all about gangbangs

[ObscureMotive]

ladies of literotica, come forth and spread the word. i want to hear the opinions even if basic of the women who've been gangbanged. enjoyable? horrid? did you do it again or did you shun it for life afterward? not just reserved to the women, hell. i'd like to hear mens opinions about any gangbang they participated in.

 

[Bobmi357]

I think the term gangbang has horrible connotations. Even willing, the girl is degraded into being little more than a sperm depository. And considering all the STDs you can catch these days, are you willing to trust the guys that came before you when they say "oh yeah, the condom didn't slip off". That of course assumes you manage to find a gang bang where the men all use condoms.

My only experience with one was in the stopping of it. The girl was drunk, the boys were drunk, so was I, but still sober enough to know it wasn't right.

Some people might like it, its a little too risky for my taste.

 

[Sunnflower]

Perception is everything

The popular connotation could be that gangbangs are horrible. Also could be that they are hot, erotic, and highly pleasureable both physically and visually.
It all depends on what is wanted.

Yes, I have participated in gangbangs. I arranged my own after having someone set up my first one. Rules were set, including I supply all the condoms. The rules worked, no one even pushed one of them. Someone was in charge that did not participate so that he could safeguard everything in case of problems. There were none, but it could have been a possibility. I believe that by selecting the participants and meeting them prior to the gb was essential to the fact that there were no problems and it was a very good time for all.

If any women would like to try it, I'd suggest figuring out what you want from it, make sure you are truly ready for it (emotionally. This has to be something you want, not something that someone else wants. ) Make your rules and have someone in charge of the events to make sure things are safe and progressing along the way you want it.

Always be safe, know your players.

Sunni

 

[Chuckwrox]

Re: Perception is everything

How many men were at your sessions? What were some of the rules you used?

 

[Different Guy]

I'm a dude and I find gangbangs insanely hot and way cool. But I'd never participate in one and I think it's way downgrading the girl and even though I'd love to do with it my girlfriend, it'd never happen, y'know?

Kinda like watching bad guys get killed in a movie. It's like, "yay cool he's dead" but in reality any death is wrong and I hate it.

 

[Goodnaturedguy]

I like watching them in movies but actually doing it, It's hard to imagine. What is it like Sunni? What turns you on about it?

 

[Sunnflower]

to answer some questions

How many men were at your sessions? What were some of the rules you used?

To save space and time, I'm going to answer two of the questions posed in one post.

At the first one, there were 5 guys. At the second 5. The third 5.
I do not believe I will exceed that number. Seems like a good number to me. lol

Rules....
First rule, meet first in a no pressure social environment. Denney's or a lounge worked well. It allows some interraction and gives an idea of how this person relates to others, their interests, experiences, desires. My partner in crime (my safeguard person) and I both met the prospective player and then afterwards compared notes on perception of them and how they would fit or not as the case may be.
Condoms for all penetration except oral. I supply the condoms.
No humilation either talking or demonstrated in any way. I am a lady, albeit one who is highly sexual and loves sexual play, no crude or foul language was to be permitted. There is nothing downgrading by my definitions.
No pictures were to be taken except by mutual agreement on a digital camera or polaroid that everyone would see before leaving. Actually none were taken that showed faces except mine on my own camera, so there was not much concern on that account. Being able to view the pictures lets everyone see exactly what was taken. None of the guys balked at the no pic rule, and if ever one would...auto out of the list.
No alcohol or drugs either before or during. Neither is appropriate. If someone was to tell me they need it to relax before hand.....that's another auto out of the list. Being nervous before hand is understandable, but there are other methods to address that issue.
When I say it's over, everyone leaves. After four hours of play, they wind down on their own and although no one felt rushed to go, no one hung around past a welcome point. Afterwards, it was nice to sit around a while and talk, reflect, and plan another. So far, I've never had to ask anyone to leave.

What do I like about them? What turns me on about them?
I like the edgy feel of having many hands on me at one time. I like the multiple penetrations at one time. Being the center of attention....who doesn't like that, what a huge turn on.
Seeing 5 guys with hard ons, all of them wanting to have me touch, to lick, suck, bend over before them or ride them....wow, powerfully erotic, again...a huge turn on to me.
Familiarity to me is a turn on. All the guys are straight, none have any phobias on incidental contact and all of them are hot and raring to go again.
Three of the guys have been at all three events, first one had two guys that were great, but have moved out of the area. Second one had two that were in town on assignments or contracts. One has returned and made the third event. It's good to have the three guys as 'anchors'. They help things move along and are totally at ease with each other.

