marriage means it's approaching 4,000.

6 I'm entirely happy about the fact that the answer is 1.

 

[DewMee]

I could write my own but will for now use your template...

1 What circumstances have given you the most fulfilling sexual intercourse?
Circumstance was the first time my then boyfriend talked me into a bit of experimentation and I agreed to be shared while being filmed. It was a day of firsts. I have to say I have enjoyed that sort of arrangement and have done it countless times since, but that first time... wow. I guess it was what made me such an addict.

2 What circumstances have given you the most exciting sexual intercourse?
I think when I first fucked my neighbor when I was still married.

3 How frequent has been the most frequent time for you?
Well, if we're talking sex with different guys, well, less than 20 seconds. If we're talking sex with different guys but they didn't know it, a couple hours.

4 Since you lost your virginity how long has been the longest time without for you?
The 2+ years I and my husband weren't having sex.

5 Give us an honest approximation of the number of times you have had sexual intercourse.
I may have to break this down. With my husband, who I gave up my virginity to, about 40 or so times in 10 years, with most of that in the first few years since we started dating. With my neighbor who I had an affair with for a year, about the same. With my 1st steady boyfriend after I got divorced, about 100 or so times. Things get vague after that....

 

[BongoGal]

4. An eighteen month hiatus was taken a few years ago. It was a fast, not a dry spell.

 

[Aphro]

This sounds like a soap opera...The Lays of Our Days.

1 What circumstances have given you the most fulfilling sexual intercourse?

Hmmm...most fulfilling would have to be the first time I was able to orgasm through intercourse, I suppose.

2 What circumstances have given you the most exciting sexual intercourse?

The recent decision to knowingly and actively explore my sexuality and sexual interests has produced some of the most exciting sex of my life (so far).

3 How frequent has been the most frequent time for you?

In the past eighteen months...probably averaging four times a week, give or take. Have been odd occasions of three times a day, too, which is not too shabby for a couple of old fogies I guess.

4 Since you lost your virginity how long has been the longest time without for you?

20 months. During my first pregnancy and following the birth of my first child... Nothing. Zero. Nada. Zip.

5 [not a competition this one! after all we are hugely different ages!]
Give us an honest approximation of the number of times you have had sexual intercourse.

Dear God. Over 25 years...sheesh. I don't know...has to be close to 1,200 I'd guess. Not been making notches in my bedpost I'm afraid!

 

[suckonsimon]

Thanks girls! Such very different journeys.
More people 'fess up here? men, women?

 

[tkinsc]

1 What circumstances have given you the most fulfilling sexual intercourse? It may sound lame, but now is the most fulfilling. We are in love and a good fit sexually. We know what buttons to push, we accept each others’ kinks, and are open and honest about what we want. It just keeps getting better. Someone mentioned baby making sex as being fulfilling. For us, it got to be a chore when it was not working.

2 What circumstances have given you the most exciting sexual intercourse? The most exciting with my wife was on our first visit to Trapeze. It was fun having sex in public, then watching her have sex with someone else. The most exciting with someone else, was with my wife’s best friend (we weren’t married at the time, although the friend was). Lots of flirting between us, led to one night of long sex.

3 How frequent has been the most frequent time for you? The most frequent was with a girlfriend in college. We put a dime in a bank every time we had sex in a year, and had over $30 at the end of the year. I can’t remember the exact amount, but I believe it was $34 and change. This included times when we were apart over various breaks. We fucked a lot, the most was eight or nine times in a day. She was hot and she was fun.

4 Since you lost your virginity how long has been the longest time without for you? Did it the first time three years younger than I can say here. Did it again with the same girl a few months later. Then have sex again for about three years, and that time was very quick, then didn’t do it again for another six months

5 [not a competition this one! after all we are hugely different ages!]
Give us an honest approximation of the number of times you have had sexual intercourse. I would say at least 2,500 times, but probably a few more.

 

[suckonsimon]

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Thanks, tk. Glad to have another man's story posted on here. Who'll be next?

 

[Biker_Type]

1 What circumstances have given you the most fulfilling sexual intercourse?
When in a committed loving trusting relationship!

2 What circumstances have given you the most exciting sexual intercourse?
I am a risk taker, so times when being observed or possibly observed.

3 How frequent has been the most frequent time for you?
When my OL and I got together 8 years ago we got after each other at least twice a day (surprised me too since we were 51 & 44 at the time). Now we're down to 5-8 times a week but given the right circumstances we'll go 2-3 times a day.
4 Since you lost your virginity how long has been the longest time without for you?
I was in an essentially 'sexless' relationship for many years after my son was born. Maybe had sex every 6-8 weeks, but it was over 8 months one time.

5 [not a competition this one! after all we are hugely different ages!]
Give us an honest approximation of the number of times you have had sexual intercourse.
Too tough a question, I'm 59 and first had sex 45 years ago, way too hard to even guess.

 

[a75]

1 What circumstances have given you the most fulfilling sexual intercourse? It was during the last months of my wife's pregnancy. She used to ride me reverse cowgirl, take my cock inside her and furiously rub her clit, leading herself to multiple explosive orgasms. For me it was great to serve the mother of my child.

2 What circumstances have given you the most exciting sexual intercourse? A lot, but since I have to pick one... A good friend had just designed a series of cocktail dresses and asked me to shoot her in the first samples, just in case something was wrong before she arranged a photo shoot with professionals. While we were working, it started raining, and we took a break to see the rain. We ended up fucking by the window.

3 How frequent has been the most frequent time for you? I met the gf after 4 months of absence and knew she was going to travel abroad for another 4 months after that. For three weeks, we were having sex at least three times per day, sometimes reaching five or six.

4 Since you lost your virginity how long has been the longest time without for you? 14 months.

5 Give us an honest approximation of the number of times you have had sexual intercourse. >=2,500

 

[suckonsimon]

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Hey, Byker Type, great to read about what started for you two eight years ago.

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a75 ... that time watching the rain, with all the classiness of the photo shoot: wow.

Thanks both!