Welp, that's about it. Hope that helps answer your questions. Thinking about all this has made me want to start planning another!
Sunni

 

[Psia]

Different Guy,
You expressed it perfectly! I feel the exact same way. It's a totally hot fantasy (great for masturbating), but in real life I just couldn't do it.

That's not to say other people shouldn't-if they are cool with it I say more power to you!

Psia

 

[Psia]

Sunni,
I love how thought out and careful you are. It sounds like that planning allows the experience to be awesome! One question, though: In the average session, about how many times do you get it on? More to the point, how many orgasms per man do you average? I'm guessing you have a happy number of orgasms yourself.
Psia

 

[ObscureMotive]

I must also compliment on how carefully planned and set up the gangbang was, it seemed like you had everything in control and that's probably the only way it'd ever be enjoyable to a female, unless they were one who liked that loss of control thing. Sounds like some exciting fun to me. My only question, is it hard to handle that many men at once? Assuming it was -all- at once, oh sorry. heh. Thought up a second, do you plan on doing a fourth?

 

[shescurious]

Thanks for sharing your experiences Sunni. I had always thought this was an unrealistic fantasy due to the risk of transmitting STD's and the trust issues. I was obviously wrong. I would love to see more replies to this thread.

 

[nymphette]

I haven't technically been gangbanged since there was no intercourse involved, but back when I was a virgin I once fooled around with 3 guys at the same time. It was definitely the most exciting sexual experience of my life up until that point, and it still ranks up there pretty high.

It was a hot summer afternoon, and I went to the house of a friend of mine who lived just down the street. I had been spending a lot of time there the last few days because she had a swimming pool, and her parents were out of town. But she wasn't there (I think she was at the mall). It was just her older brother, Jeremy, and his two friends, Michael and Jeff. They were swimming and drinking frozen margaritas. I'd always had a crush on Jeremy, and his friends weren't bad looking either; especially with their shirts off. So, I had a drink and joined them in the pool.

We played some silly water games, and were flirting and having a good time. Then we moved into the jacuzzi. We were just drinking our margaritas and casually talking when I felt a foot start to lightly stroke up and down my calf. Because of all the bubbles, I couldn't tell exactly who was doing it. I knew it wasn't Jeff because he was sitting right next to me, and he didn't have the right angle. So it was either Michael or Jeremy. But they were both acting really nonchalant, and I couldn't tell which one of them was doing it. The foot started to very slowly move up my leg and rub against the inside of my thigh. At this point, I caught Michael giving a sly smile and looking at me through the corner of his eye, and I knew that the foot belonged to him. It was moving closer and closer to my crotch, but couldn't quite get there because I was squeezing my legs together tightly. Finally, I just said "what the hell," and I parted my thighs a bit and let his foot go where it wanted to. Michael looked at me when I did this, and I just smiled coyly at him. His toes were wiggling all around, exploring. Sometimes they would hit the right spot, but they would mostly miss. Nonetheless, it still felt nice, and the naughtiness of it really excited me. I was definitely gettting aroused. I reached under the water and grabbed hold of his foot. I adjusted it so that his heel was pressing against my clit. I discreetly started to hunch my hips against his foot.

But I wasn't quite discreet enough (I think it was the uneven breathing that gave me away), and Jeff picked up on what was going on. He put his hand under the water and lightly massaged my thigh, right above my knee. I just tilted my head to the side and looked at him longingly. He leaned down and kissed me deeply. Michael removed his foot from my crotch and quickly slid over beside me. He removed my top and begin to squeeze and suck on my tits. Jeremy didn't know what to make of what was going on and asked if he should go inside. I slithered over to his side of the tub and gave him a passionate french kiss and reached my hand inside of his swim trunks and started rubbing his cock.

Before long, we all moved inside, got naked, and dried off. They almost talked me into it, but I refused to let any of them fuck me. But I did take care of them all, one way or another, and they definitely took care of me

It's one of my biggest fantasies to be in an all out gangbang with maybe 6 or 7 guys. But I would want it to be spontaneous, not contrived, so I don't know how likely that is to happen. I guess if I hung out at a frat house enough, it would be bound to happen sooner or later, right?

I'm a dude and I find gangbangs insanely hot and way cool. But I'd never participate in one and I think it's way downgrading the girl and even though I'd love to do with it my girlfriend, it'd never happen, y'know?

I think people assume that gangbangs have to be about degradation because most of the ones you see in the porno movies are like this. But it doesn't have to be like that. The scenarios that Sunnflower described don't sound degrading to me at all. If a guy were to have sex with 5 women at once, is he being degraded?

So while I don't think a gangbang would necessarily HAVE to be degrading, the ones I fantasize about definitely are. The idea of completely losing control and being used by a group of guys; being treated like a "sperm depository," is extremely exciting to me. Rough sex, hair pulling, name calling... yummy.

 

[SexyChele]

Why condoms for penetration but nothing for oral? Or are the condoms simply used for prevention of pregnancy? I mean, there are STDs that are transmitted orally, so I'm not understanding that one.

I had a bad enough experience with two guys at the same time. Not willing to invite even more misery by upping the number involved, thank you.

 

[sheath]

Why condoms for penetration but nothing for oral? Or are the condoms simply used for prevention of pregnancy? I mean, there are STDs that are transmitted orally, so I'm not understanding that one.

Yeah, what she said!

You beat me to it.

S.

 

[Psia]

Nice Post, Nymphette!
I agree, part of the reason I couldn't do it for real is that when I fantasize it is rough and crazy and I'm not in control. In real life I couldn't roll with that.
Psia

 

[nymphette]

Why condoms for penetration but nothing for oral? Or are the condoms simply used for prevention of pregnancy? I mean, there are STDs that are transmitted orally, so I'm not understanding that one.

You seriously use condoms for oral sex? Do you use saran wrap when a guy goes down on you? Personally, I think that is taking the whole safer sex thing a little too far. I mean, everything in life has risks. I've never used condoms for oral sex, and I've never gotten an STD. I know it's possible to get STDs through oral sex, but it's not nearly as risky as unprotected vaginal sex.

 

[Chuckwrox]

I haven't technically been gangbanged since there was no intercourse involved, but back when I was a virgin I once fooled around with 3 guys at the same time. It was definitely the most exciting sexual experience of my life up until that point, and it still ranks up there pretty high.

Well that sure was hot to read, Nymphette! Thx!

 

[nymphette]

Well that sure was hot to read, Nymphette! Thx!

You're welcome Chuck

 

[Psia]

You seriously use condoms for oral sex? Do you use saran wrap when a guy goes down on you? Personally, I think that is taking the whole safer sex thing a little too far. I mean, everything in life has risks. I've never used condoms for oral sex, and I've never gotten an STD. I know it's possible to get STDs through oral sex, but it's not nearly as risky as unprotected vaginal sex.

I seriously used them for oral sex before I was married. Every time until I realized I was with "the one." Not nearly as tasty, I'll grant you that, blech!
Psia

 

[Goodnaturedguy]

Nice Post, Nymphette!
I agree, part of the reason I couldn't do it for real is that when I fantasize it is rough and crazy and I'm not in control. In real life I couldn't roll with that.
Psia

Theres something incredibly erotic about a woman that fantasises a gang bang the way I think most men do, myself included. Nymphettes experience though would be the only way I could be involved in one.

 

[Etoile]

You seriously use condoms for oral sex? Do you use saran wrap when a guy goes down on you? Personally, I think that is taking the whole safer sex thing a little too far. I mean, everything in life has risks. I've never used condoms for oral sex, and I've never gotten an STD. I know it's possible to get STDs through oral sex, but it's not nearly as risky as unprotected vaginal sex.

There is no such thing as "taking safe sex too far." You haven't gotten an STD from oral sex because you haven't been with somebody who's had one while you were engaged in the act. The idea that it's "not nearly as risky" does not hold up under statistical scientific scrutiny. Everything in life may have risks, but why expose yourself to an additional risk if you don't have to? STDs are not only a medical hassle, they carry a social stigma and in some cases (herpes being one of them) they are life-changing. If one is not monogamous with a partner, one should be practicing safe sex - and that includes protections during oral sex. (Dental dams are much better than saran wrap, btw.)

 

[SexyChele]

You seriously use condoms for oral sex? Do you use saran wrap when a guy goes down on you? Personally, I think that is taking the whole safer sex thing a little too far. I mean, everything in life has risks. I've never used condoms for oral sex, and I've never gotten an STD. I know it's possible to get STDs through oral sex, but it's not nearly as risky as unprotected vaginal sex.

Well, since I no longer engage in casual sex, this is not an issue for me. I am a product of the 70s and 80s when everyone was fucking everyone else casually. Then came 1984/1985 and AIDS. Holy shit, something there was no cure for! It scared most of us back then into a realization that casual sex with just anyone can kill you.

My last casual sexual encounter was in 1985, and was on pins and needles until the AIDS test came back stating that I was disease-free. Since then I've boned up on various diseases, especially in light of how many folks seem to think that penetration (or ony anal sex) is dangerous but oral somehow eludes STDs. And as Etoile has stated, one can contract Herpes through oral - and that's genital herpes and it is not curable.

No, I do not like giving blowjobs by using condoms, nor do I care for dental dams. I have had very few partners since 1985 (you can count them on one hand and still have a majority of fingers left over, and that includes my current partner), but the partners I am with are monogamous.

 

[sheath]

You seriously use condoms for oral sex? Do you use saran wrap when a guy goes down on you? Personally, I think that is taking the whole safer sex thing a little too far. I mean, everything in life has risks. I've never used condoms for oral sex, and I've never gotten an STD. I know it's possible to get STDs through oral sex, but it's not nearly as risky as unprotected vaginal sex.

If that's the way you feel, that's fine. I think Etoile and Chele have made the facts pretty clear.

My question: What about the guys you are doing this to? What if they prefer you to use a condom? Would that automatically opt them out?

They can get an STD just as easily as you can...and it doesn't necessarily have to come from you. They can get an STD from the traces of semen left in your mouth by other men. That is one HELL of a chance!

By not using a condom and putting yourself at risk...hey, your choice. But not using a condom puts THEM at risk too, and putting someone else at risk is COMPLETELY unacceptable behavior.

S.

 

[Noor]

You seriously use condoms for oral sex? Do you use saran wrap when a guy goes down on you? Personally, I think that is taking the whole safer sex thing a little too far. I mean, everything in life has risks. I've never used condoms for oral sex, and I've never gotten an STD. I know it's possible to get STDs through oral sex, but it's not nearly as risky as unprotected vaginal sex.

Yes I do. You are very lucky. You can never be too safe. I have two close friends who got herpes from oral sex, both so bad they have had to be hospitalized several times since they initially got it. I got PID from unprotected oral sex, you'd love it, having multiple drugs every two hours round the clock for two weeks then months of antibotics, so much you can get sirum sickness and your hair falls out, yeah, he was good but no one is that good.

I have known 3 women with aids, 2 dead, 1 dying. The two that are dead got it from their partners, one a bar tender and the other from her husband- she didn't find out about it until she had 3 children who are also all HIV positive.

Some people think, aids, big deal, you take drugs, the cocktails, you survive. Any idea what it is like for women with aids, even those who got it from blood tranfusions? There is virtually no support, you must live in a secret, there are few communities where it is acceptable to be a woman with aids. The drugs are tested on men so they work better on men, women frequently "fail their drugs" ie get toxic reactions from them and have to stop taking them. Everyone is so afraid of women with aids and yet it is mainly men who spread it during sex, with IV drug use and transfusions aids is more equal. The first woman I knew with aids had 8 sex partners her entire life, she was on the pill and had unprotected sex with them, since it was early in the epidemic no one knew what was wrong with her so she continued to have sex even with full blown Aids. Her second lover gave it to her, the next 6 never got it from her.

Then there is the dying, the wasting, the body shape changes, hair lose, skin problems, nueropathy, strokes, dementia, intracable pain, constant yeast and fungal infections.....

Life and remaining healthy is certainly worth the inconvenience of safe sex.

Off my soap box.

 

[Chuckwrox]

My question: What about the guys you are doing this to? What if they prefer you to use a condom? Would that automatically opt them out?

They're probably not thinking with the correct Head...